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Where Do You Start When You Want To Get Sex Positive Information Out There?

What do you need to have to be a sex educator and/or have a sex positive business? With Reid Mihalko from www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, I’d like to see of examples of respectful goodbye rituals from long term partners to unhoop from each other and smooth out their […]

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Respectful Goodbye Ritual For Closing A Connection

What’s an example of a caring ending ritual for releasing hooks and transitioning out of a deep connection? With Reid Mihalko from www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, I’d like to see of examples of respectful goodbye rituals from long term partners to unhoop from each other and smooth out […]

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When Do You Try To Upgrade, and When Do You Set Boundaries?

If your partner asks for something that’s challenging, when do you try to step up and when do you say no? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my question is say my partner ask to meet a need for them, which is difficult for me. […]

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How Do You Handle Missed-Promises?

If a friend promises something but can’t delivery… What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Last video. Hugh Jackman Maroon 5. In this video, how do you handle mispromises, you have a friend who promised you something and they couldn’t deliver. How do you handle mispromises? Cathy: […]

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What Do You Do If You’re Banned From A Community And Don’t Know What You Did?

Finding a balance between making it safe for people to share boundary violations and protecting their privacy, and removing people who violate boundaries- perhaps unknowingly is challenging. How do you handle it? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What happens if you get banned from a community? How should you […]

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Are There People Who Are Undateable?

What makes a person undateable? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Is there anyone undateable? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vatuli from the http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And BBC did a documentary called the Undateables, people that no ones dating and the person wrote in just find that people […]

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You’re Partner’s Sex Drive On Again, Off Again? What Can You Do?

How can you take care of yourself when you’re partners sexual connection is on-again, off-again? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -“  Reid: Is it “we have had” or “I have […]

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Are You Clean or Clear When Your STI Test Comes Back Negative?

Some people us the word “clean” when their STI or STD test results come back negative… Is there an upgrade? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hey Cathy, I just got tested and I’m clean. How about you?  Cathy: Reid, I love that you got tested, and you’re clean whether […]

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He’s Just Not Interested In Sex With Me… What Do I Do?

What can you do when your partner doesn’t want to have sex with you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer […]

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Lying and The Three Strikes Rule… What Is It And How Do You Use It?

How does the 3 Strikes Rule apply to lying? Does changing your mind count as a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cathy promised me that was the last video but now we have to shoot another one.  Cathy: Actually I-  Reid: You lied to me!  Cathy: No, you […]

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