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ALL FIXED! WHEW! — We’re Experiencing Technical Difficulties…

UPDATE: Site is back up and running. Apologies for any inconvience! And many thanks to Mitch, my tech friend, and to the support people at Dreamhost. You all rock my world. I’m sorry if you’re running into problems with my site at the moment. I’ve got my best people working on fixing the blogpost links, […]

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I’m Almost Fully Vaccinated and I’m Freaking Out! 😬

I got my 2nd vaccine dose almost two weeks ago, and I’m worried…

I’m worried about being vaccinated and going back to seeing people.

Will It Be a Roaring 20’s, Vax On/Masks Off Summer? Or Will This Be the Year of Maskless Heartbreaks & Trainwrecks?

Think about it… Maybe this doesn’t apply to you, but how many people are starving for touch, affection, and going to be voraciously looking for love this summer?

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Free Permission Party Orientation

Curious about how a Virtual Permission Party works? Looking to attend Crista and Reid’s upcoming event? Join play party facilitators Crista Reid and Reid Mihalko for a FREE 27min orientation + 10mins for Q&A!

In 27 minutes, you will take away:

⭐ How to feel more confident engaging during a virtual play party
⭐ How to functionally use the tech and get your groove on in front of the webcam
⭐ A feel for the cultural design of this space and our consent culture system
⭐ Lots of tidbits on being a good, giving, and game virtual play party goer

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FREE Permission Party Orientation

Curious about Virtual Play Parties? Come to our FREE orientation to see what they’re all about!

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Attn: Sex Educators! How To Give Good Freemium

Attention: Sex Educators! Looking for powerful and easy ways to help people AND expand your sex ed business? Check out the free training Cathy and I put together for you!

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I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?

I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’m a guy who has had sex with women for my entire life but I think I’m gay or bi. How do I ethically have sex with both men and […]

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How To Figure Out Your Specific Needs When You Feel Ashamed of Them?

  How To Figure Out Your Specific Needs When You Feel Ashamed of them?   Cathy: Someone wrote it and said, “How do you go about finding out what your specific needs are when you feel ashamed for needing things at all from anybody else? For example I don’t feel comfortable with asking for a […]

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How To Avoid Procrastination On That Great Workshop Idea?

  How To Avoid Procrastination On That Great Workshop Idea? Cathy: Have you ever had a great idea for a workshop but you kept procrastinating and struggling with it maybe because it meant so much to you, you’re afraid you wouldn’t get it right? This is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from […]

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Reid’s Broadcasting Live Inside The Train!

Reid’s Broadcasting Live Inside The Train!         Reid: Hello sex geek! It is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I’m trying to live stream from the train. Let’s see if I can do this…..there you go. I know it’s noisy but I just wanted to do…..to share this really fun experience. Woh! It’s […]

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VIRTUAL Blowjob Grad School

You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Fellatio! And Do It Without Ever Leaving Your Home! If you… Would like to take your current skills and craft to Jedi levels… Ask questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks… Leave your loved ones stammering, […]

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