Dating

Romance Home Run – Step 1: Are you flirting with a Cat or a Dog?

Romance Home Run Step 1 – Are you flirting with a Cat or a Dog? What’s a Romance Home Run? And do you know how to hit one? Today we pose the questions: What the difference between flirting and being romantic? And how do you hit a Romance Home Run in your relationships? Before we can step up to bat, let’s discuss…  The Difference […]

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Romance Home Run – Step 2: Adding Love Languages to Your Flirting and Romancing

Romance Home Run Step 2 – Adding Love Languages to Your Flirting and Romancing Are you ready for Step 2 in creating a Romance Home Run? Here comes the pitch… And… BOOOM! Knock it out of the park, why don’cha! (And your lovers go wild…) If you missed the previous Step 1 post and you’re looking to up your batting average […]

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Myth Busting: “Keeping It Casual” = You Don’t Care

The Common Misconception:“Keep It Casual” Automatically Means “Not Caring” How many times have you (or someone you know) started dating someone with whom you clicked, only to find yourself madly in love with them ASAP… And then, a year later, find yourselves mad at each other and no longer in love? (And still emotionally attached […]

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The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important?

What Is The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important? The Venn Diagram of Compatability (A.K.A. The Venn Diagram of “Is This Even a Good Idea?”) consists of four circles that Misha Bonaventura and I created. We suggest folks seeking to date or hook up take a peek at the four circles BEFORE […]

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From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure – 5-Week Course

Finding yourself in over your head trying to balance this world of relationship, sluttiness, sexy possibility, love chemicals, and secure attachment? Know someone who’s caught feelings when they didn’t want to? Have you tried not to catch feelings only to have your stomach and heart tied up in knots after having great sex with great […]

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Do You Fib To Empower Someone Else’s Feelings?

Do You Fib To Empower Someone Else’s Feelings?           Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “When is it okay to fib to spare someone’s feelings? Are you just empowering them if you do that or just being a nice person?” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: And the person […]

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Is Micro-cheating A Big Deal?

Is Micro-cheating A Big Deal?           Cathy:  What is micro-cheating and should you be concerned about it? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ who’s doing his getting rid of the shine. Reid: I’m all oily. Cathy: And I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: I want to look professional. Cathy: And […]

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What Do Sex Educators Do?

What Do Sex Educators Do?               Cathy: What does a sex educator actually do? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: I’m here with Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ sitting right next to me. Cathy: Yup. So Reid, what is it that a sex educator, if you were defining […]

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Getting A Sex Doll To Satisfy Your Partner When You’re Not Being Frisky

Getting A Sex Doll To Satisfy Your Partner When You’re Not Being Frisky         Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do you guys feel about getting  a sex doll to satisfy your partner when you’re not feeling frisky?” They’re wondering if it’s a good way to keep people happy when one […]

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Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone

Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love you to talk about the fear that one’s desires are too unrealistic or niche to express or share with anyone.” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ staying right by my […]

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