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These upcoming, virtual workshops & events will happen LIVE on Zoom. Some will be recorded. Some not. Some have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please see the registration page for info!

**DEC 10-12th —

There are many business summits out there, yet how many of them are truly sex-positive and have speakers that actually get and support you for the difference you make in sex, love, and relationships that you are bringing to the world?

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MAR 3-10th, 2022 —
Relationship Alchemy Fearless Relating & Transformational Deep Dive w/ Monique Darling & Reid Mihalko

Looking to reinvent, rediscover, and upgrade your relationships? Need some sun and warmth AND a way to reboot your love & intimacy? Have we got a week for YOU…

Facebook Event HERE.

Eventbrite Tickets HERE.

ICYMI… **ATTN: Event Producers, Educators, Workshop Leaders & Performers Who Want To Run In-Person Events in 2022…

What would YOU do if you were running an in-person event with 150 people? How about 70-THOUSAND people? (Yes, that says 70,000!) 👀 👀 👀 Looking to run LIVE, in-person events in 2022? Free discussion panel on live event protocols from educators who ran 150-to-70K ppl events this summer… Hear what worked, what didn’t, what they’re tweaking for next year! ❤ Register to get the replay links…

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Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? 🐙 And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!

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These events repeat and may not always be updated in the chronological listing in a speedily manner…

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These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!

No In-Advanced Events Scheduled Yet. Please Check Back Later…

That Have Been Recorded…

Just because you missed it, doesn’t mean you can’t participate! Purchase access to the recordings and bonuses NOW…

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Get lifetime access to Dating Your Species for just $47. Watch the videos, do the worksheets, learn how to avoid the Venn Diagram of Misery and start Dating Your Species!
CLICK HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

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**Offerings for Sex Educators,
Therapists, Workshop Facilitators,
and the Sex-Ed Adjacent…

Wanting To Give Up Being a Sex Educator? —

This FREE CALL for YOU Can Help…

Are you in or adjacent to the sex education field and wondering if being in sex ed is even relevant anymore? We’re feeling it, too, so let’s get together and nerd out on why our work is SO DAMN IMPORTANT and what we can do to avoid falling into a well of existential crisis, get re-inspired, and prevent burning out.

When: NOW! The call replay awaits you!!!

Register to get the replay access link sent to your inbox ASAP! —

Attn: Educators! Reach More People and Set Yourself Up for the Holidays

Join Cathy of, Reid of, and some amazing sex educators for 2-days of creating (and actually implementing) your very own kick-ass freemium! Help those in need while you build your credibility as an educator and turn the curious into clients!

More info and tickets HERE >>
Sign-Up for the FREE training on How To Give Good Freemium HERE >>

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Sarah schwab October 10, 2012 at 12:45 pm

Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.


Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:13 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements ( and to follow my FB Fan Page – – and my Twitter account –

Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.

Yours in sex geekery,


Lucien Vattel December 28, 2012 at 12:47 am

Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.



Dorothy January 2, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.


Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:07 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements ( and to follow my FB Fan Page – – and my Twitter account –

Hope to meet you one day!



Miriam December 13, 2013 at 3:28 am


I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”



Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD


bea of san luis obispo December 18, 2013 at 2:36 am

Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea


Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm

The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!


Bridget May 28, 2014 at 4:51 am

I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!


Reid August 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: – let me know how I can help! 🙂


Laurence McGrath May 11, 2019 at 10:36 pm

So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!


Heather July 25, 2019 at 10:14 am

Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?


Reid October 4, 2019 at 11:19 am

Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!


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