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Monkeypox News: As safer sex nerds, you’re probably already following various sources on the evolving monkeypox situation. If you’re wondering what resources I’m finding useful and sharing with my communities, you can see (and share) those resources HERE. Questions? You can email me at Support@ReidAboutSex.com.

COVID-19 News: As new information comes in and we all figure out how to navigate today’s constantly shifting landscape around COVID-19 and vaccines [Some useful resources HERE], please continue to check back here for updates on events being re-designed to happen virtually, being postponed, or reschedule. For events happening several months into the future, while there may be no change in status; I am considering all options (and informing myself of better options). I will update ticket holders when there is more to know. Thank you for your patience. Questions? Email me at Support@ReidAboutSex.com.

Looking for Anti-Racism Resources? Just in case you’re looking for resources that might help you and your loved ones around unlearning and learning around systemic oppression, police violence, and anti-racism work here are three links I found invaluable for my journey. Please share, and deep gratitude to all the people who contributed to the making of these resources… Scaffolded Anti-Racist Resources, National Resource List, and the Social Justice Love Languages.

On this page, you’ll find the following:

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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)

These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please see the registration page for info!

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JOIN REID IN LAS VEGAS
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AUGUST 12 & 13th, LAS VEGAS — 2 NIGHTS OF PLAY PARTIES and MINI-WORKSHOPS
with Reid, Monique Darling and Peter

Looking to meet (and potentially frolic) with some amazing, sex-positive people? Never been to a play party but have always wanted to? Consider joining us at one or both events… Each night will feature a different, mini-workshop: Friday features Speed Flirting with Reid, and Saturday is a Touch of Kink with Monique and Reid! Come one night or both… Tickets will sell out so grab yours now!

Tickets and info to Fri, Aug 12th’s Speed Flirting + Play Party – 7:30-Midnite – HERE>
Facebook Invite – HERE> – tell your friends!

Tickets and info to Sat, Aug 13th’s Touch of Kink + Play Party – 7:30-11:30pm – HERE>
Facebook Invite – HERE> – spread the word!

JOIN REID IN SAN FRANCISCO

AUG 15th, SAN FRANCISCO — GOING TO BURNING MAN?! SEX & RELATIONSHIPS ADVICE PANEL with Reid and Friends…

Join the heads of Bonobo Network, the Bay Area’s leading s*x-positive membership community, along with the founders of LEGENDARY Burning Man camps Orgy DomeGender BlenderQueerDome, and Camp Beaverton (Reid founded it!) for this rollicking live panel discussion on how to make the most out of your Burning Man experience! 

August 15, 6-9PM Pacific, the Center, 548 Fillmore St, San Francisco – Get Tickets HERE>

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JOIN REID IN SAN DIEGO

AUG 21st, SAN DIEGO/La MESA, CA — WANT TO CREATE AMAZING GROUP SEX EXPERIENCES?!

Constructing Extraordinary Moresomes with Reid, Major, & Monique, a LIVE Lab

2:30-5:30pm PACIFIC — Join Monique Darling, Reid Mihalko, and Major Tom; three or moresome choreographer extraordinaires, as they share tips for overcoming fears and concerns (yours AND your partner’s), multitasking tactics for satisfying two or more lovers at once, how to evade common threesome faux pa’s, boundary negotiation and safer love making protocols. 

Tickets and Info HERE>
Facebook Invite – HERE> – spread the word!

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AUG 21st, SAN DIEGO/La MESA, CA —
LIVE MUSIC AT A PLAY PARTY? WTF???

All Gender Naughty Temple Party with Monique, Peter, Reid & Mini-Concert with Dave Booda!

If you’ve heard Reid’s epic New Year’s Eve play party tale featuring Dave Booda [Watch it on Youtube, courtesy of Bawdy Storytelling], then you know how much Reid adores Dave’s musical talents and the awesome sex-positive community he and Monique Darling attract… Now is YOUR CHANCE to join us and get your own, first-hand experience of the shenanigans Reid and Dave get into!

Tickets and info to Sun, Aug 21st’s Party – 7:30-11:30pm PACIFIC – HERE>
Facebook Invite – HERE> – tell your friends!

AUG 22nd, SAN DIEGO/ENCINITAS, CA —
A MONDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY IN ENCINITAS?! WTF! I’M IN!

Speed Flirting & All Gender Temple Party w/Reid & Monique

Come for Speed-Flirting, and stay for the Play Party! We’ll kick off the evening with Speed-Flirting, a rambunctious, social event for men, women, humans of all ages. The usual definition of flirting as just “a sxxual thang” limits our ability to engage with people playfully. What if flirting meant “increasing the fun and play in any interaction?” Perfect for singles, couples, and entire communities, Speed-Flirting gives us the tools to go deeper than just a wink and a smile… After we flirt, then we kick off the play party with a Welcome Circle (Read more on how that happens via the ticket link or FB invite)…

Tickets and info to Mon, Aug 22nd’s Party – 7:30-11:30pm PACIFIC – HERE>
Facebook Invite – HERE> – tell your friends!

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JOIN REID IN SEATTLE
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AUG 26-31, near SEATTLE, WA —
MAKE NEW FRIENDS! RELAX IN NATURE! NERD OUT WITH REID!

Get Ready for Conscious Connections — Experience 6 wonderful days of emotionally intelligent, poly-friendly, eco-sexy, open-hearted community & connection!

Join Reid, amazing teachers, and like-minded adults at Sahale Retreat Center on the Kitsap Peninsula for the Conscious Connection Retreat – INFO & Application HERE!

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JOIN REID IN PORTLAND, OR
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SEPT 15-18th — PORTLAND, OREGON
Loving More’s Polyamory Retreat is BACK!

Curious about consensual non-monogamy? Already poly and looking for more poly people? Join yours truly and dozens of amazing polyamorous and ethical non-monogamy folks for several days of connection, celebration, and nerding out!

Learn more and Register ASAP — Limited to 70 people — INFO HERE.

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JOIN REID IN MEXICO
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NOV 1st-8th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — MONIQUE DARLING’S TRANSFORMATIONAL INTENSIVE FOR EXTRAORDINARY FACILITATORS

Seven Days, Nine Instructors! — Join Reid and a host of Monique Darling’s favorite teachers for a weeklong deep dive into taking your teaching and facilitation abilities to the next level! Read the fabulous event description and which teachers will be teaching via either link below…

Ticket & Registration Info HERE>
Spread the word on Facebook HERE.

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JOIN REID IN PORTLAND, OR
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NOV 18-20th, PORTLAND, OR** —
Join 20 Sex Educators for 3 Days Focusing On Upgrading Our Teaching & Public Speaking Skills, Especially When Using Cameras, Microphones, Etc.

If you identify as a sex-positive entrepreneur and you’d like to kick-more ass when it comes to teaching & speaking… If you’d like to feel more comfortable and confident when it comes to using microphones, cameras, being interviewed, etc… SexGeekConservatory.com might be the 3-days for YOU to take your skills to the next level! Click the link and to secure your seat ASAP!*

*Class is limited to 20 people who register! Scholarships available – application link on registration page.


ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…

These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…

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DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?

Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…

Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!

From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:

  • Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
  • Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
  • Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
  • Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
  • Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!

Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!

Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.

Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.

Link to grab your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map

ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!

Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? 🐙 And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!

Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map


REPEATING
WEEKLY & MONTHLY
EVENTS…

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Geek Out with Reid EVERY Month — Start for $1

Test-Drive working with Reid every month (PLUS, get immediate accessing to over $197-worth of relationship and sexual self-confidence building training videos) for Reid’s special $1 Trial Offer!


FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)

These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!

No In-Advanced Events Scheduled Yet. Please Check Back Later…


PAST WORKSHOPS —
That Have Been Recorded…

Just because you missed it, doesn’t mean you can’t participate! Purchase access to the recordings and bonuses NOW…

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DATING YOUR SPECIES, the workshop

Get lifetime access to Dating Your Species for just $47. Watch the videos, do the worksheets, learn how to avoid the Venn Diagram of Misery and start Dating Your Species!
CLICK HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

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Blowjob Grad School, the workshop

Get lifetime access to Bj Grad School — the videos, the handout — for just $47!
Click HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

**Offerings for Sex Educators,
Therapists, Workshop Facilitators,
and the Sex-Ed Adjacent…

Wanting To Give Up Being a Sex Educator? —

This FREE CALL for YOU Can Help…

Are you in or adjacent to the sex education field and wondering if being in sex ed is even relevant anymore? We’re feeling it, too, so let’s get together and nerd out on why our work is SO DAMN IMPORTANT and what we can do to avoid falling into a well of existential crisis, get re-inspired, and prevent burning out.

When: NOW! The call replay awaits you!!!

Register to get the replay access link sent to your inbox ASAP! — https://bit.ly/grow-during-a-crisis

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Attn: Educators! Reach More People, Help More People, Attract More Paying Clients…

Join Cathy of TheIntimacyDojo.com, Reid of ReidAboutSex.com, and some amazing sex educators for 2-days of recorded classes focusing on creating (and actually implementing) your very own kick-ass freemium! Help those in need while you build your credibility as an educator and turn the curious into clients!

More info and course registration HERE >>
Sign-Up for the FREE training on How To Give Good Freemium HERE >>

ICYMI… **ATTN: Event Producers, Educators, Workshop Leaders & Performers Who Want To Run In-Person Events in 2022…

What would YOU do if you were running an in-person event with 150 people? How about 70-THOUSAND people? (Yes, that says 70,000!) 👀 👀 👀 Looking to run LIVE, in-person events in 2022? Free discussion panel on live event protocols from educators who ran 150-to-70K ppl events this summer… Hear what worked, what didn’t, what they’re tweaking for next year! ❤ Register to get the replay links…

Register to watch the replay: https://bit.ly/running-live-events-during-a-pandemic



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Sarah schwab October 10, 2012 at 12:45 pm

Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.

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Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:13 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex

Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.

Yours in sex geekery,
REiD

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Lucien Vattel December 28, 2012 at 12:47 am

Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.

lucien

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Dorothy January 2, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.

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Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:07 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex

Hope to meet you one day!

Hugs,
REiD

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Miriam December 13, 2013 at 3:28 am

Reid,

I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”

Hugs!

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Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD

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bea of san luis obispo December 18, 2013 at 2:36 am

Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea

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Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm

The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!

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Bridget May 28, 2014 at 4:51 am

Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget

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Reid August 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂

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Laurence McGrath May 11, 2019 at 10:36 pm

So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!

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Heather July 25, 2019 at 10:14 am

Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?

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Reid October 4, 2019 at 11:19 am

Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!

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