Looking for Anti-Racism Resources? Just in case you’re looking for resources that might help you and your loved ones around unlearning and learning around systemic oppression, police violence, and anti-racism work here are three links I found invaluable for my journey. Please share, and deep gratitude to all the people who contributed to the making of these resources… Scaffolded Anti-Racist Resources, National Resource List, and the Social Justice Love Languages.

On this page, you’ll find the following:

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These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please see the registration page for info!

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Dance. Connection. Nature.

Are you looking for a place to experience learning and growth, while having a lot of fun and making great connections in the process? Do you want to be able to practice being present while connect with a community? And do you want to be able to do all that knowing that you and all the people around you are sober? Then this is the event for you…

Join Reid at SoulPlay – The premier, sober festival in the US!

SoulPlay is a 4-day immersive experience filled with transformational workshops, celebration, dancing, connection, and play. This is not your typical festival. It is an experience designed to facilitate learning and growth, while having a lot of fun and making great connections in the process. Whether this is your first time stepping into an experience like this or you’ve been walking the embodiment path for a while, SoulPlay meets you where you are.

SoulPlay strives to create a container through which we can all be our fully expressed selves. The depth, joy and playfulness we dream of is only realized if we are all included, welcomed and celebrated. We are continually working as an organization and as a community to support this vision.

CLICK HERE to learn more AND SAVE $20-OFF to get your tickets before SoulPlay sells out!

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Can YOU Say 350ft Slip ‘N Slide In 2023?

Are you a sex educator, workshop leader, toy blogger, Tantra teacher, therapist, sex worker, burlesque performer, coach (or someone whose career falls under the sex-positive entrepreneur umbrella?)…

If you need some R&R and want to nerd out on how to build a more successful business helping people… Then Sex Geek Summer Camp is for YOU!

Celebrating our 7th IN-PERSON Camp this June 17th-21st, 2023, in Portland, Oregon!!!!!

Make new friends and geek out on the business behind the business of sex ed + a 350-ft Slip ‘N Slide + S’mores!!!! What are you waiting for?!

Visit for more info and to secure your seat at the only 5-day/4-night business, marketing, and networking camp specifically for sex-positive professionals!

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JUNE 23rd-JULY 2nd, Southern Oregon — Network for a New Culture
2023 Summer Camp West

Network for a New Culture (NFNC) aspires to create a world where we can all be free to come from our hearts, thereby changing the culture from the inside out. NFNC facilitates events and programs designed to help heal gender wounds, and wounds between the individual and the community, and between the community and the Earth.

The intention of their Summer Camp is co-creating the transformation of our Culture into Universal Love in the deepest sense. By Universal Love we mean deep intimacy, transparency, honesty, spirituality, genuine equality, compassion, and sexual freedom all through the context of community.

Join Reid at NFNC Summer camp where he’ll be presenting his famous Dating Your Species workshop on Monday, June 26th 7:30 pm – 9 pm AND The Octopus of Jealousy workshop Thursday, June 29th 2:30 – 4:30 pm

CLICK HERE or to learn more and find out how YOU can be part of this Community.

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OCT 20-22nd, PORTLAND, OR* —
Join 20 Sex Educators for 3 Days Focusing On Upgrading Our Teaching & Public Speaking Skills, Especially When Using Cameras, Microphones, Etc.

If you identify as a sex-positive entrepreneur and you’d like to kick-more ass when it comes to teaching & speaking… If you’d like to feel more comfortable and confident when it comes to using microphones, cameras, being interviewed, etc… might be the 3-days for YOU to take your skills to the next level! Click the link and to secure your seat ASAP!*

*Class is limited to 20 people who register! Scholarships available – application link on registration page.


These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!

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Are You Ready To Unleash the Beast?! Up Your Sexual Self-Confidence & Uncage Your Inner Primal Animal? – Let Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling take you on a weeklong immersion into the deepest, naughtiest, most wanton, parts of your desire and passion. (And give you skills to pass that knowledge on to your lovers!)

Come join us for this week-long exploration if you’re ready to dive deep where you will:

  • Discover how to explore sxx and intimacy with the least amount of drama and the most amount of pleasure by unlocking your sxxual self-expression and erotic creativity.
  • Unlearn the fallacy that your partner must be equally as excited for you to be able to ask for the sxx you want.
  • Overcome the worry that people are always saying yes to things they don’t want, and reframe how you and your loved ones can be a yes to what YOU want without it backfiring in your face or used against you later.
  • And much more…

Ticket and & Registration Info HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE.


After years of people asking for a facilitator training based solely on Energetic Sxx, it’s finally here!!!

In this 7-day Facilitator Intensive, Reid Mihalko, Monique Darling and Peter Petersen will be inviting you on an in-depth and lovingly guided exploration of energy in and around your body. Walk away with your own level 1 certification to offer Energy Sxx your way!

Drawing on decades of experience of living, teaching, and playing in the multiverse of energetic realms, these three internationally-renown teachers are bringing it all together!

We are selecting and curating the juiciest, the most divine, the most potent experiences we have learned over our lifetimes into these 7 days.

Ticket and & Registration Info HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE.


These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…

Link to grab your free Jealousy Map —

ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!

Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? 🐙 And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!

Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map —

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Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…

Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!

From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:

  • Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
  • Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
  • Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
  • Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
  • Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!

Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!

Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.

Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.


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Geek Out with Reid EVERY Month — Start for $1

Test-Drive working with Reid every month (PLUS, get immediate accessing to over $197-worth of relationship and sexual self-confidence building training videos) for Reid’s special $1 Trial Offer!

That Have Been Recorded…

Just because you missed it, doesn’t mean you can’t participate! Purchase access to the recordings and bonuses NOW…

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Get lifetime access to Dating Your Species for just $47. Watch the videos, do the worksheets, learn how to avoid the Venn Diagram of Misery and start Dating Your Species!
CLICK HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

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Blowjob Grad School, the workshop

Get lifetime access to Bj Grad School — the videos, the handout — for just $47!
Click HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

**Offerings for Sex Educators,
Therapists, Workshop Facilitators,
and the Sex-Ed Adjacent…

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Attn: Educators! Reach More People, Help More People, Attract More Paying Clients…

Join Cathy of, Reid of, and some amazing sex educators for 2-days of recorded classes focusing on creating (and actually implementing) your very own kick-ass freemium! Help those in need while you build your credibility as an educator and turn the curious into clients!

More info and course registration HERE >>
Sign-Up for the FREE training on How To Give Good Freemium HERE >>

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Sarah schwab October 10, 2012 at 12:45 pm

Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.


Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:13 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements ( and to follow my FB Fan Page – – and my Twitter account –

Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.

Yours in sex geekery,


Lucien Vattel December 28, 2012 at 12:47 am

Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.



Dorothy January 2, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.


Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:07 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements ( and to follow my FB Fan Page – – and my Twitter account –

Hope to meet you one day!



Miriam December 13, 2013 at 3:28 am


I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”



Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD


bea of san luis obispo December 18, 2013 at 2:36 am

Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea


Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm

The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!


Bridget May 28, 2014 at 4:51 am

I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!


Reid August 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: – let me know how I can help! 🙂


Laurence McGrath May 11, 2019 at 10:36 pm

So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!


Heather July 25, 2019 at 10:14 am

Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?


Reid October 4, 2019 at 11:19 am

Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!


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