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6-Week Course: OCT 16th Thru NOV 20th — Virtual, 6-Week Deep Dive — DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people? Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships? Or push new relationships away too fast? Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life? If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and like-minded humans for a 6-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series with LIVE coaching calls exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
Over 200+ amazing humans have already taken this class and raved about it… And Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure‘s 6 LIVE Q&A/Coaching Calls begin Wed, Oct 16-Nov 20th, 2023, 6-8pm PACIFIC. See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
THURSDAY, OCT 17th, VIRTUAL – ENERGETIC SEX FOR PRAGMATISTS W/ REID MIHALKO
Explore Kundalini, the “Tantric Twitchies” and Vibrational Luvin’ Without the Woo-Woo! (with live, virtual demos, too)
If you or a lover have ever experienced post-orgasmic spasms or “twitches” after lovemaking, or feelings of heat and tension in your lower back, hands, neck or throat… You might be more energetic in your sex life than you think! And if you’ve never experienced those things but would like to, you might be pleasantly surprised how easily energetic sex is to grasp and play with.
Regardless of your tolerance for words like “chakras” and “yoni”… Or if phrases like sacred masculine and sacred feminine seem too restrictive… There is a non-New Agey way to understand and incorporate ecstatic experiences into your bedroom routine regardless of who you sleep with or how you identify. And guess what? It’s surprisingly fun, easy, and explosive!
Date and time Thursday 17 October 2024 at 18.30-20.30 Central European Time (9:30am-11:30am PST)
OCT 25th-28th, SAN JOSE, CA – JOIN REID AT DARK ODYSSEY
It’s a Spook-tacular BDSM weekend vacation of a lifetime. Come learn, explore, and play in a no holds barred, sexually charged atmosphere. Interactive workshops fill your days, while at night you’ll explore dark dungeons, powerful rituals, passionate scenes, and mind-blowing ecstasy all under one roof in a proven scene friendly hotel in San Jose.
Join Reid and others as they combine sexuality, spirituality, education and play in an immersive environment where fantasy becomes reality.
Reid will have 4 workshops lined up for the weekend:
Oral Sex Grad School
Pegging Grad School
Push, Pull, Squeeze & Squirt: Welcome to Splooshville (with LIVE Demos!)
**NOV 1st-8th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — THE 10TH ANNUAL TRANSFORMATIONAL INTENSIVE FOR EXTRAORDINARY FACILITATORS W/ MONIQUE, PETER AND FRIENDS
Eight Days, Ten Instructors! — Join Reid, Monique Darling, Peter Peterson and a host of their favorite teachers for a weeklong deep dive into taking your teaching and facilitation abilities to the next level!
It’s our tenth year, and each one gets better and better!! This year its in a little slice of heaven, Cabo San Lucas… Beach view Accommodations plus a rooftop with stunning 360 view! It is 8 days, with 10 extraordinary facilitators, and we are opening registration for just 18 attendees. Every year we have sold out!!! This is the greatest creative inspiration Peter and Monique have ever created. It’s a culmination of their life’s work thus far. We have spent the last 9 years now traveling the world learning and practicing these tools and now I want to share them with you. So many of you have asked for the steps, for a training to be able to do what we do, well I’m going to offer you one better…. we are going to offer you an intensive, a “Monique & Peter Boot Camp” if you will, with myself and some other extraordinary facilitators, to help you find out what’s in the way of you being able to offer your greatest gift to the world, to your clients, workshop attendees, partners, and every aspect of your life. Always remember YOU! You are the gift!!
Read the more about fabulous event and which teachers will be teaching via either link below…
NOV 23rd-24th, AMSTERDAM, THE NETHERLANDS – BODY CURIOSITY WITH REID MIHALKO & WILRIEKE SOPHIA
Ready to rekindle your body’s sense of wonder and curiosity? Join sex and relationship educators Reid Mihalko and Wilrieke Sophia for a two-day, hands-on workshop designed to help you explore and rediscover the magic beneath your skin. Whether you’re feeling disconnected from your body or just want to dive deeper into the pleasures it can offer, this weekend will be packed with live demos, tips, tricks, and playful practice to get you lost in the deliciousness of your own body—and others’. Bring your curiosity and get ready to unlock new levels of connection and pleasure!
Date and time Saturday 23 November 2024 at 10:00 to Sunday 24 November 2024 at 18:00
NOV 30th-DEC 1st, REID GOES TO STOCKHOLM! WORKSHOP EXTRAVAGANZA WITH LORE BLANCKE & REID MIHALKO
Reid will be joining Lore Blanke for a special workshop weekend in Stockholm! Together, they’ve crafted a delicious array of offerings blending their teachings for an enriching experience. You can experience 4 of Reid’s popular workshops to choose. Feel free to pick and choose the sessions that resonate with you, or better yet, join us for the entire weekend to get the full immersive experience! Here’s the full rundown of weekend’s workshops:
Saturday 30/11 10:00 – 12:00 and 13:00 – 15:00: Rough Sex For Nice Folks (Spread the word on Facebook HERE)
Saturday 30/11 16:30 – 18:00 and 19:30 – 23:00: How To Be Successful At Play Parties (workshop) & Sensual Play Party (Spread the word on Facebook HERE)
Sunday 1/12 10:30 – 13:00 and 14:30 – 17:00: Oral Sex Grad School (Spread the word on Facebook HERE)
Sunday 1/12 19:00 – 12:00: Sex Ed Showdown: The Duel (with demo’s) (Spread the word on Facebook HERE)
DEC 6th, AMSTERDAM, THE NETHERLANDS – DATING YOUR SPECIES WITH REID MIHALKO & WILRIEKE SOPHIA
Are you confused about dating, mating, and relating in the 21st Century? Unsure how to make a relationship last past the latest NETFLIX show? Can’t tell Mr/Ms. Right from Mr/Ms. Trainwreck? Do you fall in love too quickly with the wrong people?!
Dating, marriage, and the reasons we stay in relationships have changed a lot since the days of our great grandparents, and sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com knows what you need to make the current dating and mating scene less screwed-up. His advice: Date your species!
But how do you know who is your species and who isn’t?! And we all know how hard it is —once you fall in love— to break up with a good person who’s still a bad fit for you!
Let’s fix all that, shall we? Join us for this humorous, frank and interactive workshop where Reid boils down more than 150,000 conversations he’s had about sex and relationships and walks us through his best thinking and advice on making sex, dating, relationships and mating work!
Date and time Friday 06 December 2024 FROM 19:30 to 22:00
DEC 7th, AMSTERDAM, THE NETHERLANDS – SPECIAL: RED PLAY PARTY & FROM FLIRTING TO ACTION WITH REID MIHALKO
Do you attend play parties or are thinking about attending one? Ever wonder how complete strangers go from finding that spark to fanning the flames of flirtation and then stoking (and stroking!) hawt, blazing encounters? Or how folks avoid picking the wrong people to hook up with? Or how to NOT the moment so you avoid bringing the sexy moment to a crashing halt?
YOU are not alone! And the good news is that there are SO MANY ways to be successful at a play party that never have to mean getting naked or getting freaky! (But can if that’s what you want.)
This is a Temple Night, or the Red Play Party as created by Exploring Deeper: a day of sensual, luscious exploration in an all-embracing environment of like-minded people!
Date and time Saturday 07 December 2024 FROM 14:00 to 22:00
DEC 8th, AMSTERDAM, THE NETHERLANDS – SHOW ‘N TELL ‘N THEN TRY PLEASURE PRACTICUM WITH WILRIEKE AND REID
Devote an entire day to upping your erotic touch & intimacy skills (giving AND receiving!) so you can say goodbye to bedroom insecurities and hello to a new YOU filled with self-confidence and Jedi-level abilities. This special workshop is for all genders, all experience levels and sexual orientations, and includes LIVE demonstrations and time for you to practice.
Join sex and relationship educators Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com and Wilrieke Sophia of Exploring Deeper for a unique, day-long practicum filled with humorous, down-to-earth, Show-N-Tell-N-Then-Practice sex education. Let Wilrieke and Reid teach and demonstrate their best teachings and favorite techniques for creating AND receiving sensual and sexual pleasure, then let them support you and your partner while you have time and space to TRY YOUR NEW SKILLS ON EACH OTHER!
Date and time Sunday 08 December 2024 from 11:00 to 18:00
These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
Stay tuned for waaaaay in advance events popping up here soon…
JAN 9th-13th, ARLINGTON, VA – INTERFUSION FESTIVAL X
Ready to embark on a transformative journey like no other? Join me at Interfusion Festival, the ultimate indoor playground for growth, connection, and pure magic. Held over five electrifying days, this festival is where daytime exploration meets nighttime magic. By day, dive into workshops across multiple programs—no partner needed!—with offerings for everyone from beginners to advanced practitioners. It’s a chance to learn, grow, and connect in a space designed for individual and shared experiences. When the sun sets, the festival grounds become an enchanted playground. Eight unique social gathering spots open up, including the serenity of the Candlelight Conversations, the high-flying AcroYoga Jam, and the chill vibes of the Serenity Lounge, all running deep into the night. With nearly a hundred guides across ten programs, Interfusion is your ticket to rising to higher states of growth and well-being. Come alone or bring a partner—either way, you’ll leave with new connections, deeper bonds, and a heart full of unforgettable memories.
Date and time January 9, 2025 · 2pm – January 13, 2025 · 2pm EST
JAN 31st, LAS VEGAS, NV – INTRO TO AWAKEN AS EROS TASTER W/REID MIHALKO AND MONIQUE DARLING
This is our 4 hour intro to the weekend Taster of Awaken and Eros. Come dip your toes in, the water is fine 🙂
Join Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling for a transformative intro to help you explore your desires. This immersive experience will help you break free from societal constraints and discover what you truly want in a highly curated environment.
There are so many erotic and sxxual spaces being offered in our communities, the challenge is many of them are not trauma informed. They use a sledgehammer to make a point, and often the facilitators are using the containers to fill up their own Eros tanks. Reid and I have crafted an event where you get to wake up your Eros. Subtlety, integrity, communication, and accountability are all pillars of this work for us, and we are conscious of coming into the container full, so we can serve you, not the other way around.
This will be the intro night of our longer weekend where we will cover so much more (see below).
Date and time Fri, Jan 31, 2025, 7:00 PM – 11:00 PM
JAN 31st-FEB 2nd, LAS VEGAS, NV – AWAKEN AS EROS TASTER WEEKEND W/REID MIHALKO AND MONIQUE DARLING
Awaken as Eros: An Erotic Laboratory (Weekend Taster)
Join Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling for a transformative weekend immersion to explore your deepest desires. This immersive experience will help you break free from societal constraints and discover what you truly want in a highly curated environment. It will be a taste of our week long retreat, happening in Cabo, Mexico, May 7-14.
Continuing on from the into event above…During this weekend taster Reid and I will be offering snipets, samples, and tastes of the week long event, enough to give you new tools, skills, and confidence, but also leaving you wanting more…
This retreat is designed to help you express your Eros without shame or hesitation, no matter your age, size, gender, or orientation. Dive into sensual anatomy, bedroom skills, and erotic demos. We will cover shame, guilt, the soul mate trap, dating your species, boundaries, and permission to be yourself. Engage in powerful rituals. Learn about speed rejection, pressure play, and create your own menu of desires during research and development sessions to try out anything and everything that interests you. In this highly tailored environment, you can release body shame and rewire rejection programming. Touch the shame, guilt, fear, and belief systems that hold you back from imagining what you really desire. If you can’t even imagine, no wonder you don’t have the skills to ask for it!
This weekend immersion offers a unique opportunity to explore and experiment with new skills and techniques, leaving you with a deeper understanding and newfound confidence to be the lover you’ve always wanted to be.
This will be the intro night of our longer weekend where we will cover so much more.
Date and time Fri, Jan 31, 2025, 7:00 PM – Sun, Feb 2, 2025 5:00 PM
FEB 1st, LAS VEGAS, NV— SPEED FLIRTING AND A PARTY?!? OH MY!
Speed Flirting and All Gender Temple Party w/ Reid, Monique, & Nikki
We are starting out our temple party a little different this time, the first 45 mins will be for speed flirting, make sure you arrive by 7:30 to participate…
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
These events always sell out, so grab your spot now…
Date and time Sat, Feb 1, 2025, 7:30 PM – 11:30 PM
FEB 7th-10th 19th-21st, CRARYVILLE, NY — 3 DAY PLAY PARTY PALOOZA W/REID, MONIQUE, PETER, LAUREN & RUSSELL
Are you a Temple/Play Party enthusiast? Do you love the pleasure, discovery, and exploration that happens when like-minded folks gather with the intent to connect and fully express themselves?
If you’ve ever wished for more time to frolic at temple parties, we’ve got some deeeelicious news for YOU! Join Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, Reid Mihalko, Lauren Harkness, and Russell Pappas, for a transformative 3-day temple immersion from February 7th to 10th, 2024.
If you’re yearning for deeper connections, more wisdom, and a space where your desires are met with openness and your boundaries respected, THIS is your invitation to stop dreaming and start living.
MAY 7th-14th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO – AWAKEN AS EROS AN EROTIC LABORATORY W/ MONIQUE DARLING AND REID MIHALKO
Join Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling for a transformative weeklong retreat, “Awaken as Eros,” where you’ll break free from societal constraints and explore your deepest desires in a safe, curated environment. This experience is crafted to help you express your Eros with confidence, diving into everything from sensual anatomy and erotic demos to the art of overcoming sxxual shame. With a focus on integrity, communication, and trauma-informed care, you’ll learn to ask for what you want and embrace the pleasure your body is capable of.
During this immersive week, we’ll guide you through powerful rituals, partner practices, and self-discovery exercises that will unravel old belief systems and help you create a menu of desires you never knew existed. You’ll explore pressure play, enhance your bedroom skills, and learn how to navigate the complexities of intimacy with grace and humor. This retreat is your chance to replace shame with unbridled aliveness and to connect deeply with yourself and others in a way that feels authentic and liberating.
Whether you’re just beginning your journey into sxxual exploration or looking to deepen your connection to your desires, “Awaken as Eros” is a unique opportunity to step into your erotic power. With expert guidance and a supportive community, you’ll leave this retreat with a newfound confidence, ready to embrace your Eros and bring more pleasure and passion into your life.
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships? Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people? Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life? If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197! See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
REPEATING WEEKLY & MONTHLY EVENTS…
PAST WORKSHOPS — That Have Been Recorded…
Just because you missed it, doesn’t mean you can’t participate! Purchase access to the recordings and bonuses NOW…
DATING YOUR SPECIES, the workshop
Get lifetime access to Dating Your Species for just $47. Watch the videos, do the worksheets, learn how to avoid the Venn Diagram of Misery and start Dating Your Species! CLICK HERE for more info. Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.
Blowjob Grad School, the workshop
Get lifetime access to Bj Grad School — the videos, the handout — for just $47! Click HERE for more info. Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.
**Offerings for Sex Educators, Therapists, Workshop Facilitators, and the Sex-Ed Adjacent…
Attn: Educators!Reach More People, Help More People, Attract More Paying Clients…
Join Cathy of TheIntimacyDojo.com, Reid of ReidAboutSex.com, and some amazing sex educators for 2-days of recorded classes focusing on creating (and actually implementing) your very own kick-ass freemium! Help those in need while you build your credibility as an educator and turn the curious into clients!
Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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