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OCT 5th, AUSTIN, TX – LATIHAN AND ROUGH SXX FOR NICE FOLK W/ REID, PETER, AND MONIQUE
Join Reid, Peter, and Monique for a very special and unique event! Come with your desire to unmask the secrets of your heart. Come ready to release those energies that hold you back from manifesting love. Come explore ways to experience more joy fully in your life. We will start the night with Latihan (a movement meditation for moving in the unknown).
After Latihan… When you or a lover likes it… Rough. If you’re a lover, not a fighter, but you or your lover like it a little rough, let sex and relationship educator (and double black belt, former fight choreographer for indie films), Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, show you how you can safely be a badass in bed.
No matter your experience level, orientation, relationship status, this class is going to be educational, fun, and give you some delicious bedroom kung-fu. Sit and watch as Reid demonstrates how easy it is to be a black belt at sxx!
Date and time Thu, Oct 5, 2023, 7:00 PM – 10:30 PM CDT
OCT 6th, AUSTIN, TX— SPEED FLIRTING AND A PARTY?!? OH MY!
Speed Flirting & All Gender Temple Party w/Reid & Monique
We are starting out our temple party a little different this time, the first 45 mins will be for speed flirting, make sure you arrive by 7:30 to participate…
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
These events always sell out, so grab your spot now…
Date and time Fri, Oct 6, 2023, 7:30 PM – 12:00 AM CDT
OCT 7th-8th, AUSTIN, TX— THE PRINCIPLES OF PLEASURE WITH REID, MONIQUE, AND PETER
“Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience.” –Paulo Coelho
This will be two full days that you will NEVER forget, as Reid Mihalko, Monique Darling, & Peter Petersen, bring their own unique perspective’s from decades of teaching inner inquiry, experiential exploration, and infinite curiosity into just how GOOD we can feel in our body.
They are passionate about sharing what has been useful in their vast experiences of becoming aware of and then letting go of values, constructs, “myths” that no longer serve you and opening up to playing, growing, thriving is pleasure, so you can easily drop into stillness, acceptance, celebrating YOU, the NOW exactly as IT IS! Get ready to peel off the layers to experience a new level of sensation and ecstasy, through your birthright of Sxx, Pleasure, Power, and Intimacy. All through the lens of Tantra, and just how good you can feel in YOUR body.
Date and time SAT, OCT 7 AT 11:00 AM – SUN, OCT 8 AT 5:30 PM
OCT 7th, AUSTIN, TX— EROTIC BLISS TEMPLE PARTY W/ MONIQUE, REID, AND PETER
Come join 3 tantrikas at play, and tap into your own limitless bliss….
What does “temple party” mean? In short, it is whatever it means to you. We attach the word ‘sacred’ to any practice, experience, or way-of-being that slows us down and deepens our experience of being alive. Our sensuality/sxxuality are a manifestation and expression-of our vital life-force and creative energy. It can play, move, and be shared and enjoyed in many ways. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul.
This is the party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND this is the party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.
Date and time SAT, OCT 7, 2023 AT 7:30 PM – 12:00 AM
**NOV 1st-8th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — THE 9TH ANNUAL TRANSFORMATIONAL INTENSIVE FOR EXTRAORDINARY FACILITATORS W/ MONIQUE, PETER AND FRIENDS
Seven Days, Nine Instructors! — Join Reid and a host of Monique Darling’s favorite teachers for a weeklong deep dive into taking your teaching and facilitation abilities to the next level! Read the fabulous event description and which teachers will be teaching via either link below…
NOV 15th Thru DEC 20th — Virtual, 6-Week Deep Dive — DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people? Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships? Or push new relationships away too fast? Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life? If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and like-minded humans for a 6-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series with LIVE coaching calls exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
Over 200+ amazing humans have already taken this class and raved about it… And Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure‘s 6 LIVE Q&A/Coaching Calls begin Wed, Nov 15-Dec 20th, 2023, 6-8pm PACIFIC. See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
**NOV 17-19th, PORTLAND, OR — Join 20 Sex Educators for 3 Days Focusing On Upgrading Our Teaching & Public Speaking Skills, Especially When Using Cameras, Microphones, Etc.
If you identify as a sex-positive entrepreneur and you’d like to kick-more ass when it comes to teaching & speaking… If you’d like to feel more comfortable and confident when it comes to using microphones, cameras, being interviewed, etc… SexGeekConservatory.com might be the 3-days for YOU to take your skills to the next level! Click the link and to secure your seat ASAP!*
*Class is limited to 20 people who register! Scholarships available – application link on registration page.
**DEC 2nd-3rd, VIRTUAL – COPYWRITING AND AI DEEP DIVE FOR SEX GEEKS**
Copy Writing For Sex Positive Professionals: Leveraging Your Self-Expression and AI to Write Authentic Messages that Connect, Inspire, and Convert
If you’ve ever found yourself staring at a blank screen, or cleaning closets rather than writing invitations to your next offering, you are in the right place!
Get ready for an online weekend of laughter, learning, and unleashing your creative genius at the Copywriting with AI Deep Dive for Sex Geeks workshop on September 16th and 17th. Two extraordinary experts, Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli, will be revolutionizing your copywriting game.
In this engaging and informative class, you’ll discover the power of persuasive writing while having a blast.
Reid and Cathy will guide you through the ins and outs of copywriting, equipping you with the skills to craft compelling content that resonates with your audience. But that’s not all—prepare to witness the magic of AI as we show you how to save a staggering 70% of your marketing time by leveraging artificial intelligence to generate captivating copy for your next offering. (All while keeping your authentic voice!)
This workshop is not your typical dry, boring lecture. We’ve got friendly hot seats where you’ll receive personalized feedback and support from your fellow participants. You’ll become part of a vibrant community that nurtures your growth and success.Plus, we’ll delve into the world of inspirational rather than painful marketing, allowing you to connect with your clients on a deeper level and create lasting impact.
DEC 14th, AUSTIN, TX – PEGGING GRAD SCHOOL WITH REID MIHALKO
Up your prowess and confidence when it comes to giving and receiving pleasure! Make tackling taboo subjects a breeze!
Pegging Grad School: Get Your PhD in Strap-On, Bend Over Your Boyfriend, Pleasure!
If you…
Are curious about strap-on play and pegging (anal penetration usually on a man via a strap-on harness and dildo) but have never tried it…
Already have your Masters Degree in dildos and prostate pleasure but are looking for a few advance techniques…
Trying to help a loved one who’s not sure if pegging is for them, but could use some empowering, shame-free tips…
Want to leave your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”
Then you’re in the right place
Let “America’s favorite sxx geek,” sxx & relationship educator (and veteran peg’ster) Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean and help you get your PhD in pegging so YOU can create great strap-on experiences that leave YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!
DEC 15th, AUSTIN, TX — INTRO TO ENERGY SXX AND ENERGETIC SXX TEMPLE PARTY WITH REID, MONIQUE & LAWRENCE
Would you like to expand the range of your ENERGETIC sxxual experience? Turn YOUR life into an orgasmic playground that doesn’t have to look anything like “sxx”… Learn to get in touch with your own energetic field, manipulate it, and turn it into a powerful source of connection and bliss. Discover how and where to touch another to tune into, access, tease and play with their erotic energy, the energy of two people, or the energy of an entire group!
Let us show you our tools, tips and tricks for unlocking your stuck sxxual energy AND of course Monique’s Infamous creation… the “Heart Fuck!” This workshop is Rated-PG13/R, will feature frank (and humorous!) language, fully-clothed demonstrations, and participation is not required. Please bring all your questions and a notebook! Bring a partner, find a partner there, switch partners, or experience the course on your own. Many options will be offered to support each individual experience.
Next up Let Monique, Reid, and Lawrence lead you through a welcome circle where a room of strangers slowly opens up and winds up on the same page, having the opportunity to be seen, heard, and understood in ways maybe you have never even imagined!!
DEC 16th, AUSTIN, TX— EROTIC BLISS TEMPLE PARTY W/ MONIQUE, REID, AND LAWRENCE
Come join 3 tantrikas at play, and tap into your own limitless bliss….
What does “temple party” mean? In short, it is whatever it means to you. We attach the word ‘sacred’ to any practice, experience, or way-of-being that slows us down and deepens our experience of being alive. Our sensuality/sxxuality are a manifestation and expression-of our vital life-force and creative energy. It can play, move, and be shared and enjoyed in many ways. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul.
This is the party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND this is the party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.
Date and time SAT, DEC 16, 2023 AT 7:30 PM – 12:00 AM
DEC 15TH-17TH, AUSTIN, TX — THE IN’S AND OUT’S OF ENERGY SXX W/REID MIHALKO, MONIQUE & LAWRENCE
Are you energy sensitive? Can life on planet earth be a roller coaster of epic proportions? Do you feel A LOT, and have you been labeled “high maintenance” or “too this” or “too that?” All too often those that are more attuned to the energy all around them are left with the feeling that they are alone, that they are “crazy” and that no one else could understand. How would it feel to know that there are more of us out here than you can possibly imagine? A tribe waiting to connect and play in this magical field that we have innate access to?
Your hosts have been playing in the infinite realms of energy our entire lives, (probably for many lifetimes ) and everywhere we go people are asking what is Energetic Sxx?
We hold a space where your feelings are 100% welcomed, because on the other side of all of your emotions is the bliss of your being where you can ride waves of energetic currents and possibilities. By FEELING all of your emotions, you are able to fully allow life-force energy to flow through your entire body and expand your capacity for greater pleasure. This special Weekend hosted by the incredible Mia, will dive into all of this and SO much more!!!
Be ready to discover a clear path for tapping into your natural abilities for creating the life you desire where all of you is celebrated. We will be using our sxxual energy to claim and allow these desires to come alive in the world (sxx magic). Come share YOU and allow the community to help amplify your truth!
Here are some benefits you will receive through this deep and playful gathering:
Play with the Aliveness of your body!
Anchor an ability to transform life into an orgasmic playground way beyond traditional sxx
Deepen your connection to your own energetic field
More unconditional Self Love and Acceptance
Strengthen and hone your skills to engage and play energetically solo and one-on-one
Understand and speak your boundaries
Release shame and old stories that don’t serve you
Claim your right to sxxual pleasure and passion
Communication skills that encourage asking for what you want
Meditation, Experiential, FEEL…..Integrate and Anchor
Date and time FRI, DEC 15, 2023, 7:30 PM – Sun, Jan 8, 2023, 5:30 PM
These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
APRIL 30th-MAY 7th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — UNLEASH THE BEAST WITH MONIQUE AND REID
Are You Ready To Unleash the Beast?!Up Your Sexual Self-Confidence & Uncage Your Inner Primal Animal? – Let Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling take you on a weeklong immersion into the deepest, naughtiest, most wanton, parts of your desire and passion. (And give you skills to pass that knowledge on to your lovers!)
Come join us for this week-long exploration if you’re ready to dive deep where you will:
Discover how to explore sxx and intimacy with the least amount of drama and the most amount of pleasure by unlocking your sxxual self-expression and erotic creativity.
Unlearn the fallacy that your partner must be equally as excited for you to be able to ask for the sxx you want.
Overcome the worry that people are always saying yes to things they don’t want, and reframe how you and your loved ones can be a yes to what YOU want without it backfiring in your face or used against you later.
**MAY 9th-16th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — ENERGETIC SXX FACILITATOR TRAINING LVL 1 with REID, MONIQUE, AND PETER
After years of people asking for a facilitator training based solely on Energetic Sxx, it’s finally here!!!
In this 7-day Facilitator Intensive, Reid Mihalko, Monique Darling and Peter Petersen will be inviting you on an in-depth and lovingly guided exploration of energy in and around your body. Walk away with your own level 1 certification to offer Energy Sxx your way!
Drawing on decades of experience of living, teaching, and playing in the multiverse of energetic realms, these three internationally-renown teachers are bringing it all together!
We are selecting and curating the juiciest, the most divine, the most potent experiences we have learned over our lifetimes into these 7 days.
**JUNE 15-20th, PORTLAND, OREGON — ATTN: ALL SEX EDUCATORS!
Learn how to reach MORE clients with LESS hassle while making MORE money… And ride a 350ft Slip ‘N Slide as a tax write-off!
Are you a sex educator, workshop leader, toy blogger, Tantra teacher, therapist, sex worker, burlesque performer, coach (or someone whose career falls under the sex-positive entrepreneur umbrella?)…
If you need some R&R and want to nerd out on how to build a more successful business helping people… Then Sex Geek Summer Camp is for YOU!
Celebrating our 10th Anniversary by adding an extra day this June 15th-20th, 2024, in Portland, Oregon!!!!!
Make new friends and geek out on the business behind the business of sex ed + a 350-ft Slip ‘N Slide + S’mores!!!! What are you waiting for?!
Visit SexGeekSummerCamp.com for more info and to secure your seat at the only 6-day/5-night business, marketing, and networking camp specifically for sex-positive professionals!
ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships? Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people? Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life? If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197! See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
REPEATING WEEKLY & MONTHLY EVENTS…
Geek Out with Reid EVERY Month — Start for $1
Test-Drive working with Reid every month (PLUS, get immediate accessing to over $197-worth of relationship and sexual self-confidence building training videos) for Reid’s special $1 Trial Offer!
PAST WORKSHOPS — That Have Been Recorded…
Just because you missed it, doesn’t mean you can’t participate! Purchase access to the recordings and bonuses NOW…
DATING YOUR SPECIES, the workshop
Get lifetime access to Dating Your Species for just $47. Watch the videos, do the worksheets, learn how to avoid the Venn Diagram of Misery and start Dating Your Species! CLICK HERE for more info. Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.
Blowjob Grad School, the workshop
Get lifetime access to Bj Grad School — the videos, the handout — for just $47! Click HERE for more info. Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.
**Offerings for Sex Educators, Therapists, Workshop Facilitators, and the Sex-Ed Adjacent…
Attn: Educators!Reach More People, Help More People, Attract More Paying Clients…
Join Cathy of TheIntimacyDojo.com, Reid of ReidAboutSex.com, and some amazing sex educators for 2-days of recorded classes focusing on creating (and actually implementing) your very own kick-ass freemium! Help those in need while you build your credibility as an educator and turn the curious into clients!
Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
) and everywhere we go people are asking what is Energetic Sxx?
And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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