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On this page, you’ll find the following:
- Upcoming Events In Chronological Order
- ICYMI – In Case You Missed It Items and Events of Interest!
- Far-In-Advance Events
(See event listings for anything booked more than +6 months to a year out) - Past Events That Have Been Recorded (and are available for purchase!)
NOTE: Events marked with (2) asterisks** are professional development events designed for sex educators and sex-positive professionals (and may be useful for all entrepreneurs).
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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
MAY 2025 EVENTS
MAY 1st, AUSTIN, TX — REID JOINS THE “WHO’S YOUR DADDY” TOUR PRESENTED BY THE SHAMELESS SEX PODCAST
The Shameless Sex Podcast – one of the most popular sex podcasts – is going on tour and Reid will be there on opening night!
Join in for a wild night of laughter, sexy surprises, games, and unforgettable entertainment
like you’ve never seen before!
Tickets WILL sell out—get yours before they do.
MAY 3rd, PORTLAND, OR – DOUBLE HEADER SATURDAY: WORKSHOP + PLAY PARTY (WORKSHOP: ROUGH SEX FOR NICE FOLKS)
Join us Friday night at a private residence in Gresham for a DOUBLE-HEADER: Workshop + a Play Party, hosted by ReidAboutSex.com’s Reid Mihalko
Tonight’s workshop… Rough Sex for Nice Folks!
Followed by a conscious play party!!
You must attend the workshop to attend the play party. Venue location sent upon confirmation of registration. Must be 21. Get your tickets soon. Limited to 20 tickets. See the link before for more information.
MORE ABOUT THE WORKSHOP…
If you’re a lover, not a fighter, but you or your lover like it a little rough, let sex and relationship educator (and double black belt, former fight choreographer for indie films), Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, show you how you can safely be a badass in bed.
From wrestling to rough sex to advanced ergonomic techniques, join us for this humorous and informative workshop (with LIVE demos!) on how to unleash your inner Bruce Lee of the bedroom.
In this edutaining class for all genders, we’ll cover:
- Rough sex for nice guys, gals, and folks of all genders and orientations!
- The difference between “thuddy” and “stingy,” and why you should care…
- The best sex positions, proper body positioning, and ergonomics for harder, stronger, longer sex
- Why and how wrestling can be a turn-on
- Hair-pulling 101
- Spanking basics made easy
- How to bite (and how not to!)
- How to move your partner’s body around the bed with more ease
- And much more!
No matter your experience level, orientation, or relationship status, this class is going to be educational, fun, and give you some delicious bedroom kung-fu. Sit and watch as Reid demonstrates how easy it is to be a black belt at sex! We’ll even have plenty of room for your questions! Join us! Bring friends! Bring a notebook!
When: Saturday, May 3rd, 2025, 7:00 PM – 1:00 AM PT (No Late Arrivals)
Where: Private Residence in Gresham, Oregon
MAY 7th-14th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO – AWAKEN AS EROS AN EROTIC LABORATORY W/ MONIQUE DARLING AND REID MIHALKO
Join Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling for a transformative weeklong retreat, “Awaken as Eros,” where you’ll break free from societal constraints and explore your deepest desires in a safe, curated environment. This experience is crafted to help you express your Eros with confidence, diving into everything from sensual anatomy and erotic demos to the art of overcoming sxxual shame. With a focus on integrity, communication, and trauma-informed care, you’ll learn to ask for what you want and embrace the pleasure your body is capable of.
During this immersive week, we’ll guide you through powerful rituals, partner practices, and self-discovery exercises that will unravel old belief systems and help you create a menu of desires you never knew existed. You’ll explore pressure play, enhance your bedroom skills, and learn how to navigate the complexities of intimacy with grace and humor. This retreat is your chance to replace shame with unbridled aliveness and to connect deeply with yourself and others in a way that feels authentic and liberating.
Whether you’re just beginning your journey into sxxual exploration or looking to deepen your connection to your desires, “Awaken as Eros” is a unique opportunity to step into your erotic power. With expert guidance and a supportive community, you’ll leave this retreat with a newfound confidence, ready to embrace your Eros and bring more pleasure and passion into your life.
Date and time
May 7, 2025, – May 14, 2025
Register and find out more about the event HERE
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SAVE the DATES:
MAY 15-16th – REID TEACHING TWO WORKSHOPS IN DENVER
MORE DETAILS TO BE ANNOUNCED SOON!
Make sure you’re signed up for announcements! Click HERE.
MAY 23rd-26th, LAKE COUNTY, CA — PLAY: THE BONOBO NETWORK RETREAT
Restore • Connect • Play
Are you looking to be part of a members-only retreat where participants are working towards living up to the same values as you? Do you need a place to unplug and restore yourself? Are you looking for a weekend of music, learning, all sorts of fun organized activities, and PLAY? Join Reid at Play: The Bonobo Network Retreat, several days built on the ideas of High Possibility, Low Expectation, Trust and Trustworthiness, Consent, Support, Contribution, and Inclusion.
Take a break. Unplug from social media. This weekend is about you. It’s about us. It’s about connecting – deeply – with our amazing community of people with shared values and a common sense of possibility. It’s about rebuilding your personal reserves so that you can return to the world stronger, braver, better connected, and well-loved.
For this weekend, your life can be filled with unadulterated PLAY.
400 new friends • 12 shared meals • 4 days • 3 nights •
3 sexy play spaces • 1 hell of a good time
Sexual Skills Workshops • Nature Hikes • Pool Parties • Movement Classes • DJs • Pure Magic
CLICK HERE or head to BonoboRetreat.com to learn more and find out how YOU can be part of this Community.
MAY 29th-JUNE 1st, RALEIGH, NC —
LEARN WITH REID AT THE BLISS BOOGIE!
Bliss Boogie is an annual eco-friendly, sober, educational festival that celebrates creativity, community, the human interconnected experience, sexuality, and the joy of music, dance, and a celebration of being.
Bliss Boogie invites you to it’s annual, 3-day, eco-friendly, sober, educational festival celebrating the joy of creativity, connection, and community with live music, art installations, and transformative workshops. Set on 75 beautiful wooded acres in Central North Carolina, this unique event welcomes everyone, proudly embracing LGBTQIA+ individuals and people of all races and backgrounds. Join a vibrant community that values diversity, creativity, and living life at the highest vibration. Don’t miss this unforgettable experience designed to spark joy and celebrate bliss! Let’s boogie!!!!
Reid Will Be Teaching:
- Oral Sex Grad School
- How To NOT Fall In Love at This Festival Unless You REALLY Want To (and Then How To Do THAT Better!)
- Push, Pull, Squeeze: Harnessing Your Pelvic Floor for Greater Health, Pleasure, and Bedroom Prowess! (part 1) – with April Curtis
- Push, Pull, Squeeze & Squirt: Welcome to Splooshville (part 2) – with April Curtis
Date and Time: Thurs, May 29 – Sun, June 1, 2025
Location: Lakeside Retreats, 4521 Mial Plantation Road, Raleigh, NC
Register via Reid’s affiliate link and find out more about Bliss Boogie HERE
JUNE 2025 EVENTS
JUNE 12th-15th, COBB, CA — SOULPLAY
Dance. Connection. Nature.
Are you looking for a place to experience learning and growth, while having a lot of fun and making great connections in the process? Do you want to be able to practice being present while connect with a community? And do you want to be able to do all that knowing that you and all the people around you are sober? Then this is the event for you…
Join Reid at SoulPlay – The premier, sober festival in the US! Where he’ll be teaching two of his popular workshops – Pressure Play and The 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy.
SoulPlay is a 4-day immersive experience filled with transformational workshops, celebration, dancing, connection, and play. This is not your typical festival. It is an experience designed to facilitate learning and growth, while having a lot of fun and making great connections in the process. Whether this is your first time stepping into an experience like this or you’ve been walking the embodiment path for a while, SoulPlay meets you where you are.
SoulPlay strives to create a container through which we can all be our fully expressed selves. The depth, joy and playfulness we dream of is only realized if we are all included, welcomed and celebrated. We are continually working as an organization and as a community to support this vision.
CLICK HERE to learn more AND receive $20 Off because you used Reid’s special ReidAboutSex coupon to get your tickets before SoulPlay sells out!
JULY 2025 EVENTS
JUL 9th-13th, NEW ORLEANS, LA — NAUGHTY N’AWLINS
Need a reason to join me and like-minded sex geeks in New Orleans for 5-days of debaucherous fun? Want to watch LIVE demos THEN try out your new moves?! Here. You. Go. — Up your bedroom skills to Jedi levels AND get your shenanigans on!
Reid is teaching sooooo many workshops…
- Rough Sex for Nice Folks
- Blowjob Grad School
- From Flirting To Fucking
- Threesome, Foursome, Moresome! (with LIVE Demos)
- The Ins and Outs of Hand Sex
- Naughty Simon Says with Reid and Rina
- Squirting Grad School
- Less Jealous, More Secure (Hotter Sex!)
- Strap-On Grad School
GET YOUR REID WORKSHOP TICKETS HERE.
AUGUST 2025 EVENTS
Aug 2nd-9th. SPLIT, CROATIA — TANTRIC LUXURY YACHT RETREAT!
“Set sail, shed inhibitions, and dive into deep connection on the stunning Adriatic.”
Monique Darling and Peter Petersen are offering us a once-in-a-lifetime chance: a special discount for a week-long yacht retreat along the beautiful Croatian coast, from August 2-9, 2025. Instead of the usual $5000 per person, it’s just $3800! Will you join us?!
This retreat takes Tantra & Energy Sex beyond a single place. With their Soulful Seas Croatia Yacht Retreat, we’ll get to practice in multiple stunning locations, each offering its own magic. Imagine joining Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, and yours truly aboard a luxurious yacht as we explore hidden bays, intimate island ports, and the captivating Croatian coastline.
CLICK HERE to learn all the details and payment options! Hurry! The yacht is almost sold out. <3
Aug 15-20th. MOLKOM, SWEDEN — THE FIELD FESTIVAL!
Created by Rachel Rickards, The Field Festival is the first large-scale gathering dedicated to exploring and amplifying our innate capacity for coherent, connected presence. Imagine a festival (or even a world) where we come together, not as isolated individuals, but as one unified organism.
And Reid’s gonna be teaching there, too. Join us!
When: Aug 15-20th, 2025
Where: Ängsbacka Retreat Center, Molkom, Sweden
More Info and Registration HERE
SEPTEMBER 2025 EVENTS
SEP 18th-21st, REID GOES TO ּBELGIUM! WORKSHOP EXTRAVAGANZA WITH LORE BLANCKE & REID MIHALKO
Reid will be joining Lore Blanke for a special workshop weekend in Belgium! Together, they’ve crafted a delicious array of offerings blending their teachings for an enriching experience. You can experience 5 of Reid’s popular workshops to choose. Feel free to pick and choose the sessions that resonate with you, or better yet, join us for the entire weekend to get the full immersive experience! Here’s the full rundown of weekend’s workshops:
✨ Thursday 18/09, 18.30 – 21.00: Tease ‘N’ Tell: A Playful Night of Desires & Secrets ✨
✨ Friday 19/09, 18.30 – 21.30: Show ‘N Tell Bedroom Favorites (with LIVE Demos) ✨
✨ Saturday 20/09, 9.30 – 12.00 and 13:00 – 15:30: Rough S❤️ For Nice Folks ✨
✨ Saturday 20/09, 16.30 – 18.30 and 19.30 – 22.30: Sen$ual Play Party (with Intro Workshop) ✨
✨ Sunday 21/09, 10:00 – 13:00 and 14:00 – 17:00: Oral S❤️ Grad School ✨
Tickets: Learn More and Get Your Tickets HERE.
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
OCTOBER 2025 EVENTS
OCT 2nd-5th, REID GOES TO STOCKHOLM! WORKSHOP EXTRAVAGANZA WITH LORE BLANCKE & REID MIHALKO
Reid will be joining Lore Blanke for a special workshop weekend in Stockholm! Together, they’ve crafted a delicious array of offerings blending their teachings for an enriching experience. You can experience 5 of Reid’s popular workshops to choose. Feel free to pick and choose the sessions that resonate with you, or better yet, join us for the entire weekend to get the full immersive experience! Here’s the full rundown of weekend’s workshops:
✨ Thursday 2/10 18.30 – 21.00: Tease ‘N’ Tell: A Playful Night of Desires & Secrets ✨
✨ Friday 3/10 18.30 – 21.30: Show ‘N Tell Bedroom Favorites (with LIVE Demos) ✨
✨ Saturday 4/10 9.30 – 12.00 and 13:00 – 15:30: Rough S❤️ For Nice Folks ✨
✨ Saturday 4/10 16.30 – 18.30 and 19.30 – 22.30: Sen$ual Play Party (with Intro Workshop) ✨
✨ Sunday 5/10 10:00 – 13:00 and 14:00 – 17:00: Oral S❤️ Grad School ✨
Tickets: Learn More and Get Your Tickets HERE.
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
6-Week Course: OCT 15th Thru NOV 19th — Virtual, 6-Week Deep Dive —
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships? Or push new relationships away too fast?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and like-minded humans for a 6-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series with LIVE coaching calls exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
Over 200+ amazing humans have already taken this class and raved about it… And Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure‘s 6 LIVE Q&A/Coaching Calls begin Wed, Oct 15-Nov 19th, 2025, 6-8pm PACIFIC.
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
NOVEMBER 2025 EVENTS
**NOV 1st-8th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — THE 11TH ANNUAL TRANSFORMATIONAL INTENSIVE FOR EXTRAORDINARY FACILITATORS W/ MONIQUE, PETER AND FRIENDS
Eight Days, Ten Instructors! — Join Reid, Monique Darling, Peter Peterson and a host of their favorite teachers for a weeklong deep dive into taking your teaching and facilitation abilities to the next level!
It’s our tenth year, and each one gets better and better!!
This year its in a little slice of heaven, Cabo San Lucas… Beach view Accommodations plus a rooftop with stunning 360 view! It is 8 days, with 10 extraordinary facilitators, and we are opening registration for just 18 attendees. Every year we have sold out!!!
This is the greatest creative inspiration Peter and Monique have ever created. It’s a culmination of their life’s work thus far.
We have spent the last 10 years now traveling the world learning and practicing these tools and now I want to share them with you. So many of you have asked for the steps, for a training to be able to do what we do, well I’m going to offer you one better…. we are going to offer you an intensive, a “Monique & Peter Boot Camp” if you will, with myself and some other extraordinary facilitators, to help you find out what’s in the way of you being able to offer your greatest gift to the world, to your clients, workshop attendees, partners, and every aspect of your life. Always remember YOU! You are the gift!!
Read the more about fabulous event and which teachers will be teaching via either link below…
Ticket & Registration Info HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE.
SAVE THE DATES…
I don’t have links for these events yet, but wanted to give you a heads up so you can block out the dates on your calendar…
- Berlin, Germany — September 11-14th, 2025
- Amsterdam, Netherlands — October, 9-12th 2025
FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
Stay tuned for waaaaay in advance events popping up here soon…
ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…
ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? 
And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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