Date Your Species

The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important?

What Is The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important? The Venn Diagram of Compatability (A.K.A. The Venn Diagram of “Is This Even a Good Idea?”) consists of four circles that Misha Bonaventura and I created. We suggest folks seeking to date or hook up take a peek at the four circles BEFORE […]

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From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure – 5-Week Course

Finding yourself in over your head trying to balance this world of relationship, sluttiness, sexy possibility, love chemicals, and secure attachment? Know someone who’s caught feelings when they didn’t want to? Have you tried not to catch feelings only to have your stomach and heart tied up in knots after having great sex with great […]

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How Can A Cis-woman Flirt With Other Women Easily?

  How Can A Cis-woman Flirt With Other Women Easily?   Cathy: We have something from one of our….our fans out there and I love that they write in   Reid: We have fans?   Cathy: Yeah. No, they said they’re our fan   Reid: Oh my, they’re still our fan?   Cathy: Yeah. First […]

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Can You Really Design Happiness Into Your Relationships?

Don’t you have to take whatever you can get in dating? Can you really date your species? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Can you really design happiness into your relationships?  Reid: Hello, that’s bullshit. Do you ever listen to Reid Mihalko? Oh my lord!  Cathy: Reid Mihalko […]

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What Do You Do After You Ditch The Rules Around Dating and Sex

If you dump the old paradigms around sex and dating, what do you do? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We have a video on playing games around sex and releasing old paradigms in our relationships, where a woman’s not supposed to initiate sex, not supposed to have […]

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Is Polyamory Only For The Affluent And Privilege?

Does poly belong only to the wealthy and well educated? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   In regards to the interview you did with Diane Adams, which was really good- Reid:     Thank you. Cathy:   About polyamory, someone said, “Would these academic people think differently if they lost their […]

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How Do You Negotiate With Your Partner Around Their Overnight Dates?…

Dealing with new relationships in your relationship can be challenging… Listen to Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com disagree on what’s reasonable and draw your own conclusion! Leave comments below. Cathy:   Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my […]

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How Do You Have Sex With Bigger People?

Is there anything you need to know if you want to sleep with a bigger person? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   So, what if you have never slept with a bigger person? And, you want to? How do you talk to them about what’s going on and […]

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Consecutive and Concurrent Relationships

What is the difference between consecutive and concurrent relationships? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    Hello everybody, it’s Reid Mihalko from Reidaboutsex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    And we have an answer. We figured out from this other video that we’re shooting about concurrent and congruent relationships, and […]

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How Can A Senior Find A Partner To Have A Great Life With?

If you want to find someone to have fun with, who is passionate for life, how do you go about it? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: What advice can you give someone who is a senior person wanting to meet a person to enjoy life with? Reid:    This is […]

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