About Reid

If Dr. Ruth and Jon Stewart had a son, that son would be Reid Mihalko…

Reid Mihalko  (He/Him) of ReidAboutSex.comRelationship10x.com, and Sex10xOnline.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health and satisfaction in and out of the bedroom using an inspiring mixture of humor, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.

Using humor, insight and solid information, Reid appeals to audiences of all orientations, backgrounds, ages, and identities. He speaks pragmatically to nearly all areas of sexual self-expression, intimacy, dating and relating. Reid’s mission is to give men and women new tools to transform their love lives into fulfilling, satisfying, and sustainable expressions of self.

In early 2018, some very brave people came forward sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.

Our America host Lisa Ling on a documentary set interviewing sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com

Emmy nominated journalist Lisa Ling interviewing Reid 1-on-1 for Oprah’s “Our America” on OWN.

Reid is a sought-after international speaker frequently speaking at colleges and universities across the country on healthy relationship skills, and regularly appearing in the media sharing his views on shame-free sexuality. He has presented and keynoted at dozens of conferences. The workshops he’s designed continue to be taught all over the world and have been attended by over 50,000 men and women.

Reid has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does… with Chelsea Handler, Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, VH1, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, in Newsweek, Marie Claire, Details, People, The National Enquirer, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in twenty-seven countries and at least fourteen languages.

Reid has also been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships and consults regularly behind the scenes with producers and writers as an expert on subjects ranging from infidelity and sex addiction to dating and marriage, from jealousy and non-monogamy to gender dynamics and sexual tips and tricks. Reid is also the founder of Sex Geek Summer CampSex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

For Reid, the skills it takes to make relationships healthy and turn mediocre sex into great sex are learnable by everyone. The question is: Do you have the courage to be the change you want to see in the bedroom?

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Reid with a group of delighted college students after presenting his “Stand-Up Sex Ed” comedy talk.

Reid’s work is fresh, bold, ballsy and compassionate. His message is simple and he leads by example: Sex and intimacy don’t have to be scary, and here’s how you can create more self-esteem, self-confidence, health and humor in the bedroom!

The Why…

Reid, one of four boys, grew up in New Hampshire with a mother and father who loved one another tremendously, but who -like many of our parents- lacked the skills to communicate their relationship needs and upsets effectively. Reid witnessed what happens to a marriage (and a family) when such skills are lacking. Passionate about learning how to love like his parents loved, but communicate better, Reid set out to identify and master the intimacy skills his parents lacked. Decades later, Reid is taking his hard-won knowledge and personal experiences and sharing them with the world via his cutting-edge, entertaining and informative events and workshops designed to teach people the communication skills his parents lacked.

Reid and Tyra Banks on the set of Tyra in LA

Whether it’s a small group of concerned parents, a boardroom of Hollywood executives, or an auditorium full of cheering students, Reid conveys that sex and intimacy don’t have to be scary. He embodies his message: You can create more self-esteem, self-confidence, health and humor in the bedroom!

Reid models his message, which is: Sex and intimacy don’t have to be scary, and here’s how you can create more self-esteem, self-confidence, health and humor in the bedroom!

Reid illustrating to a packed auditorium at Brown University how awkward breaking the ice can be in romantic situations during his popular “Sex Educator Showdown” show.

The Work…

From his Stand-Up Sex Education shows for college audiences on safer sex, to his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops like Cuddle Party and Speed-Flirting, all the way to his more explicit Show-N-Tell sex education workshops (where adults get to watch, take notes, and ask questions), Reid combines his passion and wisdom with his ability to captivate audiences and make them laugh. Reid’s work is shifting Culture’s stiff (no pun intended) views on sex, intimacy, and relationships to something a tad more healthy and rewarding for all of us.

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