Workshops

The Ins and Outs of Energy Sxx w/Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, & Reid

What is Energy Sxx? It’s your ability to notice, access, and commune with the energy (aliveness) all around you! It’s your ability to expand your definition of Sxx to so much more than just point A into slot B. It’s a threesome with the sun, a mountain, the ocean, a breeze. It’s your ability to […]

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Intro to Energy Sxx & Energetic Sxx Temple Party w/ Reid, Monique & Peter

Would you like to expand the range of your ENERGETIC sxxual experience? Turn YOUR life into an orgasmic playground that doesn’t have to look anything like “sxx”… Learn to get in touch with your own energetic field, manipulate it, and turn it into a powerful source of connection and bliss. Discover how and where to […]

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Receptive Masculine? Penetrative Feminine? Are Those Even a Thing? 🍑 🌶️  👀

What Is “Receptive Masculine”? And How That Phrase Came Into Being… The Receptive Masculine is a term I first said in Virginia Beach at a tantra practitioners conference back 2008. I was slowly switching from being one of the faces of Cuddle Party (which just turned 18 years old last week, BTW!) to focusing more specifically on sex & […]

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Myth Busting: “Keeping It Casual” = You Don’t Care

The Common Misconception:“Keep It Casual” Automatically Means “Not Caring” How many times have you (or someone you know) started dating someone with whom you clicked, only to find yourself madly in love with them ASAP… And then, a year later, find yourselves mad at each other and no longer in love? (And still emotionally attached […]

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BEING RESCHEDULED: Receptive Masculine Meets Penetrative Feminine Retreat

Unlock the “forbidden” pleasures most polarity experts won’t tell you about! Join Amanda Ananda and yours truly for a weekend retreat devoted to exploring what polarity teachers and common concepts of “masculine” and “feminine” often leave unexplored: The ideas, practices, and immense pleasures that are ripe for the picking when you unlock the “receptive masculine” and “penetrative feminine!” 🍑 🍆 🥰

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The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important?

What Is The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important? The Venn Diagram of Compatability (A.K.A. The Venn Diagram of “Is This Even a Good Idea?”) consists of four circles that Misha Bonaventura and I created. We suggest folks seeking to date or hook up take a peek at the four circles BEFORE […]

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What Do Sex Educators Do?

What Do Sex Educators Do?               Cathy: What does a sex educator actually do? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: I’m here with Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ sitting right next to me. Cathy: Yup. So Reid, what is it that a sex educator, if you were defining […]

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Reid’s Sex 10X Deep Dive Retreat | Facebook Walk With Reid And Gretchen

Reid’s Sex 10X Deep Dive Retreat | Facebook Walk With Reid And Gretchen   Want to learn more about Sex10x? Go HERE. Want to see if Reid has other retreats coming up? Visit Reid’s Calendar HERE. ************* Reid: Hello Facebook it’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and it’s Gretchen! Gretchen: Good morning! Reid: And we are […]

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Memorable Experiences At Sex Geek Summer Camp

Memorable Experiences At Sex Geek Summer Camp Reid: Hello sex geeks. This is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I have my flying squirrel on a t-shirt on. And I’m on a train and it’s quiet right now so if you can hear me, I’m in San Jose cause Cathy Vartuli and I are gonna do […]

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How to Create Retreats For Women Without Dramatic Attachment?

How to Create Retreats For Women Without Dramatic Attachment? Cathy: We had someone write in saying, “I’d like your advice in creating private one-on-one or group retreats for women where we can really wake them up to bliss and pleasure and inspire them to get them to leave all their shit behind and I want […]

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