Hey, Sex Geek!
Whether you’re a fan of sports or not… Or have an athletic bone in your body…
Are you wanting MORE from your love, dating, pleasure, or relationship life this winter?
Do you have a game plan for getting MORE? Or are you just hoping that MORE is going to start showing up?
As the days get shorter and the nights colder, screaming “MORE!” at your friends, loved ones, and strangers is only going to get you shunned, right? 😬
And just saying “I want more” over and over to yourself like it’s some kind of mantra is magical thinking — at least that’s what my therapist tells me. 😂
So here are two quick tips to help you get out of your head and turn that mantra into an actual action plan BEFORE you start screaming at everyone…
🧭 TIP #1: Find Your “Mildest” and Your “Wildest”
Imagine it’s three years from now…
You run into me at a coffee shop…
“Reid Mihalko?! Is that YOU?”
“Yep. Last time I checked.”
And you proudly announce: “Reid! I asked for MORE and I’m getting it!”
Ask yourself as you’re reading this email:
What’s the MILDEST thing that could change in my life that would make me say…
“Yep. I’m doing it. I’ve got MORE.”
Really. Ask yourself. 🤔 What’s your imagination coming up with when you think about the mildest thing?
Is it that:
- You’re flirting more?
- Dating again?
- More cuddles? More makeouts?
- Asking for what you want in bed or business?
- Having more adventures with your longtime partner?
- Joined an erotic book club and now can’t stop thinking about minotaurs?
- Finding a community that embraces how weird you are and now you’re doing onesie karaoke once a month with people who love you?
Now… Ask yourself:
What’s the WILDEST thing?
What’s the wildest, most mind-blowing thing that comes to mind… Something that would have you grinning, blushing, and thinking: “Holy crap… I can’t believe I actually did THAT!” 😈
You don’t have to DO the wildest thing. But ask yourself and think about it — What pops up?
The point is to give your imagination permission to come up with something… Maybe it’s something scandalous that’s also a turn-on! 🥵 Gasp!
Why Tip #1? Why the Mildest-to-Wildest thought experiment?
Because it’s much easier to create a roadmap —an action plan— once you have some idea where you might want to go… And the Mildest-to-Wildest exercise gives you some AMAZINGLY USEFUL hints as to what your baby-steps AND quantum leaps might be when it comes to manifesting MORE!
And now that we’ve got some hints… Now we’re ready for Tip #2…
🎯 TIP #2: Get MORE Specific — Not More Generic
To have MORE, it helps to GET MORE SPECIFIC.
Alot of us think keeping things vague gives us MORE options:
“I’m open to anything.”
“I just want to meet cool people.”
“I want more adventure.”
But vague desires can be surprisingly hard for other people to respond to. Vague desires actually turn most people away. Vague =/= turn on. Vague = turn OFF. 🤮
Try getting MORE specific.
Instead of…
“I want to meet people.”
Take a risk and get more clear about EXACTLY what you want.
Try…
“I’d love to meet other playful, sex-positive people my age who enjoy flirting, laughing, and exploring new things slowly.”
Instead of…
“I want more intimacy.”
Be bold and try…
“I want more affectionate touch, cuddling, kissing, and unhurried time with someone I trust who doesn’t always want everything to turn into full-on seggs.”
Being specific doesn’t necessarily shrink your opportunities…
On the contrary: Specificity helps the RIGHT people recognize, “Ohhhh… You’re looking for ME.” 🤩
Getting specific helps you win at the game of life because it starts to reveal the action steps and game plan that’s gonna get you off the couch and onto the playing field, {{ first_name }}!
I know because being specific helped turn me into the sex geek that I am today, a Ted Lasso of sex educators if you will.
Annnnnnd, I want to help YOU turn your mildest and wildest, and your specificity, into a winning Game Plan for YOU! I believe in you and your desires. You deserve MORE, Sex Geek! Will you let me help?
We’ll take your desires —your Mildest-to-Wildest + MORE— and start turning them into an actual roadmap:
- What do you want?
- How do you put it into words?
- Where might you find people who want similar things?
- And what can you actually DO next?
👉 https://bit.ly/slut-era-game-plan
You don’t need a perfect five-year plan.
You just need enough clarity to take your next step.
And everything comes with my 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee.
Come to class. Do the exercises. Dive into the materials.
If you think I wasted your time, ask for your money back.
Boom! Done! 👍💸
Because having MORE in your life doesn’t have to mean chaos and upset or magical thinking.
Sometimes…
Getting MORE in your life just needs a Game Plan and good folks cheering you on! 🧭 😈
I really hope you’ll join us.
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That’s it for today’s post. I hope your week is off to a good start!
Please feel free to share this post with any of your friends or loved ones you think might benefit from kicking off their Slut Era Back-To-School Semester with us, Sex Geek!
Yours in cheering you on towards creating a most delicious autumn,
REiD
