Consent, Boundaries, Ethics

Game Plan Advice For Your Love Life

Hey, Sex Geek! Whether you’re a fan of sports or not… Or have an athletic bone in your body…  Are you wanting MORE from your love, dating, pleasure, or relationship life this winter?  Do you have a game plan for getting MORE? Or are you just hoping that MORE is going to start showing up? […]

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3 Tips for Having a Safer-Seggs Conversation That Will Keep You Warm This Winter 😈💕❄️💬

Pop quiz! 📝😈 Someone you’re excited about texts or asks:“When were you last tested?”  👀 Do you… A) Answer confidently B) Ask some useful questions of your own C) Know what YOUR boundaries and risk needs are and communicate them D) Panic and throw your phone against a wall 😂 If you picked D… You. […]

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🎓🍎😈 Slut Era Semester: Back to School!

Summer might be over… But your Slut Era doesn’t have to be. Join world-renowned sex & relationship educator, Reid Mihalko, for four LIVE virtual classes on Zoom to help you get clearer about… Maybe your summer was filled with romance, adventures, hookups, cuddles, fantasies, flirting, and shenanigans. Maybe it absolutely was not. 😂😂😂 Either way… […]

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3 Festival Tips So Your Summer Crush 🥰 Doesn’t Become a U-Haul Emergency 😅

3 Festival Tips So Your Summer Crush 🥰 Doesn’t Become a U-Haul Emergency 😅 Brace yourself, Festival season is coming…  Festival Season is coming, which means music, workshops, dancing, cuddle puddles, late-night talks, new friends, old friends, maybe a crush or three, and your nervous system going: “WHEEEEEEEE! WE LIVE HERE NOW!” 🎪✨ And I love […]

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Being Spontaneous Vs. Regret — To Do It or Not To Do It…

Recently, I had the honor of teaching at the Interfusion Festival in Arlington, Virginia! Here’s a fun, slightly cheesy picture of yours truly with EverydayTantra.com’s Monique Darling & Peter Petersen. I was asked to facilitate a group conversation that would help attendees have a more powerful and positive festival experience… And the topic I chose […]

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If Someone Talks Over You, What Do you Do?

If Someone Talks Over You, What Do You Do? Cathy: So, what if you just met someone and they’re talking over you and kind of controlling your interactions and even when you try to do boundaries you’re not really, Reid: They keep talking over you? Cathy: Yes. Reid: Even when you’re sharing? Cathy: They are not […]

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When Your Enthusiasm Overpower Someone’s Consent….

When Your Enthusiasm Overpower Someone’s Consent… Find out more now with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Alright there we go. Ah! Cathy: Are we live? Reid: I think we’re live. Cathy: Does anyone see anything? Reid: This is real life. I don’t know. Cathy: Hopefully not. Reid: Hello everyone it’s […]

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Having Strong Personal Boundaries About The Time You Spend With Others | Facebook Live With Reid

Having Strong Personal Boundaries About The Time You Spend With Others | Facebook Live With Reid         Reid: Hello Facebook and YouTube and everyplace else this video will eventually be. It’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ coming to you from the hot tub and we have a really great question that just came […]

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Privacy When Poly…How Do I Set Boundaries With Other Partners?

Privacy When Poly…How Do I Set Boundaries With Other Partners?           Find out more with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Do you have any tips for handling scheduling and maintaining privacy of dates and avoiding anxious jealous interrogation from other partners? […]

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I Had Sex Before The Age of Consent… How Do I Reconcile Shame?

I Had Sex Before The Age of Consent… How Do I Reconcile Shame?           Find out more with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Hey Reid, I’ve been following you for several months now and I think your outlook on sex […]

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