Consent, Boundaries, Ethics

Mistakes People Make Around Consent | Facebook Walk With Reid And Allison

Mistakes People Make Around Consent | Facebook Walk With Reid And Allison           Reid: Hello Facebook! It’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Allison: And ah! Reid: Today, today is a sexy day ‘coz we’ve got Girl Sex 101’s Allison Moon guest starring today. Do you want to say…you can say anything you […]

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Should I Be Angry If I Caught Him Sleeping With Someone Even though We Had An Unfinished Agreement?

Should I Be Angry If I Caught Him Sleeping With Someone Even though We Had An Unfinished Agreement?         Reid: Hello! This is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I am with Cathy Vartuli of http://theintimacydojo.com/.  Cathy, what is today’s question? Cathy: Today’s question is someone wrote in and said “my partner and […]

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What Should I Do If Someone Drinks My Beer Other Than My Partner?

What Should I Do If Someone Drinks My Beer Other Than My Partner?           Reid: Alright. We’re broadcasting from the beach with our windsock on our mic. Hopefully the sound is great. Cathy: Yes, hopefully. So, someone wrote in and said that they’re in a poly relationship and one of the […]

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I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?

I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’m a guy who has had sex with women for my entire life but I think I’m gay or bi. How do I ethically have sex with both men and […]

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How Do You Navigate Consent Violations In The Community?

How Do You Navigate Consent Violations In The Community?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do I navigate consent violations on a group and what about accusations for spaces where I might be in a facilitation role or even brave enough to step into one when no one else can or […]

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A Few Resources on Power Dynamics…

An area that often gets overlooked in relationship and sex education is the area of individual/institutional power dynamics and how they impact relationships. This is an area that I was sorely lacking understanding in, but as I continue to journey further down the rabbit hole, slowly developing more awareness and understanding, I would be remiss if I didn’t shout from the rooftops, “Learning how power dynamics are impacting your relationships changes everything!”

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When Do You Try To Upgrade, and When Do You Set Boundaries?

If your partner asks for something that’s challenging, when do you try to step up and when do you say no? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my question is say my partner ask to meet a need for them, which is difficult for me. […]

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What Do You Do If You’re Banned From A Community And Don’t Know What You Did?

Finding a balance between making it safe for people to share boundary violations and protecting their privacy, and removing people who violate boundaries- perhaps unknowingly is challenging. How do you handle it? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What happens if you get banned from a community? How should you […]

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How Do You KNow When To Pull Out of An Event…

How do you know when to pull the plug for an event? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: How you do know when it’s time to pull out? Cathy : of an event. Reid: Of an event This is business advice because I’m wearing my “Sex Geek Summer […]

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How Do You Negotiate With Your Partner Around Their Overnight Dates?…

Dealing with new relationships in your relationship can be challenging… Listen to Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com disagree on what’s reasonable and draw your own conclusion! Leave comments below. Cathy:   Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my […]

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