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Supreme Court Ruling On Roe v Wade Resources + #SGSC22 Recap

In case you missed it, last week, the Supreme Court of the United States, A.K.A. SCOTUS, overturned Roe v. Wade, removing all federal protections on abortion access and giving states the freedom to ban abortion. MoveOn.org let me know via their text alerts that, in the coming days, experts expect that at least 26 states will ban abortion, and […]

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Receptive Masculine? Penetrative Feminine? Are Those Even a Thing? 🍑 🌶️  👀

What Is “Receptive Masculine”? And How That Phrase Came Into Being… The Receptive Masculine is a term I first said in Virginia Beach at a tantra practitioners conference back 2008. I was slowly switching from being one of the faces of Cuddle Party (which just turned 18 years old last week, BTW!) to focusing more specifically on sex & […]

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Myth Busting: “Keeping It Casual” = You Don’t Care

The Common Misconception:“Keep It Casual” Automatically Means “Not Caring” How many times have you (or someone you know) started dating someone with whom you clicked, only to find yourself madly in love with them ASAP… And then, a year later, find yourselves mad at each other and no longer in love? (And still emotionally attached […]

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BEING RESCHEDULED: Receptive Masculine Meets Penetrative Feminine Retreat

Unlock the “forbidden” pleasures most polarity experts won’t tell you about! Join Amanda Ananda and yours truly for a weekend retreat devoted to exploring what polarity teachers and common concepts of “masculine” and “feminine” often leave unexplored: The ideas, practices, and immense pleasures that are ripe for the picking when you unlock the “receptive masculine” and “penetrative feminine!” 🍑 🍆 🥰

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Breathing Easier Equals Heavey Breathing This Valentine’s 💘

A Box of Chocolates Is Soooooo Pre-Pandemic… Greetings from Lisbon, Sex Geek! My partner (and author of Girl Sex 101), Allison Moon, and I are on a long-overdue vacation in Portugal. (Allison LOVES seafood, by the way, and last year, after we got vaccinated, Allison snatched up some super low-priced tickets to Portugal so we’d have something […]

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The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important?

What Is The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important? The Venn Diagram of Compatability (A.K.A. The Venn Diagram of “Is This Even a Good Idea?”) consists of four circles that Misha Bonaventura and I created. We suggest folks seeking to date or hook up take a peek at the four circles BEFORE […]

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Organizing In-Person Events In a Vaccinated World (Discussion Panels for Sex Educators)

What are the best COVID event policies to use if you’re going to run or be teaching at in-person events? If you’re thinking about teaching in-person events and wondering what are the best, COVID policies to use… Or what safety protocols need to be in place for you to teach at someone else’s event… Then […]

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From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure – 5-Week Course

Finding yourself in over your head trying to balance this world of relationship, sluttiness, sexy possibility, love chemicals, and secure attachment? Know someone who’s caught feelings when they didn’t want to? Have you tried not to catch feelings only to have your stomach and heart tied up in knots after having great sex with great […]

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Is Megasexual a Gift or Curse? Plus, Using Dopamine To Make Naughty Things NICE…

Yesterday was the Winter Solstice — the shortest day & longest night of the year — and I went on a lovely winter hike with Allison and her parents (see photo). I got home to find that a good friend had posted a Solstice blessing, which I wanted to share with you… “Shortest day and longest […]

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2022 IN-PERSON, Sex Geek Summer Camp Dates Announced!

Can YOU Say 350ft Slip ‘N Slide In 2022? Are you a sex educator, workshop leader, toy blogger, Tantra teacher, therapist, sex worker, burlesque performer, coach (or someone whose career falls under the sex-positive entrepreneur umbrella?)… If you need some R&R and want to nerd out on how to build a more successful business helping […]

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