Events & Appearances

Reid visits the Shameless Sex Podcast and we talk about Orgies, Play Parties, and the “Birthday Club”

Catch my interview on the Shameless Sex Podcast with Amy Baldwin and April Lampert What is the “Birthday Club” and why is it a great opportunity to ask for your erotic desires? Why is it so challenging for people to put together or find sex aka play parties? What are the best ways to ask […]

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Speed Flirting & All Gender Temple Party w/Reid & Monique

This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. Reid Mihalko is back!!! Oh how Austin and I have missed him! These events always sell out, so grab your spot now.. We are starting out our temple party a little different tonight, the first 45 […]

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Play Party Palooza Weekend: No Need To Rush 3 Day Temple Immersion

Are you a Temple/play party enthusiast? Do you like to come to Temple parties again and again and again? Do you love the magic that happens when like-minded individuals, couples, thruples, and more’somes gather with the intent to explore pleasure & play? At the end of the night, are you always saying, “Can’t we stay […]

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The Ins and Outs of Energy Sxx w/Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, & Reid

What is Energy Sxx? It’s your ability to notice, access, and commune with the energy (aliveness) all around you! It’s your ability to expand your definition of Sxx to so much more than just point A into slot B. It’s a threesome with the sun, a mountain, the ocean, a breeze. It’s your ability to […]

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Intro to Energy Sxx & Energetic Sxx Temple Party w/ Reid, Monique & Peter

Would you like to expand the range of your ENERGETIC sxxual experience? Turn YOUR life into an orgasmic playground that doesn’t have to look anything like “sxx”… Learn to get in touch with your own energetic field, manipulate it, and turn it into a powerful source of connection and bliss. Discover how and where to […]

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Receptive Masculine? Penetrative Feminine? Are Those Even a Thing? 🍑 🌶️  👀

What Is “Receptive Masculine”? And How That Phrase Came Into Being… The Receptive Masculine is a term I first said in Virginia Beach at a tantra practitioners conference back 2008. I was slowly switching from being one of the faces of Cuddle Party (which just turned 18 years old last week, BTW!) to focusing more specifically on sex & […]

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BEING RESCHEDULED: Receptive Masculine Meets Penetrative Feminine Retreat

Unlock the “forbidden” pleasures most polarity experts won’t tell you about! Join Amanda Ananda and yours truly for a weekend retreat devoted to exploring what polarity teachers and common concepts of “masculine” and “feminine” often leave unexplored: The ideas, practices, and immense pleasures that are ripe for the picking when you unlock the “receptive masculine” and “penetrative feminine!” 🍑 🍆 🥰

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From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure – 5-Week Course

Finding yourself in over your head trying to balance this world of relationship, sluttiness, sexy possibility, love chemicals, and secure attachment? Know someone who’s caught feelings when they didn’t want to? Have you tried not to catch feelings only to have your stomach and heart tied up in knots after having great sex with great […]

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What Do Sex Educators Do?

What Do Sex Educators Do?               Cathy: What does a sex educator actually do? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: I’m here with Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ sitting right next to me. Cathy: Yup. So Reid, what is it that a sex educator, if you were defining […]

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Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone

Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love you to talk about the fear that one’s desires are too unrealistic or niche to express or share with anyone.” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ staying right by my […]

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