Sexual Shame

Receptive Masculine? Penetrative Feminine? Are Those Even a Thing? 🍑 🌶️  👀

What Is “Receptive Masculine”? And How That Phrase Came Into Being… The Receptive Masculine is a term I first said in Virginia Beach at a tantra practitioners conference back 2008. I was slowly switching from being one of the faces of Cuddle Party (which just turned 18 years old last week, BTW!) to focusing more specifically on sex & […]

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The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important?

What Is The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important? The Venn Diagram of Compatability (A.K.A. The Venn Diagram of “Is This Even a Good Idea?”) consists of four circles that Misha Bonaventura and I created. We suggest folks seeking to date or hook up take a peek at the four circles BEFORE […]

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Why Is It So Hard To Deal With Shame Around Sexuality?

Why Is It So Hard To Deal With Shame Around Sexuality?               Reid: C’mon… Hello it’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/  and we have a special guest star today. Amy: Hello. Reid: It’s Amy Jo Goddard. What…what’s your website URL? Amy: https://amyjogoddard.com/ Reid: https://amyjogoddard.com/ and I’m wearing one of AJ’s […]

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Does Ejaculation In Older Men Decreases Life Force Energy?

Does Ejaculation In Older Men Decrease Life Force Energy?               Reid: Hello Facebook it’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and hello YouTube as well because we take this videos and we post them there as well. If you want to subscribe go to https://www.youtube.com/reidaboutsex. There is an airplane flying directly […]

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Tips For Getting Tested For STI’s | Facebook Walk With Reid and Hunter Riley

Tips For Getting Tested For STI’s | Facebook Walk With Reid and Hunter Riley           Reid: Hello Facebook it’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I’m here with Hunter Riley Hunter: Yay! Reid: from Self Serve toys and we are in New Mexico Hunter: Albuquerque Reid: Albuquerque, New Mexico and I just […]

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If the Condom Is Stuck Inside, What Should You Do?

  If the Condom Is Stuck Inside, What Should You Do?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, if the condom falls off inside of a woman or man can you feel it? And will it come out on its own? What do we do?   This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   […]

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My Partner Has Erectile Dysfunction, How Could We Have Safer Sex?

  My Partner Has Erectile Dysfunction, How Could We Have Safer Sex?     Cathy: Another intrepid viewer wrote in I’ve been enjoying your YouTube videos where you and Reid answer questions saying thank you so much for everything you do. I have a question and I haven’t been able to find an answer to […]

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I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?

I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?             Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do […]

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Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – UPGRADED for Your P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E.

Many people find it difficult to have a safer sex conversation because no one ever taught us how! I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help me recall each of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech’s 8 steps…

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Are You Clean or Clear When Your STI Test Comes Back Negative?

Some people us the word “clean” when their STI or STD test results come back negative… Is there an upgrade? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hey Cathy, I just got tested and I’m clean. How about you?  Cathy: Reid, I love that you got tested, and you’re clean whether […]

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