How Do I Find a Good Poly or Kink-Friendly Therapist? Cathy: How do I find a good poly or kink-friendly therapist? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And someone wrote in and said they were looking for a therapist and they weren’t sure how to […]
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What Are Some Tried and True Ways to Start Getting Out There in a New City? Cathy: Quick question, as a super single 20-something in a new city what are tried and true ways I can use to start getting “out there”. Tinder was kind of weird for me and any advice from […]
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[Some of the following text is taken from the flyer I make available at all of my workshops and appearances. I’m sharing it here to also give readers a sense of what and how information about my accountability process is being shared offline when I’m teaching.] Information about Reid Mihalko’s Accountability Process In early 2018, […]
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Communities benefit from talking thoughtfully about difficult subjects. And while difficult subjects are, well, difficult… It’s my personal lived experience that silence creates even greater difficulties and pain than walking towards what is uncomfortable.
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If someone says I harmed them, I start with believing them. Period. Any other response, for me goes against my values. Any other response would be inappropriate. I wasn’t interested in adding myself to the list of men who deny, retaliate, or minimize the harms they’re being invited to hold themselves accountable for.
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An area that often gets overlooked in relationship and sex education is the area of individual/institutional power dynamics and how they impact relationships. This is an area that I was sorely lacking understanding in, but as I continue to journey further down the rabbit hole, slowly developing more awareness and understanding, I would be remiss if I didn’t shout from the rooftops, “Learning how power dynamics are impacting your relationships changes everything!”
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