How much does size matter?
With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.
Cathy: Someone wrote in should I give up on sex? I have a 3 and a half inch of penis when I’m large or hard and I heard that no woman desires that. This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/.
Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.
Cathy: And, no. Sex is wonderful. That doesn’t matter. I have had partners that had penises that size I’ve had partners bigger penises and I’ve had partners that have no penises or just the ones in the drawers.
Reid: Like boxers? Drawers? You mean like drawers, drawers?
Cathy: Drawers that I open up and have..
Reid: Okay.
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: Big question is size matters. Culture will tell you that it does. I know plenty of people that enjoys smaller penises especially for different kinds of sex, for lots of different reasons. It’s not necessarily the size of the wave, it’s emotionally ocean. And everybody has preferences so here in America ‘bigger is better’ and that’s not true.
Cathy: No, a lot of it comes the skills someone brings, the intention and presence, the connection that people have. All of those things make a huge difference.
Reid: Huge difference? Man, set your work. Isn’t it?
Cathy: It is.
Reid: This huge thing.
Cathy: Yeah. I’d rather be with someone who’s really connected to me and really paying attention and knows how to touch my body than someone who has an enormous penis that might not use it well.
Reid: My quickest advice and again go find advice from different lots of people and don’t just listen to us. The idea of somebody who feels confident about themselves is generally more attractive ‘in a certain way’ and if you don’t feel confident about your body or your penis size or how your boobs hanging or whatever that is, what I would advocate for is to be vulnerable and truthful and just let people know ‘hey, just so you know, I have a hang up or I have insecurities’ and that kind of vulnerability, because your role modeling for other people they can share their insecurities too, a healthy version of sharing like that vulnerably, I think that’s damn sexy.
Cathy: Yeah, it is. And you might want to also look into energy sex because there’s a lot of really nice ways to connect with people that don’t have to do with so much physical whatever is there but the energy we bring to it.
Reid: And things like your hands, your face, there are lots of other kinds of sex other than just penis in holes.
Cathy: And that is our culture. Our culture does say there’s a lot of focus there. But you don’t have to believe the lies marketing gives us.
Reid: What do you think? Conclude video about penis size. Leave some comments and thank you for writing in.
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: And, I’m personally trying to have fun with not make fun of. So, whether my badges work for you or not, thanks for watching.
Cathy: It good to be worthwhile. If you’re bigger or smaller size wise or other part size.
Reid: Comments.