Communication

The Mysterious Disappearance of Rule #7: NO DRY HUMPING!

Will you play detective with me? There’s a 20-year-old mystery that needs solving… The Mysterious Disappearance of Rule #7:NO DRY HUMPING! Waaaaay back in 2004, the phrase, “Rule #7: NO DRY HUMPING!” was on the lips and tongues of thousands of morning radio DJs and news anchors across the world.  Why? Because a workshop called Cuddle Party became an international […]

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Celebrating Birthdays, Embracing Boldness, and Walking Towards Authenticity

Would you do me a favor, SexGeek? It’s my birthday weekend and I want to extend a unique invitation to YOU—one that turns the tradition of birthday wishes on its head. You see, as the birthday boy, I’m using my special day as an excuse for YOU to ask for what YOU want. Consider it a […]

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4 Tips for Getting Tested and Having the Safer Sex Talk

4 Tips for Getting Tested and Having the Safer Sex Talk Hey Sex Geek! You might not know this but I regular get an STI screening and share my test results on social media. Why you ask? To encourage folks to get tested. I know, shocking! Truth be told, I get a lot of positive […]

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What Snacks Would You Want at Your Play Party?

Do you know what the best snack foods are for play parties? Well, I have answers for you. Read on… What Snacks Go Best at a Play Party? My friends and followers have shared which favorite play party snacks get them in the mood… And I’m curious what foods do it for you? Feel free to leave […]

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Reid’s New Year’s Eve Challenge

• ONLY FOR THE BRAVE (That’s YOU!) •Consider Making THIS New Year’s Unforgettable… The holidaze are upon us so I’ll keep this short! I waited until after Black Friday because I know how bananas the holiday shopping rush can be after the food coma wears off. So now that you’ve escaped family obligations, the stores, […]

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How To Throw a Successful, Kick-Ass Play Party for Your Friends, the online course

Imagine you have a special birthday or holiday coming up, and you want to throw a play party for your friends but you’re worried it won’t go well… Maybe you’ve already been to or hosted play parties and all you see is that they cause MORE drama and upset than fun and orgasms…  It’s true that […]

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Romance Home Run – Step 1: Are you flirting with a Cat or a Dog?

Romance Home Run Step 1 – Are you flirting with a Cat or a Dog? What’s a Romance Home Run? And do you know how to hit one? Today we pose the questions: What the difference between flirting and being romantic? And how do you hit a Romance Home Run in your relationships? Before we can step up to bat, let’s discuss…  The Difference […]

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Romance Home Run – Step 2: Adding Love Languages to Your Flirting and Romancing

Romance Home Run Step 2 – Adding Love Languages to Your Flirting and Romancing Are you ready for Step 2 in creating a Romance Home Run? Here comes the pitch… And… BOOOM! Knock it out of the park, why don’cha! (And your lovers go wild…) If you missed the previous Step 1 post and you’re looking to up your batting average […]

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Do You Fib To Empower Someone Else’s Feelings?

Do You Fib To Empower Someone Else’s Feelings?           Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “When is it okay to fib to spare someone’s feelings? Are you just empowering them if you do that or just being a nice person?” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: And the person […]

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Is Micro-cheating A Big Deal?

Is Micro-cheating A Big Deal?           Cathy:  What is micro-cheating and should you be concerned about it? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ who’s doing his getting rid of the shine. Reid: I’m all oily. Cathy: And I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: I want to look professional. Cathy: And […]

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