Dating skills

What Do Sex Educators Do?

What Do Sex Educators Do?               Cathy: What does a sex educator actually do? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: I’m here with Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ sitting right next to me. Cathy: Yup. So Reid, what is it that a sex educator, if you were defining […]

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Getting A Sex Doll To Satisfy Your Partner When You’re Not Being Frisky

Getting A Sex Doll To Satisfy Your Partner When You’re Not Being Frisky         Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do you guys feel about getting  a sex doll to satisfy your partner when you’re not feeling frisky?” They’re wondering if it’s a good way to keep people happy when one […]

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Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone

Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love you to talk about the fear that one’s desires are too unrealistic or niche to express or share with anyone.” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ staying right by my […]

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I’m Socially Shy But Sexually Adventuresome… Is That Normal?

I’m Socially Shy But Sexually Adventuresome… Is That Normal? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Typical normies believe in a truly shy person will find themselves in a fucking orgy of all places. Please make a helpful video for those who actually need advice.” This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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Transitioning From A Polyamorous Lifestyle To A Monogamous Relationship

Transitioning From A Polyamorous Lifestyle To A Monogamous Relationship               Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love to hear Reid’s thoughts about transitioning from a poly lifestyle to entering a monogamous relationship.” This is Reid Mihalko from https://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and hear […]

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If I Had A Breakthrough in ______, I’d Have Better Sex…

If I Had A Breakthrough in ______, I’d Have Better Sex… Cathy: So Reid you did this great exercise at http://sex10x.kajabi.com/and I thought it would really be fun to share here. Reid: Okay, the chance is I don’t remember what it was. Cathy: I know and I’ll tell you Reid: Okay Cathy: And then you […]

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I’m Interested In Dating Someone But I Always End Up Running Away, What’s Should I do?

I’m Interested In Dating Someone But I Always End Up Running Away, What’s Should I do? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’m having a hard time dating because I get really messed up when I’m interested into someone. I’m usually okay for the first couple weeks but then, either I ended up clinging or […]

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What Does Society Tell Us About Attraction?

What Does Society Tell Us About Attraction? Cathy: Someone wrote in about we have been….we had some video about INCEL and people that are involuntarily in celibate and someone Reid: Yeah, that’s what Incel stands for. Cathy: Yes, and someone wrote in and said that most people think I’m creepy because they… I….my look are not […]

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When and How To Use The Safer Sex Elevator Speech?

When and How To Use The Safer Sex Elevator Speech? Cathy: I’m curious about when to initiate the safer sex elevator speech. It sounds like it comes before kissing especially for including oral herpes in this discussion. But I don’t usually talk about sex until I know someone’s interested which I frequently find out by […]

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When Your Enthusiasm Overpower Someone’s Consent….

When Your Enthusiasm Overpower Someone’s Consent… Find out more now with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Alright there we go. Ah! Cathy: Are we live? Reid: I think we’re live. Cathy: Does anyone see anything? Reid: This is real life. I don’t know. Cathy: Hopefully not. Reid: Hello everyone it’s […]

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