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Energetic Sxx Facilitator Training Lvl 1

*Are you ready to dive deep into Energy and Play and discover and explore your full power and expression? *Have you always been in touch with a sixth sense in some way and want to develop that further? The ability to feel, see, taste, touch, experience the world through Energy? *Do you love Energy Sxx […]

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Unleash the Beast with Monique and Reid

Are You Ready To Unleash the Beast?! Ready To Uncage Your Inner Primal Animal? Let Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling take you on a weeklong immersion into the deepest, naughtiest, most wanton, parts of your desire and passion. Do you contain your wants to keep from upsetting others? Have you been told that “you’re too […]

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Romance Home Run – Step 1: Are you flirting with a Cat or a Dog?

Romance Home Run Step 1 – Are you flirting with a Cat or a Dog? What’s a Romance Home Run? And do you know how to hit one? Today we pose the questions: What the difference between flirting and being romantic? And how do you hit a Romance Home Run in your relationships? Before we can step up to bat, let’s discuss…  The Difference […]

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Romance Home Run – Step 2: Adding Love Languages to Your Flirting and Romancing

Romance Home Run Step 2 – Adding Love Languages to Your Flirting and Romancing Are you ready for Step 2 in creating a Romance Home Run? Here comes the pitch… And… BOOOM! Knock it out of the park, why don’cha! (And your lovers go wild…) If you missed the previous Step 1 post and you’re looking to up your batting average […]

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Supreme Court Ruling On Roe v Wade Resources + #SGSC22 Recap

In case you missed it, last week, the Supreme Court of the United States, A.K.A. SCOTUS, overturned Roe v. Wade, removing all federal protections on abortion access and giving states the freedom to ban abortion. MoveOn.org let me know via their text alerts that, in the coming days, experts expect that at least 26 states will ban abortion, and […]

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Receptive Masculine? Penetrative Feminine? Are Those Even a Thing? 🍑 🌶️  👀

What Is “Receptive Masculine”? And How That Phrase Came Into Being… The Receptive Masculine is a term I first said in Virginia Beach at a tantra practitioners conference back 2008. I was slowly switching from being one of the faces of Cuddle Party (which just turned 18 years old last week, BTW!) to focusing more specifically on sex & […]

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Myth Busting: “Keeping It Casual” = You Don’t Care

The Common Misconception:“Keep It Casual” Automatically Means “Not Caring” How many times have you (or someone you know) started dating someone with whom you clicked, only to find yourself madly in love with them ASAP… And then, a year later, find yourselves mad at each other and no longer in love? (And still emotionally attached […]

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BEING RESCHEDULED: Receptive Masculine Meets Penetrative Feminine Retreat

Unlock the “forbidden” pleasures most polarity experts won’t tell you about! Join Amanda Ananda and yours truly for a weekend retreat devoted to exploring what polarity teachers and common concepts of “masculine” and “feminine” often leave unexplored: The ideas, practices, and immense pleasures that are ripe for the picking when you unlock the “receptive masculine” and “penetrative feminine!” 🍑 🍆 🥰

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Breathing Easier Equals Heavey Breathing This Valentine’s 💘

A Box of Chocolates Is Soooooo Pre-Pandemic… Greetings from Lisbon, Sex Geek! My partner (and author of Girl Sex 101), Allison Moon, and I are on a long-overdue vacation in Portugal. (Allison LOVES seafood, by the way, and last year, after we got vaccinated, Allison snatched up some super low-priced tickets to Portugal so we’d have something […]

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The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important?

What Is The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important? The Venn Diagram of Compatability (A.K.A. The Venn Diagram of “Is This Even a Good Idea?”) consists of four circles that Misha Bonaventura and I created. We suggest folks seeking to date or hook up take a peek at the four circles BEFORE […]

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