Sex Geekery

The Condom Broke When I Was With A Sex Worker… Could I Have HIV?

The Condom Broke When I Was With A Sex Worker… Could I Have HIV?       Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, “I was having sex with a sex worker and the condom broke. I pulled out immediately and I didn’t ejaculate so does that mean if she has HIV, I’ve contracted it […]

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The Importance of Asking For What We Want!

The Importance of Asking For What We Want!               Reid: I just want to be the first to say that Cathy is making me do this video and withholding dinner from me. Cathy: The steak is over there. Reid: There’s…there’s steak Cathy: With mushrooms and blue cheese on top. […]

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Do Girls Ever Need To Be Forced A Little Bit?

Do Girls Ever Need To Be Forced A Little Bit?         Cathy: Do you have to force girls a little bit? I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/. Give me context Cath, give me context. Cathy: Some…someone was talking about that he…he had a date with someone he […]

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What’s The Difference Between Objectification And Preferences In Sex?

What’s The Difference Between Objectification And Preferences In Sex?   Cathy: What’s the difference between objectification and preferences when you’re sleeping with someone of a particular type? Someone bigger, of color or tall, short, older, younger or whatever it is. I am here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: And I am here with Cathy […]

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Determining One’s Needs Through Self-love Before Entering Into New Relationship

Determining One’s Needs Through Self-love Before Entering Into New Relationship       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “When I was newly single after divorce I had all these men flocking to me and I was like having all kinds of hot poly kinky play, everything I dreamed of and then some I met […]

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What Do You Do If You Have Trouble Accepting Offers Of Sex… Even If You Want It?

What Do You Do If You Have Trouble Accepting Offers Of Sex… Even If You Want It? Cathy: What do you do if you have trouble accepting sex even if someone else initiates it and you really want it? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: Read that […]

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Attracted to Full-Size Women… What If I Want To Play With A Full-Size Man?

Attracted to Full-Size Women… What If I Want To Play With A Full-Size Man? Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I found out a long time ago I was attracted to large full-size women. I have been involved with all body types throughout my dating life and it’s always been the personality […]

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How Can You Share That You Want To Go Deeper Into A Relationship While Staying Grounded?

How Can You Share That You Want To Go Deeper Into A Relationship While Staying Grounded?     Cathy: So we’re just doing a video talking about how you can transition from casual sex into a relationship and how you might want to have that conversation and I really liked when Reid was role modeling, […]

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How Can I Transition From Casual Sex To Relationship?

How Can I Transition From Casual Sex To Relationship?     Cathy: So we were talking in some…a video where we just shot about how to initiate sex if you’re out on a date or hanging out with someone that might be a friend like you’re not sure and this person wrote in and said, […]

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If I Mastubate, I Have Orgasm But If I Do It With My Partner, It’s A Challenge

If I Mastubate, I Have Orgasm But If I Do It With My Partner, It’s A Challenge Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I have tons of orgasms when I’m by myself masturbating but having orgasms with my partner is very challenging. I’d love to hear what you have to say about that and how […]

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