Cathy Vartuli

Just Want To Be Friends? What Do You Say?

If someone’s dropping the “L” word too soon, or you realize you just want to be friends… What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that […]

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Should You Ever Put A Timeline On Sex?

Is it a good idea to promise to sleep with someone in 6 weeks, or any other timeline? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So Reid, you’re talking to someone about having sex in the future, should you ever give them a timeline? Reid: In future like 2069? […]

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What Do You Do If You Have A Passive Aggressive Friend?

Are they being mean? Or joking? When someone is passive aggressive it can be confusing. What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little passive-aggressive-  Reid: Pfft. Whatever.  Cathy: … And subtly or […]

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What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips?

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips?  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: All right.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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Is Your Condom Too Long?

Does your condom slip forward so there’s a bunch of material at the end? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “My partner and I often have a problem when the condom will slip off his dick or over stretch the tip so there’s this long […]

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How Do You Handle Risk More Easily

How can you walk toward the gun and handle risk better? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Today, we’re talking about risk. How do you handle it and how can it be easier for you?  Reid: You mean the board game?  Cathy: Yes, of course.  Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from […]

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How Can I Know My Brand And Make Income When I’m Changing The Focus Of My Sex-Positive Business?

Transition is challenging in business. When you’re rebranding, finding new peers, new clients, how do you take care of yourself? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Oh, my goodness. We’ve got some amazing questions that people write in and we’ve a really dense one, so I’m just going to set […]

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How Do You Deal With Being A Sex Educator and Someone Who Has Their Own Questions About Sex?

It can be tough to balance being an educator and being on your own journey. How can you deal with that? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you deal with being both a sex educator and a human being? Being the resource for information on dealing with personal […]

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How Do You Handle It When Your Friends And Family Don’t Support Your Sex Ed Career?

It can be confusing and frustrating when your family and friends don’t get what you do, and feel ashamed of the Sex Ed you do. How can you support yourself emotionally? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you handle it when your family and friends don’t support the […]

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Not Sure If You’re Non-monogamous or Have Intimacy Issues?

Are you a monogamous person with intimacy issues or poly? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Do you ever feel like you’ll never fall in love, that you might be broken?  Cathy: That’s a really scary feeling.  Reid: We had a question, some of you awesome folks and you’re writing […]

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