Sexual Shame

How Do You Know When To Pull Out? Can You Feel it?

What do you watch for to know when to pull out? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli, from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko, for ReidAboutSex.com . Reid: We have a question. Cathy: You actually started this as a […]

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Talking About Touch You Dont Like During Sex

How can you talk to your partner about what you don’t like in bed? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: What do you if your partner’s touching you in ways that you don’t particularly like? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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Not In The Mood? What Can You Do?

How can you tell your partner you’re not in the mood. How can you do that gently? Find out.. with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   How do you tell your partner in a way that’s loving and caring that you’re just not in the mood? Reid:     This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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Do You Need To Pinch The Tip Of Your Condom?

How do you put a condom on without letting air bubbles in? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Reid:    This one goes [pshew] this one goes [pshem] because it’s muffled, because it’s got a condom on it. Okay, last condom video, we didn’t talk about pinching the tip to roll […]

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They Claim They Didnt Know The Condom Broke…What do you do?

Did they tell the truth? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com (Laughs) Reid: Sing it! Cathy: Oh no, they’ll just hang up. Reid: All right. All right. I’ll let you off this time. Cathy: Oh […]

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The Top Three Mistakes Geeky People Make When Making Love

Wondering Where the Spark Went?     Movies and culture make sex seem like breathing- like you should naturally know how to do it, and if you don’t there’s something wrong with you… The truth is, even geeky people are usually making 3 core mistakes when making love. What are the Top 3 Mistakes Even […]

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What Do You Do When Your Child Questions Their Gender?

How do you support your son or daughter when they question their sexuality? How can you be a loving parent? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, and this was a really loving letter, they said that their child is in college, first year of college, […]

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Confidence and Instinct In The Bedroom [Article]

Am I Good In Bed… Yes, I am! Or Am I? It’s an ironic truth that being confident often makes people appear much sexier… And yet, in most people’s minds there is the question, “Am I good in bed?” Confidence in bed can be very attractive… it can spark interest, ignite passion, and explode into […]

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Learning From Each Other’s A-ha Moments

Our culture doesn’t talk about sex and relationships much. Yes, there’s tons of gossip! But trash-talking about So-and-So’s celebrity sexcapades isn’t the same as authentic sharing of questions, concerns, personal challenges and creative solutions and ideas… If you had car problems, you’d have no problem asking your co-workers or your family for their thoughts. You […]

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Healing Sexual Shame By Asking For What You Want AND Flirting-101 Embrace La Mesa, CA, Jan 8th!

Kick-off the New Year by tackling one of life’s biggest roadblocks… Have you ever been too ashamed to ask for something you wanted? Liked someone and wanted to flirt, but didn’t know how to break the ice? Can you remember a time in your life when you felt embarrassed or shameful for something that felt […]

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