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Kissing In The Rain Isn’t Romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter?

Why kissing in the rain isn’t necessarily romance! Isn’t romance some story about a helpless damsel and a strong handsome man riding up on a white horse to rescue her? Or is romance Hallmark cards and flowers? Maybe you’re thinking romance is standing in the rain declaring your undying love… Ummmm… I think romance is none of these things. […]

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Confidence and Instinct In The Bedroom [Article]

Am I Good In Bed… Yes, I am! Or Am I? It’s an ironic truth that being confident often makes people appear much sexier… And yet, in most people’s minds there is the question, “Am I good in bed?” Confidence in bed can be very attractive… it can spark interest, ignite passion, and explode into […]

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A Warm Connection, Part II: Training Your Hamsters

In the last article, we talked about one way to create warm connection quickly: Presence. Have you been practicing being present with people? Noticing when your brain goes off on it’s own, and bringing it back to the conversation? Noticing your toes, and the color of their eyes? Even a little bit of practice can […]

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A Warm Connection: Part I of III

Step 1: Presence… Want to learn how to build a warm connection quickly with people? Having a warmth between you and another person can make friendship, romance, and business easier and A LOT more fun. Can you imagine what your life would be like if you could create a warm easy relationship with the people […]

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Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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Bringing Back The Spark!

How YOU can bring back the spark! Why Security Doesn’t Excite Excitement and Why Excitement Doesn’t Make Security Feel Secure! What makes us feel secure rarely turns us on. Security is a relief. It’s sure. Security soothes your nervous system. Excitement feels dangerous. It’s stimulating. Excitement pumps the adrenaline. Adventure and intimacy are opposites, but both […]

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Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

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Wanna Be Immortalized On Reid’s Sex Geek Greeting Card for 2013? Here’s How…

Reid needs your sex geeky assistance! Help me make a commemorative Sex Geek greeting card to close out what’s been an extraordinary 2012 and to blast off into 2013! I have the vision of making a card who’s front consists of a collage of us all proudly displaying our Sex Geek, each in our own […]

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Dr. Joycelyn Elders and Reid Both Speaking at NJ’s National Sex Ed Conference, Nov 28-30th!

The Business of Teaching Pleasure… I’m honored that The Center for Family Life Education and Planned Parenthood of Central & Greater Northern NJ have invited me to teach social media and branding skills as part of 2012’s National Sex Ed Conference’s “Growing Your Sex Ed Business” tract. AND, I get to co-teach with the amazing, Kiceise Drew of YouTube! […]

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Watch Reid on Bravo’s Miss Advised, July 9th! – Live Tweet and/or Come to the Inperson Screening, too!

 Watch to see if Reid is Emily’s “species!” Want to find out if dating coaches walk their talk in the bedroom? Have a guilty pleasure for reality TV… Curious if Reid’s a good kisser? Find out the answers to all of these questions when you tune in to Bravo’s Miss Advised, July 9th, and watch […]

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