Dating & Connection

Who wins? Feeling Unsafe Vs Feeling Cherished

Feeling Cherished We all want relationships that get richer and deeper and create less stress. Bonus points when they can nourish and fulfill us in new ways! Surprisingly, this is just some of the magic that happens as we start to figure out who and what we are in relationships, what our needs and desires […]

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Are You Dating Your Species?

The Old Dating Vs The New Dating Most of us were taught that we should be happy if we find a nice mate, one that is usually kind and considerate, who brushes their teeth regularly, brings home a paycheck, and pays the electric bill on time… What is this “species” stuff? The old dating mentality […]

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Cool Down Styles

“Take a Chill-Pill” has a whole new meaning (and use)! When you are upset, what do you naturally do to calm down? What does your partner do when they’re upset? When you’re aware how you operate best in relationships, and understand how your loved ones function best, you have a huge leg up on having […]

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Bringing Back The Spark!

How YOU can bring back the spark! Why Security Doesn’t Excite Excitement and Why Excitement Doesn’t Make Security Feel Secure! What makes us feel secure rarely turns us on. Security is a relief. It’s sure. Security soothes your nervous system. Excitement feels dangerous. It’s stimulating. Excitement pumps the adrenaline. Adventure and intimacy are opposites, but both […]

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Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

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Watch Reid on Bravo TV’s Miss Advised via iTunes!

Download and Watch Episode #4 to see if Reid is Emily’s “species!” Want to find out if dating coaches walk their talk in the bedroom? Have a guilty pleasure for reality TV… Curious if Reid’s a good kisser? Is Emily ready to date her species? Find out the answers to all of these questions by watching […]

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Healing Sexual Shame By Asking For What You Want AND Flirting 201, San Diego, July 26th!

Have you ever been too ashamed to ask for something you wanted? Have you ever… Liked someone and wanted to flirt, but didn’t know how to break the ice? Can you remember a time in your life when you felt embarrassed or shameful for something that felt good? Ever had someone start flirting with you […]

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Reid Invites YOU to Create Love On Purpose For The Next 25-Days, April 16th!

25 Days. 25 Intimacy Experts. Tons of Bonuses. All Downloadable. Free To Listen In. What Are You Waiting For? Join Reid and these 24 top Love, Dating, Sex, and Relationship Experts as they bring you the Love On Purpose Revolution. Get some of Reid’s best tips and relationship advice, download some of his free bonuses… And times […]

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Say What’s Not Being Said: Reid’s Formula for Difficult Conversations

It’s what you’re not saying that’s destroying your relationships… The plain truth of intimacy is this: It’s what we’re not saying in our relationships that’s slowly killing them. Withholding the important and even the trivial, over time, fosters resentment and mistrust, eroding intimacy. And it’s not just the negative stuff that we don’t say that’s […]

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Creating Connection – Six Teleclasses to Enrich Your Life with Reid Mihalko and Friends!

Most of us spend more time choosing our latest cell phone than learning how to develop and deepen relationships… The general view is you either instinctively know how to create relationships, or you don’t. There are the charismatic, attractive people… and the rest of us. Love either hits you over the head, or it doesn’t. […]

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