Cathy Vartuli

Lying and The Three Strikes Rule… What Is It And How Do You Use It?

How does the 3 Strikes Rule apply to lying? Does changing your mind count as a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cathy promised me that was the last video but now we have to shoot another one.  Cathy: Actually I-  Reid: You lied to me!  Cathy: No, you […]

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Is The A Difference Between Telling A Lie And Changing Your Mind?

When does not keeping your word mean you’re telling a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We’ve talked about before about what to do if you’re caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, “My boyfriend has lied to me […]

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Can The Marriage Be Saved If One Partner Doesn’t Want Sex?

Tried everything but sex is off the table? Is the marriage over? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn’t want to sleep with me, we’ve had a lot of people writing in about this. It’s a great question. This woman wrote in […]

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How Do You Balance Leading With Intention and Listening To The Room?

Setting intentions is powerful, but how can you do it while leaving space for the audience’s needs and direction? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Yeah.  Cathy: Talking about today about needing from intention versus expectation. How to listen to the room and hold space for it.  Reid: That sounds […]

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What Do You Do If Someone Has A Cool Sex Toy You Want To See? (new w/ outro)

Do you pounce and grab someone’s sex toy? Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: A good friend shows up with their brand new sex toy. So cool.  Reid: It’s so shiny.  Cathy: It’s nice and bright and it’s one you’ve wanted to see forever.  Reid: I want to […]

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Is There Such A Thing As A Male G-Spot?

And if there is… How do you play with them? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Is there a male G-spot? I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: The answer’s yes.  Cathy: Called the P-spot.  Reid: But it begins with a P, yes. It’s the […]

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Sabotaged Yourself And Now Stuck In A Shame Spiral? What Do You Do?

Feel like you ruined everything? How can you get out of the negative loop? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do when you self-sabotage something that you really wanted to do, and now you’re kind of falling in a shame spiral? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  […]

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Keep Falling In Love When You’re Sexual? Feel Like Its Easier To Avoid Sex All Together?

What do you do if you always fall in love when you have sex? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do if you’ve been struggling with being sexual? You’re a really sexual person, but every time you’re sexual you kind of fall in love, and it doesn’t […]

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If You Go Down On Someone, Do You Have To Go Until They Finish?

If you give someone a blow job or cunnilingus, are you stuck doing it until they come? Learn more from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “If you start a blow job or cunnilingus, don’t you have to finish?” Like, when we’re talking about how you […]

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Not Climaxing With Your Partner? How Do You Feel Satisfied Anyway?

What do you need to feel satisfied, if you don’t come? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Fresh off the press, someone said in a question-  Reid: There’s a press? We have a press? This is amazing. What’s the question?  Cathy: They said, “For a woman who haven’t figured out […]

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