Sexual Skills & Pleasure

I Only Feel Climax During Sex But Not With Masturbation, What Should I Do?

I Only Feel Climax During Sex But Not With Masturbation, What Should I Do?         Cathy: I have a very weird lusting problem I’d love your help with. For some     Reid: What is it Cathy? Tell me.     Cathy: I have many problems but this is this was from […]

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What’s Your Next Pleasure Project? | Facebook Walk With Reid

What’s Your Next Pleasure Project? | Facebook Walk With Reid       Reid: Hello sex geek! It is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and we’re back in the office because it’s raining again in Oakland it’s like pouring outside and I thought about getting an umbrella and going outside with you. But then I just […]

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What is Pegging? | Facebook Walk With Reid

What is Pegging? | Facebook Walk With Reid       Reid: Hello everybody! It is Reid from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and it is our little Facebook live walk today. So as you as you jump on, let me know that the sound is okay. I’ve got my little extra battery today so I shouldn’t be able […]

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I Can’t Orgasm With My Boyfriend, What Do I Do?

I Can’t Orgasm With My Boyfriend, What Do I Do?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that. I have tons of orgasms when I’m by myself masturbating. But having orgasms with my partner is challenging. I’d love to hear what you have to say about that. And how can I go about […]

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I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?

I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?             Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do […]

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A Few Resources on Power Dynamics…

An area that often gets overlooked in relationship and sex education is the area of individual/institutional power dynamics and how they impact relationships. This is an area that I was sorely lacking understanding in, but as I continue to journey further down the rabbit hole, slowly developing more awareness and understanding, I would be remiss if I didn’t shout from the rooftops, “Learning how power dynamics are impacting your relationships changes everything!”

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Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – UPGRADED for Your P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E.

Many people find it difficult to have a safer sex conversation because no one ever taught us how! I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help me recall each of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech’s 8 steps…

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What To Do When I Get Turned On…I Feel Less Deserving For Pleasure?

What To Do When I Get Turned On…I Feel Less Deserving For Pleasure?           Is it okay to have a lot of pleasure? Find out with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy:  We had another intrepid viewer write in and say “I noticed that sometimes when […]

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Oral Sex Expertise Teaser

Oral Sex Expertise Teaser                             Reid: Hello everybody. It is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com and I’m just going to talk about oral sex for a couple of minutes. Why? Because I teach oral sex workshops all over the country whether it’s Blowjobs […]

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You’re Partner’s Sex Drive On Again, Off Again? What Can You Do?

How can you take care of yourself when you’re partners sexual connection is on-again, off-again? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -“  Reid: Is it “we have had” or “I have […]

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