Sexual Skills & Pleasure

Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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Wineglasses can make you a better lover… Really?

This is really cool and can take your physical intimacy to a whole new level! And you’ll never look at a wineglass the same way again! Play along and then try it out… I’d love to hear how it works for you! The Wine Glass Analogy: Imagine that you have a wineglass in front of you. Have you ever tried […]

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Oral Sex Expertise Made Simple [Video]

Say goodbye to your insecurities and helllllooooo to a new world of self-confidence! Want to increase your oral confidence and competence but you (or your partner) are too shy to watch full-on porn? Wish you had something respectful and fun to watch with your lover that entertains while teaching? Looking for pragmatic, respectful advice that’s […]

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Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

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Reid Hosting 3-Minute Show-Offs at the XBIZ Expo in Burbank, CA, Jan 9-10th

XBIZ Retail’s “3 Minute Show Offs” hosted by Reid Mihalko! There’s nothing like it. Top adult manufactures get to show off their hottest products in ultra fast-paced 3-minute presentations. Quicker than reading a brochure, potential buyers and sellers can learn just about all they need to know to make qualified and knowledgeable purchasing decisions. Each unique 3-minute […]

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Have the Relationship Agreements Conversation BEFORE You Go To Burning Man!

As a Sex Geek and avid Burning Man enthusiast with five+ dusty tours of booty under my belt (er…duty. Tours of duty!), one of the single, best bits of advice I can give any couple, semi-couple, or friends-with-benefits attending the Burn is this… Have your relationship agreements conversation before you step foot on the Playa. A […]

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[Video] Sexual Superhero Recommendations for Burning Man!

With great power comes great responsibility… Radical responsibility! The Burning Man Arts Festival in Black Rock City, Nevada, is host to some of the most free-spirited, artsy, and sex-positive people on the planet, as well as extreme partying conditions! Daytime temps on the Playa regularly exceed 100 degrees; 20-70 mph, white-out condition dust storms are […]

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Iron Slut royally returns to Oakland, Aug 5th, as Kink Academy’s Princess Kali takes on Reid!

K is for Kali and Kinky… R is for Reid and Really Not Kinky! Watch and Learn as Kali demos the kinky stuff vs Reid’s non-kinky and let’s see who “wins!” What better way to learn about practical sex and kink education that you can actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go […]

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Plays Well With Others: Negotiating Relationship Boundaries and Agreements for Group Sexploration! tickles LA July 13th!

Knowing where to draw the line together and how to talk about it can save you both a ton of headache the next day! Navigating group sexual dynamics in any relationship takes skill, patience and a little bit of luck. If “luck” is where opportunity and preparation meet, then learning how to negotiate sound relationship […]

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Play Parties: How To Throw ‘Em and How To Attend ‘Em! seduces LA, July 12th!

Learn the ins and outs of the modern day “play party,” ’cause orgies are sooooo Roman Empire! Do you label your relationships as “Monagmish” or “Mongamy-Plus?” Maybe the term “Swinger” or “Modern Relationship” more accurately describes you and your loved ones? Are you a Poly person with a penchant for having your multiple loves under […]

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