Sexual Self-Confidence

How Can You Tell Who To Approach For A Three-Some?

Want to Initiate Intimacy? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: We had someone ask us- you’re such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, “Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?” […]

Want More?

Talking About Masturbation

Most people don’t talk about masturbation, and that can leave people feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … […]

Want More?

Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

If you’re curious about anal play and want to bring it up with your partner, how can you start? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you […]

Want More?

Being Attracted to Unavailable and Distant People

Being Attracted to Unavailable and Distant People? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Do you ever find that you’re getting attracted, you find yourself attracted to people that are distant or emotionally unavailable? That can be a pattern that some people can fond to. And if you can just hit […]

Want More?

How To Be a Great Kisser: From Awkward To Wow! [Video]

Improve your Kiss-Ability! Kissing is the Starting Line for most sexual interaction. When you’re confident and know how to use your body, how to listen to their body, and are able to tune into the mutual energy between you two, making out becomes it’s own exciting race track of sensuality! Reid shows you how to […]

Want More?

Free Safer Sex Elevator Speech PDF Download

Never have to reinvent the wheel ever again… Feel more confident and less clunky having “the talk”… Inspire and impress your lovers… 

Want More?

Wineglasses can make you a better lover… Really?

This is really cool and can take your physical intimacy to a whole new level! And you’ll never look at a wineglass the same way again! Play along and then try it out… I’d love to hear how it works for you! The Wine Glass Analogy: Imagine that you have a wineglass in front of you. Have you ever tried […]

Want More?

Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

Want More?

Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – Old Version

NOTE: This is an outdated post.VIEW THE UPGRADED POST HERE. Get the hardest conversation out of the way in the Reid-way! Many people find it difficult to have a Safer Sex conversation. I used to worry, like most people do… What if it ruins the moment? What if they don’t want to sleep with me […]

Want More?

Show-N-Tell Sex Ed: Why Putting A Condom On A Banana Isn’t The Same As Putting A Condom On An Actual Penis…

A.K.A., How I Went From Cuddle Parties to NC17… Cuddle Parties don’t overtly deal with sex. Nor should they. But what should? In today’s touch starved culture, Cuddle Party was (and still is) doing a great job of giving people a sunggle-O-licious laboratory to practice the foundational communication skills that make the world safe for […]

Want More?

Next Entries →