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Changing Things UP!

How do you control for new? That’s a phrase someone I admire talks about a lot.* The human brain generates dopamine when we have new experiences. Change keeps things fresh! Does this mean that to keep things juicy you have to dump your friends and partners and start over? Does it mean you have to […]

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Can You Give Yourself Permission To Discover Your Undiscovereness?

How much do you hold yourself to patterns that don’t really work… To self-expression that isn’t really you anymore? Reid and I were just eating BBQ and discussing Camp, (This is Cathy Vartuli writing this email, btw. I asked Reid if I could share a big a-ha moment I had last night and he said […]

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What’s the sex secret of a smorgasbord? And how YOU can feast on what you need…

Did you know that there’s a secret sex lesson hidden in the Swedish word, SmörgÃ¥sbord?  I can’t wait to teach it to you! I know it can bring you massive amounts of fun, self-confidence, and pleasure in bed. It can also save you years in becoming better at sex, intimacy, and relating. First, something many people […]

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How Do You Know What To Charge As a Sex Educator?

Ever feel confused about pricing? How do you set the price for your product or service that compensates you for your time and expertise (expertise earned via all the training and experience you’ve amassed)… AND how do you help people see the value and worth in what you’re offering so that you can make a […]

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How To Be More Thrilling And Charismatic In Bed, In Relationships, And In Life

People Will Find You More Charismatic and Attractive If You Apply These Simple Steps…  Do you wish your life was more exciting? More fulfilling? That you were surrounded by people and activities that nourished you? Do you long to be more charismatic? You can have/be all of these things, and they’re more achievable than you think. […]

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The Inevitable Death Of Your Charisma And What Makes People Unattractive

These Bad Habits May Be Sucking The Attractiveness Out of YOU…  Do you wish your life was more exciting? More fulfilling? That you felt more attractive, more charismatic, and were surrounded by people and activities that nourished you? You can have/be all of those things, and they’re more achievable than you think, but to pull it […]

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Does your family need a “Holiday Safeword”?

Do you and your family need a Holiday Safeword? Do you know what your “Chill Down Styles” are? As my holiday gift to you, here are some fun tips that might just help you get through the “holidaze” of friends and family with more grace and ease… First, I want to invite you, if you […]

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And The Winners Are… The 1st Annual Sex Geek Summer Camp Video Toy Review Contest Winners Announced!

  And The Winners Are… At Sex Geek Summer Camp, the only business retreat for sex educators, I shared my enthusiasm for finding promotional partners/sponsors to fund your workshops/projects, how video sex toy product reviews can up your credibility as an expert, and how sharing vulnerably inspires your followers… I taught how combining all three dynamics expands […]

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And The Winners Are… The Woodhull Sexual Freedom Scholarship Contest Winners Announced!

The Sexual Freedom Video Scholarship Winners are…. We held a contest to promote the Woodhull Alliance’s Sexual Freedom Summit last month, and announced the winners on 4th of July. Why? So we could celebrate, not just America’s Independence Day, but sexual freedom as a basic human right for all! It was really hard to choose […]

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Did You Know YOU Have a Romance Groove?

Last week I shared my pragmatic definition of romance (leaving people seen and heard with warmth sprinkled over the top) and how jettisoning culture’s idea of romance can improve your love life. I also talked about the myth of mind reading around romance, and how sharing the process of identifying romantic gestures with your partner or those you’re […]

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