Sexual Self-Confidence

I Wonder What To Bring If I Attend to Play Parties

  I Wonder What To Bring If I Attend to Play Parties     Cathy: What should I bring when I go to a play Party? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ What do you bring Cathy?   Cathy: Uhmmm….  I usually …   Reid; Wait a minute! Is […]

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I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?

I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’m a guy who has had sex with women for my entire life but I think I’m gay or bi. How do I ethically have sex with both men and […]

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As A Plus-Sized Women, How Do I Handle Pressures and Insecurities?

As A Plus-Sized Women, How Do I Handle Pressures and Insecurities? Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, “It would have been nice it would be nice to hear from Reid about any pressures he might feel about living up to expectations because on the surface he fits them all of what society deems attractive […]

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VIRTUAL Blowjob Grad School

You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Fellatio! And Do It Without Ever Leaving Your Home! If you… Would like to take your current skills and craft to Jedi levels… Ask questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks… Leave your loved ones stammering, […]

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I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?

I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?             Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do […]

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Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – UPGRADED for Your P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E.

Many people find it difficult to have a safer sex conversation because no one ever taught us how! I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help me recall each of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech’s 8 steps…

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How Can You Emotionally Support Yourself As You Transitioning Your Sexuality?

When your sexual identity is shifting how do you emotionally support yourself? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you support yourself when you’re transforming your sexuality?  Reid: Into what?  Cathy: Into something new, whether you’re leaving kink or entering kink or exploring poly or might be gay or […]

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What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips? Cathy: Yes. Reid: All right. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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How Do You Know When To Pull Out? Can You Feel it?

What do you watch for to know when to pull out? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli, from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko, for ReidAboutSex.com . Reid: We have a question. Cathy: You actually started this as a […]

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How Do You Give A Blow Job….

Want some tips from the creator of Blow Job Grad School? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you give a blowjob? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We teach this amazing workshop on how to give a blowjob. […]

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