Sexual Self-Confidence

How NOT Homophobic Am I?

America’s favorite sex geek, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, jumps out of a birthday cake and strips, reveals his stripper name from back in his college days (hint: It’s a famous comic book character), and shares the story of how he discovered just HOW not homophobic he is… Happy Birthday to Bawdy Storytelling creator, Dixie De […]

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They Claim They Didnt Know The Condom Broke…What do you do?

Did they tell the truth? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com (Laughs) Reid: Sing it! Cathy: Oh no, they’ll just hang up. Reid: All right. All right. I’ll let you off this time. Cathy: Oh […]

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The Top Three Mistakes Geeky People Make When Making Love

Wondering Where the Spark Went?     Movies and culture make sex seem like breathing- like you should naturally know how to do it, and if you don’t there’s something wrong with you… The truth is, even geeky people are usually making 3 core mistakes when making love. What are the Top 3 Mistakes Even […]

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What Do You Do When Your Child Questions Their Gender?

How do you support your son or daughter when they question their sexuality? How can you be a loving parent? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, and this was a really loving letter, they said that their child is in college, first year of college, […]

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How Can A 55 Year Old Woman Have A Great Sex Life?

What can you do to help build connection and have a blast no matter what your age? If you want a bunch of lovers? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    I’m going to start reading it and then start the video? Cathy: Yeah. You’re so helpful, thank you. Someone wrote […]

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Teasing and Building Anticipation

Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? It can make everything from flirting to marketing more fun! Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Cathy:  Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? Reid:  Hm? What? Yes. Yes! I want to be better at that. Cathy:  […]

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Turning Insecurity and Worry Upside Down

Do you find yourself getting insecure? Worrying if you’re being obnoxious or annoying? Turn your brain on it’s head… with this tip from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Are you ever afraid that you’re being annoying or does your insecurity come up and bite you in the butt? It can get […]

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How Can You Tell Who To Approach For A Three-Some?

Want to Initiate Intimacy? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: We had someone ask us- you’re such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, “Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?” […]

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Talking About Masturbation

Most people don’t talk about masturbation, and that can leave people feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … […]

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Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

If you’re curious about anal play and want to bring it up with your partner, how can you start? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you […]

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