Sexual Self-Confidence

Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – UPGRADED for Your P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E.

Many people find it difficult to have a safer sex conversation because no one ever taught us how! I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help me recall each of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech’s 8 steps…

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How Can You Emotionally Support Yourself As You Transitioning Your Sexuality?

When your sexual identity is shifting how do you emotionally support yourself? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you support yourself when you’re transforming your sexuality?  Reid: Into what?  Cathy: Into something new, whether you’re leaving kink or entering kink or exploring poly or might be gay or […]

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What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips? Cathy: Yes. Reid: All right. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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How Do You Know When To Pull Out? Can You Feel it?

What do you watch for to know when to pull out? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli, from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko, for ReidAboutSex.com . Reid: We have a question. Cathy: You actually started this as a […]

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How Do You Give A Blow Job….

Want some tips from the creator of Blow Job Grad School? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you give a blowjob? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We teach this amazing workshop on how to give a blowjob. […]

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Can You Really Watch Your Partner Sleep With Someone Else

Society tells us a lot about what it means if our partner sleeps with someone else… Is it possible to watch and enjoy? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and  said, “What’s wrong with you dude? You just sit there and watch while someone else […]

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Not In The Mood? What Can You Do?

How can you tell your partner you’re not in the mood. How can you do that gently? Find out.. with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   How do you tell your partner in a way that’s loving and caring that you’re just not in the mood? Reid:     This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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How Do You Have Sex With Bigger People?

Is there anything you need to know if you want to sleep with a bigger person? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   So, what if you have never slept with a bigger person? And, you want to? How do you talk to them about what’s going on and […]

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Do You Need To Pinch The Tip Of Your Condom?

How do you put a condom on without letting air bubbles in? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Reid:    This one goes [pshew] this one goes [pshem] because it’s muffled, because it’s got a condom on it. Okay, last condom video, we didn’t talk about pinching the tip to roll […]

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How Can I Attract A More Diverse And Inclusive People To My Group?

Running a Meetup group and wanting a more diverse and inclusive group? What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, “I just started this group but it’s mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people…” Reid:    […]

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