The Lifestyle

Attend Reid’s Naughty N’awlins 2025 Classes

Need a reason to join me in New Orleans for 5-days of debaucherous fun with like-minded sex geeks? Here. You. Go. Up your bedroom skills to Jedi levels by attending Reid’s many Naughty N’awlins classes THIS July! Bookmark this page ’cause I’ll be posting my free and paid classes on this page once they get […]

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Are You a Unicorn? 🦄 Find Out…

How do you know if you’re a Unicorn? 🦄❓ (Answer below) If you or your friends identify as Unicorns, I’ve got a super fun, unicorn-related thing to share with you below. If you don’t know if you are a Unicorn, this post is definitely for you! Let’s look at some definitions… What’s a Unicorn? According […]

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Unicorn Bootcamp: Skill-Building & Letting Your Sparkle Shine Midwifing Couples and Individuals Into Group Experiences (Without Burning Out!) 🦄

Do you identify as a Unicorn or “Threesome Midwife”? 🦄💞😍😍 Are you a natural nurturer who feels called to support couples and individuals in exploring intimacy, setting boundaries, and discovering their authentic desires when it comes to group dynamics?  Let sex and relationship educator (and fellow Unicorn who’s experienced over 1000 threesomes and moresomes), Reid […]

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Attend Reid’s Naughty N’awlins Classes 2024

Need a reason to join me in New Orleans for 5-days of debaucherous fun with like-minded sex geeks? Here. You. Go. Up your bedroom skills to Jedi levels by attending Reid’s many FREE and PAID (ticket links below) Naughty N’awlins classes! Reid’s paid classes will feature hands-on opportunities for couples to PRACTICE techniques on each […]

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Reid & Allison Are Bringing Poly-Curious 101 Back To LA! Just in Time for Valentine’s!

Don’t know what to get your sweetie this Valentine’s? How about a Reid & Allison 3-Way? Curious about this new “lovestyle” you’re hearing a lot about called polyamory? Maybe you’ve read all the books but want to talk to folks actually living and loving the poly lifestyle… Whatever your reason or level of experience, join […]

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SF’s Club Exotica featuring Sex At Dawn’s Chris Ryan and Reid Mihalko, et al, Nov 9th!

Reid geeks out on non-monogamy with Sex At Dawn’s Christopher Ryan! Club Exotica presents Sex at Dawn Featuring a talk by Christopher Ryan, author of  Sex At Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality – sexatdawn.com Wednesday, November 9th SupperClub, 657 Harrison Street Doors open at 7pm Talk & panel start at 8pm Dance party  at 10pm to […]

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Have the Relationship Agreements Conversation BEFORE You Go To Burning Man!

As a Sex Geek and avid Burning Man enthusiast with five+ dusty tours of booty under my belt (er…duty. Tours of duty!), one of the single, best bits of advice I can give any couple, semi-couple, or friends-with-benefits attending the Burn is this… Have your relationship agreements conversation before you step foot on the Playa. A […]

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My Bawdy, Myself.

Are you there, Bawdy? It’s me, Reid… Talk dirty to me! To my dear friends and sex geeks, For many people, talking about sex and intimacy feels like going to the dentist. I spend a lot of time combining communication skill sets, humor and accurate sexual health information when I teach or lecture to role […]

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Plays Well With Others: Negotiating Relationship Boundaries and Agreements for Group Sexploration! tickles LA July 13th!

Knowing where to draw the line together and how to talk about it can save you both a ton of headache the next day! Navigating group sexual dynamics in any relationship takes skill, patience and a little bit of luck. If “luck” is where opportunity and preparation meet, then learning how to negotiate sound relationship […]

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Play Parties: How To Throw ‘Em and How To Attend ‘Em! seduces LA, July 12th!

Learn the ins and outs of the modern day “play party,” ’cause orgies are sooooo Roman Empire! Do you label your relationships as “Monagmish” or “Mongamy-Plus?” Maybe the term “Swinger” or “Modern Relationship” more accurately describes you and your loved ones? Are you a Poly person with a penchant for having your multiple loves under […]

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