Sex Advice In The Hot Tub | Facebook Live With Cathy And Reid
Reid: Hello Facebook it’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and we are in the hot tub. Well, I’m trying to make sure that none of our
Cathy: Picture
Reid: But this is Facebook friendly. So we’re here at Cathy Vartuli’s secret lair in San Jose.
Cathy: Hi everybody.
Reid: Hi everybody. Where are you watching in from today? It is in the United States, it is a long weekend
Cathy: Yes.
Reid: For a lot of people because it is 4th of July weekend and Cathy and I are working hard and taking a break because this is the weekend that we’re doing all the prep
Cathy: For camp
Reid: for a lot of the prep for a sex geek summer camp and I thought we might have some, some quickie advice, relationship advice from the hot tub because we do need to actually take a break at some point. So what kind of what kind of hot tub advice you got Cathy?
Cathy: Sometimes, maybe about just taking some down time together.
Reid: Mm-hmm.
Cathy: Because if we all work hard, we always have a lot of stuff to do and those time rewards whether it’s a business partner or a friend or a live-in partner, just having down time together, it’s just it’s a nice way to do it.
Reid: Yeah. So if you’re gonna work hard, play hard or and relax hard.
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: Any, any, any advice for sex in the hot tub?
Cathy: I do have advice for sex in a hot tub.
Reid: Go ahead, it’s your hot tub.
Cathy: Water-based lubes don’t work well in hot tubs because there’s a lot of water
Reid: And the water base lube will just dissolve
Cathy: Yes.
Reid: Okay.
Cathy: I really like I think it’s pure PJUR because it’s a mixture, it’s not pure.
Reid: It’s a hybrid.
Cathy: Hybrid. It seems to work really well.
Reid: I’m a big fan of Uberlube.
Cathy: I love Uberlube too.
Reid: Which you can get a https://www.uberlube.com/ and find out more about. And what Uberlube is a product sponsor of sex geek summer camp this year.
Cathy: Thanks, Uberlube.
Reid: So thanks Uberlube for jumping in. And that is a silicone lube
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: with what was it? It’s got a vitamin E, I think?
Cathy: I think so it’s got a beautiful clear bottle. I leave it on my bedside table and it looks just very smooth.
Reid: Very swanky looking.
Cathy: Yes.
Reid: Um one of my hot tub tips which could very useful is I mean you can do whatever you want in your hot tub. But don’t, don’t…
Cathy: Ejaculate.
Reid: Don’t, don’t have a lot of bodily fluids. Don’t leave that kind of stuff in somebody else’s hot tub. And one of the things that can be useful if you are going to be trying to have penetrative sex, you have condoms you can also try internal condoms.
Cathy: Yeah they’re by prescription only but they work great on hot tub because they keeps any vagina owners from losing too much getting chlorine chlorination irritation or dryness.
Reid: Yeah and that they internal condoms used to not be prescription only
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: so you might still be able to find them at clinics and stuff for free for a little while. But they’re changing over their business model on that so they’re probably going to be harder to get.
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: Condoms will still work fine too. But what I would recommend is when you’re trying to get inside of somebody that everyone stand up
Cathy: yeah. Not everyone want it.
Reid: don’t fall out of the hot tub. Lube up and then penetrate each other and then if you want to try to have intercourse or whatever your ever kind of course you’re having under the water then all kind of get back down in, it just it’s tricky.
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: Your mileage may vary.
Cathy: Well, if someone of the size I love playing in a hot tub because a bigger, people can’t lift me or move me as easily on dry land but in water the gravity is a little different and there’s a lot of different positions to try and my hot tubs are soft tubs so it’s soft on the sides so someone sits easily on the edge or lean back. There’s lots of positions that you can do with both people leaning their heads on the back and leaning in the middle. That works always really fun.
Reid: And just be careful not to drown each other. That’s all.
Cathy: Try really hard.
Reid: Cause you move positions
Cathy: That’s not safer sex.
Reid: and people slip
Cathy: Yeah
Reid: and then and then they’re under the water I mean just go slow, enjoy yourselves.
Cathy: Jamming is not safe for sex.
Reid: No. Not at all. And maybe you want to get the one of those little nose things just in case you slide under the water. So you don’t get water
Cathy: Yeah
Reid: up your nose.
Cathy: Having friends to hold your breath for a long time can be really fun too.
Reid: We’re just having but you know have an any, any extra people in the hot tub have them hold you up while things are happening like these. That’s all.
Cathy: I said holding breath.
Reid: Yeah I know. I was just adding onto. I wasn’t making you wrong.
Cathy: I do, got it.
Reid: We all got it.
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: Alright.
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: So that’s gonna be a little quickie video for today we have to get back to our break. Where can people find you Cathy?
Cathy: Cathy Vartuli at http://theintimacydojo.com/
Reid: And https://reidaboutsex.com/. And if you’re still thinking about coming to sex geek summer camp
Cathy: It’s going to be a blast.
Reid: time is running out so go to https://reidaboutsex.com/camp-faq/. And then for those of you who, who have done some sexploration in hot tubs.
Cathy: Yeah. And tips.
Reid: Or in pools. Leave your ideas and tips below and we hope this video was useful.
Cathy: Yeah.
Reid: Alright.
Cathy: Bye.
Reid: Happy long weekend everyone.