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I’m Socially Shy But Sexually Adventuresome… Is That Normal?

I’m Socially Shy But Sexually Adventuresome… Is That Normal? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Typical normies believe in a truly shy person will find themselves in a fucking orgy of all places. Please make a helpful video for those who actually need advice.” This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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Memorable Experiences At Sex Geek Summer Camp

Memorable Experiences At Sex Geek Summer Camp Reid: Hello sex geeks. This is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I have my flying squirrel on a t-shirt on. And I’m on a train and it’s quiet right now so if you can hear me, I’m in San Jose cause Cathy Vartuli and I are gonna do […]

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How to Create Retreats For Women Without Dramatic Attachment?

How to Create Retreats For Women Without Dramatic Attachment? Cathy: We had someone write in saying, “I’d like your advice in creating private one-on-one or group retreats for women where we can really wake them up to bliss and pleasure and inspire them to get them to leave all their shit behind and I want […]

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Transitioning From A Polyamorous Lifestyle To A Monogamous Relationship

Transitioning From A Polyamorous Lifestyle To A Monogamous Relationship               Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love to hear Reid’s thoughts about transitioning from a poly lifestyle to entering a monogamous relationship.” This is Reid Mihalko from https://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and hear […]

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Tips On Designing A Powerful Sex Positive Workshop

Tips On Designing A Powerful Sex Positive Workshop           Cathy: Reid can you give us some tips on designing a powerful workshop? Reid: Nope! Nope! Nope! Nope! Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: However, I can teach you things and give you ideas maybe they occur to […]

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If I Had A Breakthrough in ______, I’d Have Better Sex…

If I Had A Breakthrough in ______, I’d Have Better Sex… Cathy: So Reid you did this great exercise at http://sex10x.kajabi.com/and I thought it would really be fun to share here. Reid: Okay, the chance is I don’t remember what it was. Cathy: I know and I’ll tell you Reid: Okay Cathy: And then you […]

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I’m Interested In Dating Someone But I Always End Up Running Away, What’s Should I do?

I’m Interested In Dating Someone But I Always End Up Running Away, What’s Should I do? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’m having a hard time dating because I get really messed up when I’m interested into someone. I’m usually okay for the first couple weeks but then, either I ended up clinging or […]

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What Does Society Tell Us About Attraction?

What Does Society Tell Us About Attraction? Cathy: Someone wrote in about we have been….we had some video about INCEL and people that are involuntarily in celibate and someone Reid: Yeah, that’s what Incel stands for. Cathy: Yes, and someone wrote in and said that most people think I’m creepy because they… I….my look are not […]

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When and How To Use The Safer Sex Elevator Speech?

When and How To Use The Safer Sex Elevator Speech? Cathy: I’m curious about when to initiate the safer sex elevator speech. It sounds like it comes before kissing especially for including oral herpes in this discussion. But I don’t usually talk about sex until I know someone’s interested which I frequently find out by […]

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If Someone Talks Over You, What Do you Do?

If Someone Talks Over You, What Do You Do? Cathy: So, what if you just met someone and they’re talking over you and kind of controlling your interactions and even when you try to do boundaries you’re not really, Reid: They keep talking over you? Cathy: Yes. Reid: Even when you’re sharing? Cathy: They are not […]

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