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Not having orgasm with a condom on?!

Not having orgasm with a condom on?!       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I’m really, I’ve never been able to cum while wearing a condom during sex. I’m trying to be safer but I feel like it’s almost like a waste of time. I’ve tried masturbating with a condom too, nothing works. […]

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Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube?

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube?       Cathy: If I use my own saliva, can I give myself herpes? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: What a great question. Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: So this person wrote in that they were using their own […]

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When Do You Know If You Can Call Yourself a Sex Educator?

When Do You Know If You Can Call Yourself a Sex Educator?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my question is when do you know if you can call yourself a sex educator? I haven’t been able to find a lot of advice on that specifically. I have friends to ask for […]

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My Partner Won’t Sleep With Me, How Do I Get Them To Start Again?

My Partner Won’t Sleep With Me, How Do I Get Them To Start Again?     Cathy: So someone wrote in and said you talked about how to get my wife to have sex with me again program, has it been released yet? And can you tell us how to get this to work? This […]

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Privacy: What Are You Allowed To Share And When?

Privacy: What Are You Allowed To Share And When?       Cathy: Oh, I thought you’re really keen up something for our recording. Reid: No. About Sex. Cathy: You didn’t look up something first? Reid: I did. Cathy: What was that? Reid: Not done. Privacy. What you’re allowed to share, what you’re not allowed […]

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How Do You Know When A Sexual Invitation Is Welcomed or Awkward?

How Do You Know When A Sexual Invitation Is Welcomed or Awkward?       Cathy: How do you know when sexual invitation is welcomed and when it would feel intrusive? This Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And I think we all have times whether we did this or someone […]

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Building Connection with Somebody For Them to Not Feel Awkward

Building Connection with Somebody For Them to Not Feel Awkward     Reid: How do you build relatedness, how do you build connection enough if you want to hit somebody so that they don’t get awkward? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: And, go Cathy. What are your thoughts […]

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When Eroticism and Personal Politics Collide

When Eroticism and Personal Politics Collide             Sorry about the low level background noise! Our mic decided to die halfway through the “shoot”! Cathy: Someone wrote in and said what do I do with my eroticism and my personal politics collide such as feminists who likes to be called girl […]

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Feeling Addicted To Someone Who Isn’t Your Species? What Do You Do?

Feeling Addicted To Someone Who Isn’t Your Species? What Do You Do?   Sorry about the low level background noise! Our mic decided to die halfway through the “shoot”! Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, we talked how not to fall in love but how we extricate yourself when you realize you’re not with your […]

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If You Need To Feel Special… Where Does Other People’s Consent Come In?

If You Need To Feel Special… Where Does Other People’s Consent Come In?     Sorry about the low level background noise! Our mic decided to die halfway through the “shoot”! Cathy: So, where is the boundary between other people’s need to feel special and my consent? This is Reid Mihalko from www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy […]

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