Dating & Connection

If Someone Hesitates, Should You Try To Persuade Them?

Where does consent meet with encouragement? Should you push your friends to agree? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Is hesitation an invitation for further persuasion? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I’m so glad you remember who I am. Reid: […]

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When Is Someone Else’s Attraction Or Arousal Your Problem?

When is it your problem when someone was attracted to you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Oh, this is going to be a good one. You’ve picked the right video. Cathy: When is someone else’s attraction or arousal your problem? Or is it ever? I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. […]

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What’s Your Business Relationship Style…. happy to have you around

Can you adopt some of the romantic relationship language for business relationships? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What’s your business style? Are you someone who loves a lot of primaries? Do you want some secondaries? How do you work with people? Reid: Oh my goodness. I’m wearing my […]

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Flirting Without The Other Person Becoming Pepe La Pew

When you flirt does the other person crank up the heat to an 11 as a consequence? Problem sometimes occurs when you tell the other person that you’re flirting with, that you’re a shy, slow, tentative person, but it seems to come across: “I hereby encourage you to channel Pepe Le Pew and ignore all boundaries, starting now.” What can […]

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Want To Leave The Friend Zone? Afraid Of Being Shot Down?

Are you always the cool girl friend and never the cool girlfriend? Do you hate the idea of being shut down? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how you can deal with that fear of being shut down. Cathy: We shot a video a while ago about […]

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My Partner Isn’t Interested In Sex Anymore

When your partner loses interest in sex, it can be frustrating and heart wrenching. Here are some tips to clearing the air and opening up discussions to allow more connection and more physical intimacy. Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy […]

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How NOT Homophobic Am I?

How NOT Homophobic Am I? America’s favorite sex geek, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, jumps out of a birthday cake and strips, reveals his stripper name from back in his college days (hint: It’s a famous comic book character), and shares the story of how he discovered just HOW not homophobic he is… Happy Birthday to […]

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They Claim They Didnt Know The Condom Broke…What do you do?

Did they tell the truth? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com (Laughs) Reid: Sing it! Cathy: Oh no, they’ll just hang up. Reid: All right. All right. I’ll let you off this time. Cathy: Oh […]

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Stories About Jealousy In Polyamorous Relationships

What are some examples of jealousy in polyamorous relationships? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more […]

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Someone Flirting With Your Boyfriend…. And Gossiping About You?

What do you do if someone flirts with your boyfriend, then says bad things about you behind your back? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We had a writer write in. Cathy: Yes. Reid: We love it when you write in. Cathy: Yes. Reid: Because it gives us things to […]

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