Dating & Connection

Poly? Crush On Someone But Not Sure If They’re Poly?

Should you flirt with someone if you don’t know if they’re poly? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:This just in. A writer or commenter writes in. It’s very detailed and I’ll just summarize it but I just want to thank all of you who leave comments and leave questions or […]

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Arousal and Attraction: What Gets You Aroused?

What gets you aroused? What makes you turned on? Tips and ideas from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What gets you aroused? What experiences and activities and people get you aroused? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: She’s a little bit scared. […]

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Poly And Worried What Other People Will Think When You’re Out On A Date?

If you’re poly you might worry what a co-worker or friend might think if they see you out on a date. Tips and ideas from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Road trip YouTube videos. What are we talking about today Cathy Vartuli of TheIntimacyDojo.com? Cathy: Dot com. Reid: Dot com. […]

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When Your Attracted And Aroused And The Other Person Doesn’t Reciprocate?

If you long for someone and they say no… what do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: This is a really good video that you picked. If you missed the one before it this is still good, but the one before it whoa! Cathy: When you’re attracted or […]

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What is Attraction and Arousal?

Knowing what attraction and arousal is can help you deal with them in a healthy way. With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What is attraction and arousal? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: If you forget by now, that’s pretty bad. Reid: I know. […]

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Arousal, Attraction, Desire… When Its Nice and When Its Not

When is someone else’s attraction and desire nice… and when is it unpleasant, and what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Hi, I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We’re talking about arousal, attraction, and when it’s nice and when […]

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How Do You Deal With Energetic Attention That Is… or Is NOT Comfortable

What do you do when someone’s giving you a lot of energetic attention in ways that may or may not be comfortable? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do when someone’s giving you a lot of energetic attention in ways that may or may not be comfortable? […]

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What Do You Do When You’re Straight, and Gay People Hit On You?

How do you handle it when someone hits on you and you’re not interested? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What do you do when you’re straight and gay people hit on you? I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: This is a great question, […]

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Sexual Preferences and Body Image

Do you ever find yourself being attracted to aspects of people that you think you shouldn’t like? Or not being attracted to people you think you should like? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss preferences, attraction, and image! Cathy: Today we’re talking about body preference and body image.  A […]

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What Is The Difference Between Disappointment and Rejection?

Is there a difference between disappointment and rejection? And how do you handle them? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What is the difference between disappointment and rejection? Knowing that difference can make your life a lot easier, and we’ll be going into that in just a minute. This is […]

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