Boundaries

When Do You Try To Upgrade, and When Do You Set Boundaries?

If your partner asks for something that’s challenging, when do you try to step up and when do you say no? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my question is say my partner ask to meet a need for them, which is difficult for me. […]

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How Do You KNow When To Pull Out of An Event…

How do you know when to pull the plug for an event? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: How you do know when it’s time to pull out? Cathy : of an event. Reid: Of an event This is business advice because I’m wearing my “Sex Geek Summer […]

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Dealing With A Mini-Stalker…

How do you deal with someone who “mini-stalks” you? It might be well below the “legal” limit, but it can be really awkward. What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you deal with someone who mini-stalks you? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This […]

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Having Good Boundaries When You’re Being Playful

People like being playful and goofy, but they are not necessarily being as careful about boundaries. State your boundaries so that you can be even more playful. It’s not the other way around. With boundaries you can make people feel safer, and they will play back with you. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and […]

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How Do You Know Who To Share With?

Starting to share more and open up, and feeling judged by those close to you? What can you do? How do you know if someone has the bandwidth to listen? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: We just answered a question about someone who’d shared vulnerably and been judged by […]

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