Just the right touch
“Cuddle parties” – no sex, we’re just snuggling – are meeting the nestling needs of the hug-hungry.
Blubaugh pressed his back against his close friend, Denise Gilmar, 45, of Glen Mills, who snuggled near Melvin Jones, 32, someone she had just met. She rubbed his shoulder, while Jones massaged the back of stranger Linda “Linney May” Hunter, 56, of Glendora.
“Ah, this feels wonderful,” said Hunter, a holistic practitioner, resting her chin on a fluffy pillow.
The Cuddle Party was going perfectly.
Cuddle Party? The very name raises eyebrows. Snickering is inevitable. But this wasn’t some kinky swing time.
Begun in 2004 in a corner of the country not usually associated with touchy-feely encounters – New York City – the nonsexual socials have since spread around the nation, including the Philadelphia locale, and to Canada, Australia and England. Founders Reid Mihalko and Marcia Baczynski, sex and relationship educators, bill the events as communications and boundary-setting workshops that have touched thousands of snuggle-starved adults.