Communication Skills

Sharing With Your partner That You Dont Want To Have Sex

Example of telling your partner that you don’t want to have sex tonight in a loving way… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk […]

Want More?

Not In The Mood? What Can You Do?

How can you tell your partner you’re not in the mood. How can you do that gently? Find out.. with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   How do you tell your partner in a way that’s loving and caring that you’re just not in the mood? Reid:     This is Cathy Vartuli […]

Want More?

How Do You Deal With Your Partners Stuff When You Have Your Own?

How do you encourage your partner to source their own support? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    A writer, a commenter, wrote in, don’t do that.  I’m Reid Mihalko nfrom ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    We had somebody who wrote a really sweet question about, in response […]

Want More?

How Do You Know Who To Share With?

Starting to share more and open up, and feeling judged by those close to you? What can you do? How do you know if someone has the bandwidth to listen? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: We just answered a question about someone who’d shared vulnerably and been judged by […]

Want More?

How Can You Build A Connection In your Community Faster?

Do you want to build connection faster? Wonder how you can be part of a community faster? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: How can you build relationships that are deep in a relatively short amount of time?  This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  […]

Want More?

Teasing and Building Anticipation

Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? It can make everything from flirting to marketing more fun! Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Cathy:  Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? Reid:  Hm? What? Yes. Yes! I want to be better at that. Cathy:  […]

Want More?

Say What’s Not Being Said: Reid’s Formula for Difficult Conversations

It’s what you’re not saying that’s destroying your relationships… The plain truth of intimacy is this: It’s what we’re not saying in our relationships that’s slowly killing them. Withholding the important and even the trivial, over time, fosters resentment and mistrust, eroding intimacy. And it’s not just the negative stuff that we don’t say that’s […]

Want More?

Next Entries →