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Say What’s Not Being Said: Reid’s Formula for Difficult Conversations

It’s what you’re not saying that’s destroying your relationships… The plain truth of intimacy is this: It’s what we’re not saying in our relationships that’s slowly killing them. Withholding the important and even the trivial, over time, fosters resentment and mistrust, eroding intimacy. And it’s not just the negative stuff that we don’t say that’s […]

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Reid Quoted In Slate.com Article On Cuddling…

“As adults, we have fully-formed prefrontal cortexes … we can control ourselves,” Mihalko insisted… Just Hold Me Do real men like to cuddle? By Dave Johns Posted, Slate.com; Tuesday, Dec. 7, 2010, at 6:57 AM ET The first signs came early. Most infants can’t do much, and I was no exception, according to grown-ups who […]

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End of Summer Newsletter

It’s Back To School season, so just so you know I’m being a good boy and doing my homework (a.k.a. putting this newsletter together and shipping it out) before I can go outside and play! For the record I’m at a sex positive summer camp that I’m teaching at in Maryland right now and the […]

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June’s Reid(ing)AboutSex Is Fundamental Newsletter

June is late! But only because we were busy juggling all those dildos and dental dams! Plus, it was Belladonna’s fault, we swear… June was a busy, busy month for me and ReidAboutSex… It was busy mostly because I was decompressing from a month on the road in May (see May’s newsletter), dealing with pesky […]

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March’s ReidAboutSex Is Fundamental Newsletter

Kiss Me, I’m a Sex Educator… It has recently been made painfully obvious to me that my website needs at least a brief history/context of my workshops. Up till now, there’s been little to no explanation. PG, PG13, R-rated, NC17… Those are for movies, not workshops, right? Not anymore. Does this make me the James Cameron […]

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Show-N-Tell Sex Ed: Why Putting A Condom On A Banana Isn’t The Same As Putting A Condom On An Actual Penis…

A.K.A., How I Went From Cuddle Parties to NC17… Cuddle Parties don’t overtly deal with sex. Nor should they. But what should? In today’s touch starved culture, Cuddle Party was (and still is) doing a great job of giving people a sunggle-O-licious laboratory to practice the foundational communication skills that make the world safe for […]

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Poly-Curious 101: Understanding Non-Monogamy available for download!

Check out the informational page for the now completed and ready for download Poly-Curious 101: Understanding Non-Monogamy podclass series… Over Four and a Half Hours of recordings accompanied by a 44-page workbook compendium of tips, tricks, resources and advice on polyamory from five of the world’s top non-monogamy experts! Yeeee-Owza! reidaboutsex.com/poly-curious101

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For workshop facilitators: Reid recommends EventBrite

For all my facilitator and sex educator peeps out there across the country and around the globe, I’ve just started using a ticketing sales site that is pretty slick, wicked easy to use, and can even CROSS-POST your events on Facebook… EventBrite. I recommend it and suggest that you investigate. It’s been great for me […]

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What people are saying about Negotiating Successful Threesomes and a Sample of the Workbook…

Here are a few testimonials from Reid Mihalko’s Negotiating Successful Threesomes, the 2-hour workshop on menagé à trios (with live demonstrations!), and a preview of the workshop’s Followup Compendium… Reid, Not only was your threesome workshop SUPER fun with all the live demos, but it also produced results within 24 hours. The following night I met […]

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A Sex Educator’s Christmas Carol!

Nothing quite says “Happy Holidays” like a Christmas themed movie set in a porn shop! Whatever holiday you celebrate or don’t celebrate, wishing you lots of love and joy as we bring 2008 to a close. Here’s to creating more self-expression in 2009, everyone! Hugs and mistletoe! ~Reid

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