Communication

Do You Stay Silent When You’re Disappointed? What Can You Do?

Feel like your voice goes away when you’re disappointed? How can you learn to speak up? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   Someone wrote in and said, thanks for doing this video, it’s about handling disappointment. Then she said, I usually stay silent when I’m disappointed. I’m finding that […]

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How Do You Transition Your Poly Relationships?

A lot of poly relationships don’t so much end they transition… how do you do that well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In poly relationships, you don’t so much break up always as transition. Reid:    Those relationships never end, do they? Cathy: Some of them don’t. Reid:    They’re like […]

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How Do You Deal With Your Partners Stuff When You Have Your Own?

How do you encourage your partner to source their own support? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    A writer, a commenter, wrote in, don’t do that.  I’m Reid Mihalko nfrom ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    We had somebody who wrote a really sweet question about, in response […]

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How Can You End Co-Dependency In A Relationship Without Ending The Relationship?

Struggling with co-dependency but not wanting to end the relationship? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How can you end co-dependency in a relationship without ending the relationship? Reid:    This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid:    Our answer is… Cathy: Some of it […]

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Sharing Vulnerably and Feeling Judged?

Told you’re insecure when you open up and share vulnerably? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.

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How Do You Become A Sex Educator?

How can a non-sex educator become a sex educator? And what types of sex educators are there? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How does a lay person become a sex educator? Reid:    You said lay. Sorry. This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: […]

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How Can You Handle Fluid Bonding in Poly and Open Relationships?

If you’re fluid bonded and one of your partners partners is not playing safe with others, what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my husband and I are fluid bonded with another couple, but they’re more active in the scene and engage […]

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How Can I Attract A More Diverse And Inclusive People To My Group?

Running a Meetup group and wanting a more diverse and inclusive group? What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, “I just started this group but it’s mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people…” Reid:    […]

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How Can I Work With More Clients Without Burningout?

How can you do self-care and work with more people? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How can I work with more clients without burning out? Someone wrote in and said they’re really concerned about this. They want to make more money. They want to reach more people and they’re feeling […]

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How Can A Senior Find A Partner To Have A Great Life With?

If you want to find someone to have fun with, who is passionate for life, how do you go about it? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: What advice can you give someone who is a senior person wanting to meet a person to enjoy life with? Reid:    This is […]

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