Communication

How Can You Tune Into Your Partners Arousal To Get More Turned On?

Want to create a feedback loop with your arousal and your partners? And build intense pleasure? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said… Reid: Flowers Cathy: Coming out on the top of your head? Reid: Yep Cathy: Oh, sorry. Reid: What they say? We have writing […]

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How Can You Be More Present During Sex?

Being present during sex can enhance pleasure and connection. But how do you do that? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Have you meet more presents during sex? Reid: I’m sorry, what? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And we we’re just talking […]

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If You Have HSV1 (Herpes) How Do You Know When You Can Kiss Again?

When is it safe to kiss people if you have herpes? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “If you have HSV-1 or Herpes 1, how do you know when to kiss again?” That’s really a pointy question. If you found out and diagnosed with something, […]

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Can You Be The “Cool Kid” and Still Be Enthusiastic?

Does distance let you be the cool kid? Does enthusiasm make people withdraw? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So this is a little bit of a vulnerable discussion about being a cool kid and how enthusiastic to be. This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yeah! Cathy: He’s very […]

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How Does Shame Effect Your Ability To Share and Open Up?

Want your partner to change and think shame might help? Will it improve your relationship? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So Reid and I were just listening to Brene Brown talking about shame and I thought there was really interesting too bit that I wanted to share and talk […]

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What Do You Do If Your Date Bores You?

How do you tell your date that you don’t want to continue with your date? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you if your date bores you? Reid: Go on a second date! No! Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: And […]

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Should You Learn How To Make Your Partner “Completely Monogamous”?

Lots of programs promise to teach you how to make your partner completely loyal and monogamous, should you take them? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We have a lot of solicitation on our sight sometimes. Reid: Oh really? Cathy: And someone… Reid: Oooh… Cathy: Various different things. But this […]

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Want To Tell Someone You’re Not That Into Them, But Feel Sorry For Them?

How do you break bad news to someone you don’t want to hurt? Or you feel badly for? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So we just did a video about how to tell someone your dating that you’re just not into them. Now how do you do that when […]

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Just Want To Be Friends? What Do You Say?

If someone’s dropping the “L” word too soon, or you realize you just want to be friends… What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that […]

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What Do You Do If You Have A Passive Aggressive Friend?

Are they being mean? Or joking? When someone is passive aggressive it can be confusing. What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little passive-aggressive-  Reid: Pfft. Whatever.  Cathy: … And subtly or […]

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