Communication

Is It Safe To Be Sexually Intimate With Someone With Herpes?

Cathy: Hi Reid. One of our listeners asked, is it safe to be involved with someone with herpes? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Is it safe? Cathy: Well, it is true that our culture makes … Reid: That was a shout out to my friends who are really big geeks about […]

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I’m Afraid I’m Losing My Partner

  Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing her, and he wanted to know what to do. Do you have any suggestions? Reid: I do. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And here is our […]

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Cheating

Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, she said she’s interested in a married man and she doesn’t know what to do. Reid: Mmmhmmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from … Reid: I’m going to assume that that man’s not married to her. Cathy: No, he’s not. Reid: Mmmhmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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Privacy and Snooping

  Cathy: Someone else wrote in to us and said my boyfriend is going through my email and my phone.  He’s snooping.  What can I do, it makes me really uncomfortable? Reid: Shhh, he may be listening in right now. Cathy: That’s really uncomfortable when someone’s going through your stuff. Reid: I’m uncomfortable just filming this video.  Are […]

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Stuck in the Friend Zone

Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they’re interested with romantically. It doesn’t ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating.  What would you do, Reid Mihalko, from http://wwwReidAboutSex.com? Reid: I don’t know, Cathy Vartuli from […]

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Does your family need a “Holiday Safeword”?

Do you and your family need a Holiday Safeword? Do you know what your “Chill Down Styles” are? As my holiday gift to you, here are some fun tips that might just help you get through the “holidaze” of friends and family with more grace and ease… First, I want to invite you, if you […]

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No Mind Reading Required… Conscious Romance 101

In my last article, I talked about Kissing in the rain isn’t romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter? In case you haven’t read the article, I shared that despite what media and culture tell us, if you cut through the BS and the music swelling/tear-jerking movie hype, romance just means leaving people feeling appreciated, significant, […]

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A Warm Connection, Part II: Training Your Hamsters

In the last article, we talked about one way to create warm connection quickly: Presence. Have you been practicing being present with people? Noticing when your brain goes off on it’s own, and bringing it back to the conversation? Noticing your toes, and the color of their eyes? Even a little bit of practice can […]

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The Language Dilemma… [Article and Video]

When Language Helps Rather Than Hurts Your Relationship… As you read the following, please notice what thoughts and feelings you experience… I’ll explain my dilemma below: Women today are the most autonomous, educated & powerful generation in recorded history… Yet, do you feel like you’ve embraced your full Feminine power? What do you need to […]

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Community vs. Competition

Community Not Competition: Why do I share some of my best tips for Sex Geeks and business owners? Why do I care -even if you’re not a professional Sex Geek like me- if you’re successful creating a business and living a life you love? I think it makes for a better planet when people are […]

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