Communication

Just Want To Be Friends? What Do You Say?

If someone’s dropping the “L” word too soon, or you realize you just want to be friends… What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that […]

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What Do You Do If You Have A Passive Aggressive Friend?

Are they being mean? Or joking? When someone is passive aggressive it can be confusing. What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little passive-aggressive-  Reid: Pfft. Whatever.  Cathy: … And subtly or […]

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How Do You Handle Risk More Easily

How can you walk toward the gun and handle risk better? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Today, we’re talking about risk. How do you handle it and how can it be easier for you?  Reid: You mean the board game?  Cathy: Yes, of course.  Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from […]

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How Do You Deal With Being A Sex Educator and Someone Who Has Their Own Questions About Sex?

It can be tough to balance being an educator and being on your own journey. How can you deal with that? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you deal with being both a sex educator and a human being? Being the resource for information on dealing with personal […]

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How Do You Handle It When Your Friends And Family Don’t Support Your Sex Ed Career?

It can be confusing and frustrating when your family and friends don’t get what you do, and feel ashamed of the Sex Ed you do. How can you support yourself emotionally? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you handle it when your family and friends don’t support the […]

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Want To Date But Are Scared Of Holding Hands?

Nervous about holding hands and finding that holding you back from dating or getting close? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do if you want to get close to people, you want to go dating, but you’re scared of holding hands?  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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Not Having A Lot Of Sex And Feeling Strange Because You’re A Sex Educator?

Shouldn’t all sex educators being getting laid? Not necessarily. Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I can’t take him anywhere.  Reid: That’s why we sit right here, in front of this camera. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they’re a sex educator. Good job. They’re also going through […]

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Want The Erotic Feeling Of Someone Reading Your Mind?

How can you balance someone knowing you so well you don’t have to use your words, with being in consent and asking for what you need? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: All right. So this is the second video to the mind reading question video, because I had an […]

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When To Use Intuition and Mind Reading In Bed

Is mind reading sexy in bed? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said:  “Hey Reid, sexy question here.”  Reid: Ooh, sexy question time.  Cathy: “So I’ve just read one of your articles on communicating and not assuming that your partner can read your mind. What […]

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How Do You Deal With Major Fears Around Abandonment?

Fears of abandonment can be overwhelming and they can hurt your relationships. How can you calm the fears and be more relaxed? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you deal with major fears of abandonment? He left. The thing is this can bother and be part of a […]

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