Self Expression

How To Figure Out Your Specific Needs When You Feel Ashamed of Them?

  How To Figure Out Your Specific Needs When You Feel Ashamed of them?   Cathy: Someone wrote it and said, “How do you go about finding out what your specific needs are when you feel ashamed for needing things at all from anybody else? For example I don’t feel comfortable with asking for a […]

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As A Plus-Sized Women, How Do I Handle Pressures and Insecurities?

As A Plus-Sized Women, How Do I Handle Pressures and Insecurities? Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, “It would have been nice it would be nice to hear from Reid about any pressures he might feel about living up to expectations because on the surface he fits them all of what society deems attractive […]

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How Do You Gauge People When They’re Hard To Read?

How to find a balance where you’re not offending? Some people are hard to read so you don’t always know, if you’ve offended people. Finding that safe balance  can be a challenge. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how to find a balance between self-expression and helping […]

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The Inevitable Death Of Your Charisma And What Makes People Unattractive

These Bad Habits May Be Sucking The Attractiveness Out of YOU…  Do you wish your life was more exciting? More fulfilling? That you felt more attractive, more charismatic, and were surrounded by people and activities that nourished you? You can have/be all of those things, and they’re more achievable than you think, but to pull it […]

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Stories to Reduce Shame: Bawdy Storytelling [Video and Transcript]

How can telling Dirty Stories reduce shame and bring you self-expression and a sense of freedom? Join TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli as she interviews Dixie De La Tour from BawdyStorytelling.com/ and some of the amazing story tellers, including Allison Moon from TalesOfThePack.com, Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com, and others. Cathy: Hi, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com, […]

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