Envy

How Do You Deal With Envy When You Can’t Get A Need Met?

Envy can be tough, and it can be even harder when you have no way to get that need met. What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid being helpful.  Reid: This is a very important question and I’m feeling intimidated.  Cathy: Someone asked:  “How […]

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Jealousy vs. Envy

In the last article I talked about Jealousy as Asthma and shared how you can identify, avoid, and inoculate against the 8 tentacles/triggers of the Octopus of Jealousy. I also promised to share soon about the difference between Jealousy and Envy, because it can make a BIG difference in relationships. So here’s the distinction between jealousy and […]

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Treat Jealousy Like Asthma

Jealousy isn’t something we look at closely, in general. We’re mostly taught that jealousy is bad, painful, shameful, and there is no relief. When it comes for you, you’re sunk, and it’s better to pretend it doesn’t exist and to just suffer through it when it does happen. (Or, blame our partners viciously if jealousy […]

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