Monique and Reid Host a Play Party for All Genders in Chicago March 31st

by Erin Tillman on January 6, 2016

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Join Monique and Reid for an All Gender Play Party Experience in Chicago, March 31st!

From Monique’s website…

Let’s go on a journey of opening up to expressing yourself more at every level. What better way than a play party where you get to use your imagination to come in whatever sexy getup you have been dying to share with the world, but just needed a little nudge to do it. Tonight’s the night! Come…  BE exactly as you want to be.

Remember Voyerism IS Participation!

Join us as we set a space for you to truly feel, expand, and experience as many flavors of YOU as you dare!

THIS is the play party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND this is the play party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level. because there are no other atmosphere’s that are quite so playful, safe, and give YOU permission to be you! ♥

Doors open at 7:30pm and CLOSE AT 8:00PM.

Folks invited to purchase tickets to this event, are sensually, erotically and emotionally savvy enough to Play nicely with others. You’re a good sharer, you take good care of your toys and you use your words. 🙂 You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly…… and/or you’re someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment!

If you’re reading this, thinking, “I would love to come, but I don’t want to play,” PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit when you need.

Leave the event whenever you’d like.

Leaving early is not a no-no! You are more than welcome to arrive when the doors open and leave during or after the Welcome Circle, or anytime you’d like. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do ANY activity at this party unless you put that pressure on yourself.

My biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgemental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

I also add that you give yourself room to not be good or perfect at all of this, whatever, “all of this” means to you for an event like this.

Just set your intention for the evening on honoring and respecting both yourself, your desires, your needs, and your dislikes; give yourself room to go slowly; throw in a secondary intention to honor and respect the other guests’ needs and desires to the best of your ability while honoring yourself… And then show up to play, to relax, to frolic, and -quite possibly- to learn something about yourself!

We’ll start the opening circle when we close the doors – PLEASE text 619-655-6877 if you’re running late so we can try to hold the doors open for ya! Save yourself the stress and just get there on time and kick back. 😉

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event where sex and nudity will most likely occur. Come relax. Come sip a glass of something or a cup of tea. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch. (You know me: voyeurism is participation!)

What is Play with a capital “P”?

Play with a capital “P” is whatever it means to you. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul. Participation (also with a capital “P”) can mean many things and voyeurs are as warmly welcomed as the most actively engaged. It’s a sensual space where participants are encouraged to explore themselves and others in ways that are stimulating, nurturing, exciting, safe and FUN!

I’m going to open the doors for people to begin arriving at the above stated time and I’m going to close the doors and lock people out when we start our Welcome Circle.
The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, have a safer sex conversation, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about and get all comfy and ready to Play.
http://www.sexuality.org/ is the easiest, least scary and most direct site to go to for good safer sex info.
After the Welcome Circle, it’s an all skate! For those of you who ever went to a roller skating rink growing up, you know that an “all skate” refers to when the DJ called for everyone to get on the rink and do their thing, whatever their thing might be.

WHAT TO BRING: You and your sexy ass (no farm animals, please). Whatever food and drink you might want for the evening. (No drugs other than alcohol please. We like our Playmates to be present and capable of connection.) If you’d like to share, that’s very nice. Sharing is caring. 🙂 Bring whatever sexy things you’d like to don and lounge in while we frolick or just throw on your regular weekend clothes or relaxation and chillin’. Bring along whatever safer sex accoutrements you desire (condoms, dental dams, gloves, toys, lube – whatever you might be needing to create that perrrrrfect evening). I have lots of supplies and toys, but only YOU know what YOU need. Oh, and please bring a Playful attitude and an open heart and mind.

PLEASE BE ON TIME. For participants to Play with abandon, we need to co-create a safe environment. Having people floating in and out makes that difficult. Therefore, the doors will lock at the time mentioned above, sharp. If you are running unavoidably late, call and we’ll see what we can do. But don’t run unavoidably late please. Looking forward to Playing with you!

Email Monique or call if you have any questions or concerns -619-655-6877

Kisses and hugs and relaxin’ in a sex-positive space!

DATE: Thursday Mar 31, 2016
TIME: 7:30pm-12:00pm
LOCATION: Chicago, Illinois
COST: $45 for Male identified and $25 for Female identified OR $65/pair
RSVP TO SAVE YOUR SPOT: HERE! 

View the Facebook Event Here!

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS
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ABOUT REID: America’s favorite sex geek, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com and Relationship10x.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.

Reid frequently speaks at colleges and universities on sexual assault prevention and healthy relationship skills, and regularly appears in the media sharing his views on consent, dating, and shame-free sexuality.  

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by close to 50,000 men and women. He has appeared in media such as Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people, transform move lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

Follow Reid on Twitter and Facebook and YouTube.

Healer and teacher Monique Darling with a huge, happy, laughing smile and flowing brown hair in a flowery bushABOUT MONIQUE: Monique Darling, workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 800 workshops in the past 5 years. She is the founder of Juicy Enlightenment an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the USA. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating.She guides from a place of understanding and her natural exuberance is infectious! She is available for private sessions, experiential workshops and Cuddle Parties. Learn more about Monique by going to juicyenlightenment.com or track her whereabouts at whereintheworldismoniquedarling.com

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