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Where Do You Find Sexy, Kinky Sex Geeks?

Where Do You Find Sexy, Kinky Sex Geeks?             Cathy: Where do you find sexy, kinky, sex geeks? Reid: Look where the tuxes are that’s where you’ll find them. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com my luggage got lost this morning and all I […]

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Guys Don’t Have To Musterbate, Their Partners Can Do It For Them! What??!!

Guys Don’t Have To Musterbate, Their Partners Can Do It For Them! What??!!     Cathy: In response to our video in masturbation someone wrote in and says the guy doesn’t have to masturbate his wife or girlfriend can do if or him. He should never have to jerk off if he has a woman […]

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How Do You Run A Great Sex Positive Play Party?

How Do You Run A Great Sex Positive Play Party?       Cathy: How do you run a great sex positive play party? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com who’s thrown a bunch of parties. Reid: Like a lot at this point, very many. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com who’s thrown fewer […]

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Is There A Way To Know If a Person Is Being Honest That He’s In an Open Relationship?

Is There A Way To Know If a Person Is Being Honest That He’s In an Open Relationship?         Reid: One of our listeners wrote in. Many men say that they’re in an open relationship just to let you think that I believe, I’m not sure if that’s written correctly. I just […]

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Safer Sex: E is for Essentials About Me

Use your safer sex/STI status conversation as building blocks towards creating a sexy, satisfying win-win by including an Essentials About Me segment! In my Safer Sex Elevator Speech post, I share my favorite way to have a safer sex , STD/STI status conversation. I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help remind me of each step. […]

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How To Be Clear That You’re Poly If You Decide Not To Come Out Because of Your Kids or Work?

How To Be Clear That You’re Poly If You Decide Not To Come Out Because of Your Kids or Work?     Reid: A writer writes in! Reid, how do you be clear that you’re poly when you’re dating if you decided not to come out as poly for the sake of your kids or […]

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What To Do When You Want To Start Out A Conversation That You’ve Never Brought Up Before!

What To Do When You Want To Start Out A Conversation That You’ve Never Brought Up Before!     Reid: How do you have a scary conversation when there’re something you want to talk about your relationship and you’ve never brought it up before. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ and I’m sitting with.. Stella: […]

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Places To Go If You’re Exploring Poly in Portland and Other Places! With Stella Harris

Places To Go If You’re Exploring Poly in Portland and Other Places! With Stella Harris     Reid: You live in Portland, Oregon? Stella: That’s true. Reid: Or maybe some place else? And you’re trying to get into the Polyamory thing, who do you call? This is Stella Harris from http://www.StellaHarris.net/. Who am I? Stella: […]

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Good Resources for Beginners Who Want To Bring Kink Into Their Relationships

Good Resources for Beginners Who Want To Bring Kink Into Their Relationships     Reid: What are good resources for people who have never really explored kink to go get resource to start bringing kink or exploring kink in your relationships? Hi, I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ and this is… Stella: Stella Harris from http://www.StellaHarris.net/. […]

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How Do You Add Kink Into A Relationship That Maybe Wasn’t Kinky? With Stella Harris

How Do You Add Kink Into A Relationship That Maybe Wasn’t Kinky? With Stella Harris     Reid: How do you add kink into a relationship that maybe wasn’t kinky? I’m here with Stella Harris from http://www.StellaHarris.net/. A romance and intimacy and kinky educator. And I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Stella.. Stella: Reid.. Reid: Give […]

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