Communication

When Do You Try To Upgrade, and When Do You Set Boundaries?

If your partner asks for something that’s challenging, when do you try to step up and when do you say no? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my question is say my partner ask to meet a need for them, which is difficult for me. […]

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How Do You Handle Missed-Promises?

If a friend promises something but can’t delivery… What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Last video. Hugh Jackman Maroon 5. In this video, how do you handle mispromises, you have a friend who promised you something and they couldn’t deliver. How do you handle mispromises? Cathy: […]

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What Do You Do If You’re Banned From A Community And Don’t Know What You Did?

Finding a balance between making it safe for people to share boundary violations and protecting their privacy, and removing people who violate boundaries- perhaps unknowingly is challenging. How do you handle it? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What happens if you get banned from a community? How should you […]

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What’s A Mark Group And How Can They Help You Connect?

A lot of people struggle to find connection. How can a Mark Group help? Dan Powers from BeyondTheBedroomEvents.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Wahahaha! Hello, Dan. Dan: Do I have to have a laugh like that? Reid: No, you don’t have to laugh. Dan: Okay, good. Reid: This is Dan Powers from Beyond the […]

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You’re Partner’s Sex Drive On Again, Off Again? What Can You Do?

How can you take care of yourself when you’re partners sexual connection is on-again, off-again? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -“  Reid: Is it “we have had” or “I have […]

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He’s Just Not Interested In Sex With Me… What Do I Do?

What can you do when your partner doesn’t want to have sex with you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer […]

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Lying and The Three Strikes Rule… What Is It And How Do You Use It?

How does the 3 Strikes Rule apply to lying? Does changing your mind count as a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cathy promised me that was the last video but now we have to shoot another one.  Cathy: Actually I-  Reid: You lied to me!  Cathy: No, you […]

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Is The A Difference Between Telling A Lie And Changing Your Mind?

When does not keeping your word mean you’re telling a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We’ve talked about before about what to do if you’re caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, “My boyfriend has lied to me […]

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Can The Marriage Be Saved If One Partner Doesn’t Want Sex?

Tried everything but sex is off the table? Is the marriage over? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn’t want to sleep with me, we’ve had a lot of people writing in about this. It’s a great question. This woman wrote in […]

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If You Go Down On Someone, Do You Have To Go Until They Finish?

If you give someone a blow job or cunnilingus, are you stuck doing it until they come? Learn more from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “If you start a blow job or cunnilingus, don’t you have to finish?” Like, when we’re talking about how you […]

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