Communication & Repair

How Do I Know if I am Monogamous or Poly?

How Do I Know if I am Monogamous or Poly? Cathy: How do I know if I’m monogamous or poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/Cathy: How do I know if I’m monogamous or poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And someone wrote […]

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How To Deal With Someone Who Says No To Flirting In A Powerful Way?

How To Deal With Someone Who Says No To Flirting In A Powerful Way? Cathy: How can you deal with someone say ‘No’ to flirting in a powerful way? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/.Cathy: How can you deal with someone say ‘No’ to flirting in a powerful way? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. […]

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An Apology To You For Disappearing For a Year…

If someone says I harmed them, I start with believing them. Period. Any other response, for me goes against my values. Any other response would be inappropriate. I wasn’t interested in adding myself to the list of men who deny, retaliate, or minimize the harms they’re being invited to hold themselves accountable for.

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How Do You Say No to Flirting?

How Do You Say No to Flirting? Cathy: How do you say no to flirting? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Hi Cathy. Cathy: Hey Reid. Reid: How do you say no to flirting? Cathy: Oh, you’re being really obvious. Reid: Yeah. How do you say no? […]

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Do You Ever Have Problems Speaking Up?

Do You Ever Have Problems Speaking Up? Cathy: Do you ever have problems speaking up? Reid: Nope! Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Nope. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. I just want to keep yelling the whole video. I’m so sorry. You’re so patient for listening and watching. Cathy: Yeah, they […]

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How Do You Get Multiple Partners So You Don’t Build Premature Connection?

How Do You Get Multiple Partners So You Don’t Build Premature Connection? How to find play partners so you can have multiple lovers and avoid connecting too deeply too soon? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said “Hi Reid! I’m working my way through the why are people into that podcast and came across […]

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If You’re Poly And You’re Dating, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not “Out?”

If You’re Poly And You’re Dating, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not “Out?” Cathy: If you’re poly and you’re dating, are there good ways to make sure that people you’re dating are aware that you’re not coming out because of work or kids? Reid: I really thought you’d say “If […]

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How To Deal With Metamours Or Your Partner’s Partners?

How To Deal With Metamours Or Your Partner’s Partners? Cathy: Reid, how do you deal with metamours or your partner’s partner? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Cathy is not wearing tux today because the Airlines did not lose her luggage and she has […]

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Mono/Poly Relationship, The Poly Person Enamored With A New Relationship… What Do You Do?

Mono/Poly Relationship, The Poly Person Enamored With A New Relationship… What Do You Do? How do you deal with a mono/poly relationship where the poly person is in New Relationship Energy and is paying lots of attention to the new lover? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So […]

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Cathy Vartuli On Status, Standards and How Society Has To Say About What Should Be Like

Cathy Vartuli On Status, Standards and How Society Has To Say About What Should Be Like Reid: In the last video were talking about status and standards and how society can fuck with us around like who we’re attracted to and I’m curious about what Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com has to say about how […]

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