Dating skills

What Do Sex Educators Do?

What Do Sex Educators Do?               Cathy: What does a sex educator actually do? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: I’m here with Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ sitting right next to me. Cathy: Yup. So Reid, what is it that a sex educator, if you were defining […]

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Getting A Sex Doll To Satisfy Your Partner When You’re Not Being Frisky

Getting A Sex Doll To Satisfy Your Partner When You’re Not Being Frisky         Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do you guys feel about getting  a sex doll to satisfy your partner when you’re not feeling frisky?” They’re wondering if it’s a good way to keep people happy when one […]

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Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone

Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone             Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love you to talk about the fear that one’s desires are too unrealistic or niche to express or share with anyone.” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli […]

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I’m Socially Shy But Sexually Adventuresome… Is That Normal?

I’m Socially Shy But Sexually Adventuresome… Is That Normal?     Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Typical normies believe in a truly shy person will find themselves in a fucking orgy of all places. Please make a helpful video for those who actually need advice.” This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is […]

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Transitioning From A Polyamorous Lifestyle To A Monogamous Relationship

Transitioning From A Polyamorous Lifestyle To A Monogamous Relationship               Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love to hear Reid’s thoughts about transitioning from a poly lifestyle to entering a monogamous relationship.” This is Reid Mihalko from https://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and hear […]

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If I Had A Breakthrough in ______, I’d Have Better Sex…

If I Had A Breakthrough in ______, I’d Have Better Sex… Cathy: So Reid you did this great exercise at http://sex10x.kajabi.com/and I thought it would really be fun to share here. Reid: Okay, the chance is I don’t remember what it was. Cathy: I know and I’ll tell you Reid: Okay Cathy: And then you […]

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I’m Interested In Dating Someone But I Always End Up Running Away, What’s Should I do?

I’m Interested In Dating Someone But I Always End Up Running Away, What’s Should I do? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’m having a hard time dating because I get really messed up when I’m interested into someone. I’m usually okay for the first couple weeks but then, either I ended up clinging or […]

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What Does Society Tell Us About Attraction?

What Does Society Tell Us About Attraction? Cathy: Someone wrote in about we have been….we had some video about INCEL and people that are involuntarily in celibate and someone Reid: Yeah, that’s what Incel stands for. Cathy: Yes, and someone wrote in and said that most people think I’m creepy because they… I….my look are not […]

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When and How To Use The Safer Sex Elevator Speech?

When and How To Use The Safer Sex Elevator Speech? Cathy: I’m curious about when to initiate the safer sex elevator speech. It sounds like it comes before kissing especially for including oral herpes in this discussion. But I don’t usually talk about sex until I know someone’s interested which I frequently find out by […]

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When Your Enthusiasm Overpower Someone’s Consent….

When Your Enthusiasm Overpower Someone’s Consent… Find out more now with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Alright there we go. Ah! Cathy: Are we live? Reid: I think we’re live. Cathy: Does anyone see anything? Reid: This is real life. I don’t know. Cathy: Hopefully not. Reid: Hello everyone it’s […]

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