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Argument Guidelines… Smart or Weird?!

Is it smart to establish argument guidelines and let your partner know what your argument triggers are? When should you do this? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Here’s the link to the Cool Down Styles: ReidAboutSex.com/Cool-Down-Styles/ Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, I’m wondering if I’m weird. I […]

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Can You Get Herpes From Cuddling?

Herpes can be spread from touch… can you get Herpes from Cuddling? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Reid: Yeah. Cathy: So Reid… Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Can you get herpes II from cuddling? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: The answer is technically yes.  […]

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When Can Gossip Be Good? How Can Gossip Help?!

Gossip is normally destructive and hurtful, but when can it be useful and even loving to have people talk behind your back? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Reid: Do you enjoy gossip? Cathy: When can gossip actually be good for your community? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m […]

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Is It An Addiction If You Always Watch Porn When You Masturbate?

Feel compelled to watch porn when you masturbate? Is that an addiction? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Cathy: Is it an addiction if you always want to watch porn when you masturbate? I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and this is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Reid: How did you know?  How […]

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When A Single Man Wants To Go To A Swingers Club…

It can be challenging for a single man to go to a swingers club, how can you make a difference? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that he’d like to go to a swingers club. He wanted to experience it, but he’s a single male […]

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When Your Partner Has Herpes…

It can be frightening when you find out that your partner has Herpes. How do you support your partner while you deal with your reaction? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Reid: We’re going to talk about herpes, yeah. I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: […]

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How To Share Feedback AND Leave Your Partner Feeling Appreciated!

Ever heard of the Appreciation Sandwich? Using this can help you give feedback and suggestions AND gently and clearly ask for upgrades. With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Do you like sandwiches?  How about an appreciation sandwich? This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. […]

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Arousal, Attraction, Desire… When Its Nice and When Its Not

When is someone else’s attraction and desire nice… and when is it unpleasant, and what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Hi, I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We’re talking about arousal, attraction, and when it’s nice and when […]

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How Do You Deal With Energetic Attention That Is… or Is NOT Comfortable

What do you do when someone’s giving you a lot of energetic attention in ways that may or may not be comfortable? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do when someone’s giving you a lot of energetic attention in ways that may or may not be comfortable? […]

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Marketing Geek Tip #1: Following Other Marketers and Shopping Around

How can you get the best “bonus” deals when you buy a product, and why you might want to follow your “competitors and high end online marketers. With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hello, everybody, yo, yo, yo. No Sex Geek shirt today. It’s Lynchburg College time because I just […]

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