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I Have An Idea! Initiating Intimacy

Cathy: So we’re back. Reid is going to explain, “I have an idea.” Reid: We’re back from what? What if this is this person’s first video they’re ever watching? They don’t really know where we were. Cathy: That’s true. Reid: You should probably tell them. Cathy: We were just discussing … Reid: Who are you? Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. […]

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How Can You Tell Who To Approach For A Three-Some?

Cathy: We had someone ask us- you’re such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, “Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?” I know someone who runs a class on that. I thought we’d ask you. Reid: Yeah, just approach me. Next question. Cathy: How do you […]

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What To Do When Your Partner Is Depressed

  Cathy: We have another comment from someone asking for help. Reid: Okay. Cathy:  His wife is going through some family stuff, and she’s been really depressed. Every time he tries to talk to her about it, because their relationship is being … Is not going really well. She just kind of shuts down and he’s really frustrated, […]

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If I Need Lube For Sex, Does That Mean I’m Not Turned On?

  Cathy: We had someone write to us about needing lube for sex. She had thought originally because she needed lube, her partner thought that that meant she wasn’t turned on. What do you think about that Reid? Reid: I have lots of thoughts about this. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Lube. […]

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Talking About Masturbation

  Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What are we talking about today? Cathy: Masturbation. In our society, a lot of people were taught that […]

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I’m Afraid I’m Losing My Partner

  Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing her, and he wanted to know what to do. Do you have any suggestions? Reid: I do. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And here is our […]

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Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

  Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you know there were 8,000 nerve endings in the anus? Reid: Whoa.  No wonder.  There’s a cat walking around here. Cathy: Do you want to restart it? Reid: No.  That’s […]

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Being Attracted to Unavailable and Distant People

Cathy: Do you ever find that you’re getting attracted, you find yourself attracted to people that are distant or emotionally unavailable? That can be a pattern that some people can fond to. And if you can just hit them upside the head it would make you feel better. Reid: Yeah, just do that. Next video please. […]

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Cheated On In Relationship

Cathy: What do you do when your partner cheats on you? Reid: I get angry, that’s what I do. Cathy: Thank you, that was so helpful Reid Mihalko from http://www.Reidaboutsex.com. Reid: Awesome. You’re welcome Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: It can be really devastating to be cheated on. There’s a trust that’s been broken. Cheating and having open-relationships are […]

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Cheating

Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, she said she’s interested in a married man and she doesn’t know what to do. Reid: Mmmhmmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from … Reid: I’m going to assume that that man’s not married to her. Cathy: No, he’s not. Reid: Mmmhmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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