Video & Audio

How To Be a Great Kisser: From Awkward To Wow! [Video]

Improve your Kiss-Ability! Kissing is the Starting Line for most sexual interaction. When you’re confident and know how to use your body, how to listen to their body, and are able to tune into the mutual energy between you two, making out becomes it’s own exciting race track of sensuality! Reid shows you how to […]

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Dating Your Species Workshop [Video and Transcript]

Most people’s relationship problems stem from being in love with good people who are HORRIBLE fits…  Are you confused about dating, mating, and relating in the 21st Century? Unsure how to make a relationship last past a season of Project Runway or Monday Night Football? Can’t tell Mr/Ms. Right from Mr/Ms. Trainwreck? Dating, marriage and […]

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How to Have A Better Con [Video and Transcript]

That’s Con, not Kahn! Conferences, workshops and events can be a blast! And they can be overwhelming and leave you exhausted and worn out. Here’s a video (and transcript) I did with The Intimacy Dojo’s Cathy Vartuli on how to have a better conference experience! Cathy:              Do you want to have a better conference? Reid:                […]

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The Language Dilemma… [Article and Video]

When Language Helps Rather Than Hurts Your Relationship… As you read the following, please notice what thoughts and feelings you experience… I’ll explain my dilemma below: Women today are the most autonomous, educated & powerful generation in recorded history… Yet, do you feel like you’ve embraced your full Feminine power? What do you need to […]

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Why is Vulnerability Vital to Intimacy? [Video and Transcript]

Why is Vulnerability Vital to Intimacy? Get the deep, meaningful relationships by being authentic and transparent. Learn why and how you can share more of the REAL you! Join TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli and moi as we share simple, practical steps you can take to bring the passion back into your life, and create warmth and […]

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Reid Gets Punched In The A-hole [Video and Transcript]

Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com makes an appearance at Dixie De La Tour’s true-life, dirty storytelling event, Bawdy Storytelling, and shares his personal tale about sleeping with one’s heroes for Bawdy’s “Star F*cker” theme. Recorded live in San Fran, June 2013. Dixie De La Tour:     He is a relationship coach, a sex educator and a role model and […]

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Stories to Reduce Shame: Bawdy Storytelling [Video and Transcript]

How can telling Dirty Stories reduce shame and bring you self-expression and a sense of freedom? Join TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli as she interviews Dixie De La Tour from http://bawdystorytelling.com/ and some of the amazing story tellers, including Allison Moon from http://www.TalesOfThePack.com, Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com, and others. Cathy: Hi, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com, […]

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Delayed Ejaculation: Suggestions with Humor [Video and Transcript]

If you have trouble ejaculating, or have a partner who does, this video will give you insights and ideas to help. In this video (transcript below), TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli and I share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase pleasure.   Cathy:              Hi, I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:                I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy:              We […]

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What To Do If Your Partner Isn’t Hard [Video and Transcript]

Not to sure what to do in bed if your partner’s penis isn’t hard? Do you feel ashamed or embarrassed? In this video (transcript below), TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli and I discuss playing with flaccid penises (a.k.a when they aren’t hard).   Cathy:              Hey everyone. Have you ever been in bed with someone and you weren’t […]

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Afraid of Touch? Tips for Creating Safety Around Touch. [Video and Transcript]

Fear of touch can create a conflict- you long for connection and you freeze up at the thought. People need touch to really thrive. Avoid skin hunger and learn how to start feeling safer receiving concentual touch and getting the warmth and connection you long for. In this video (transcript below) The Intimacy Dojo’s Cathy Vartuli […]

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