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Cheating

Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, she said she’s interested in a married man and she doesn’t know what to do. Reid: Mmmhmmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from … Reid: I’m going to assume that that man’s not married to her. Cathy: No, he’s not. Reid: Mmmhmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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Digging Deeping in Your Relationships

Cathy: Have you found that your relationship might be a little stagnant? Or that you’re not growing as fast as you would like? Reid: What? I thought everything was fine. What are you telling me? Cathy: Actually, digging into some of the deeper stuff in your relationship, having the conversations that you don’t normally have, can help […]

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Does He Love Me

Cathy: Does he love me? How can I tell? Someone wrote in and asked us that question the other day. It’s a great question. And this is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and apparently, we’ve killed him, so I’ll just do this talk without him. Reid: Oh, let me count the […]

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Doing Things In Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

  Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don’t really know they want to try. They’re not really sure and … Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I’m sure that was it. Reid: That’s crummy. Cathy: Oh my god. Reid: […]

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Can Mindfulness Increase Connection and Enjoyment?

Can mindfulness increase connection and enjoyment in relationships? If you want more zest in your romantic life, listen in while Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and ideas about being present during connecting. Reid: Why are you pushing me? Quit hogging the camera. Cathy: Your big shoulder is on the […]

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Commitment: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly

Wondering when commitment works and when it doesn’t? Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss the ins and outs of commitment, and why we may have different needs for commitment now. Reid: We’re back. It’s Cathy Vartuli from http://TheInitimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. And we’re talking about commitment. Cathy: Commitment can […]

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Asking for Reassurance without Blaming

Do you need reassurance and comfort from your partner? Want to ask in a way that gets you more of what you want and builds connection? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com as they give tips and new perspectives. Reid: Hello, welcome, it’s… Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Reid Mihalko […]

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Getting Your Partner to Grow Up

Cathy: We’ve a bunch of people writing in and sharing things with us at the bottom of our videos, and one of the questions lately was how do I get my partner to grow up and stop being childish, and I can really use this advice right now. Reid: Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy […]

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How Do I Know When She’s Come

Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I think in our society to know when the person had an orgasm or not. Reid: Our society is […]

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Privacy and Snooping

  Cathy: Someone else wrote in to us and said my boyfriend is going through my email and my phone.  He’s snooping.  What can I do, it makes me really uncomfortable? Reid: Shhh, he may be listening in right now. Cathy: That’s really uncomfortable when someone’s going through your stuff. Reid: I’m uncomfortable just filming this video.  Are […]

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