My First Play Party Practicum, San Diego, June 29th

by Reid on April 23, 2013

Sex and Relationship Expert Reid MihalkoTHIS is the play party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND…

THIS is the play party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.

Doors open at 7:30pm and CLOSE AT 8:00PM.

Things to know about attending our My First Play Party Practicum

  • Folks invited to purchase tickets to this event, are sensually, erotically and emotionally savvy enough to Play nicely with others.
  • You’re a good sharer, you take good care of your toys and you use your words. 🙂
  • You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly……
  • And/or you’re someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment!

If you’re reading this, thinking, “I would love to come, but I don’t want to play,” PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit when you need.

Leaving early is NOT a no-no! You are more than welcome to arrive when the doors open and leave during or after the Welcome Circle, or anytime you’d like. Really. There will be nopressure for you to do ANY activity at this party unless you put that pressure on yourself.

Our biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

I also add that you give yourself room to not be good or perfect at all of this, whatever, “all of this” means to you for an event like this.

Just set your intention for the evening on honoring and respecting both yourself, your desires, your needs, and your dislikes; give yourself room to go slowly; throw in a secondary intention to honor and respect the other guests’ needs and desires to the best of your ability while honoring yourself… And then show up to play, to relax, to frolic, and -quite possibly- to learn something about yourself!

We’ll start the opening circle when we close the doors – PLEASE text 917.207.4554 or 619-655-6877 if you’re running late so we can try to hold the doors open for ya! Save yourself the stress and just get there on time and kick back. 😉

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event where sex and nudity will most likely occur. Come relax. Come sip a glass of something or a cup of tea. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch. (You know me: voyeurism is participation!)

What is Play with a capital “P”?

Play with a capital “P” is whatever it means to you. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul. Participation (also with a capital “P”) can mean many things and voyeurs are as warmly welcomed as the most actively engaged. It’s a sensual space where participants are encouraged to explore themselves and others in ways that are stimulating, nurturing, exciting, safe and FUN!

Everyone who attends Monique and Reid’s Energetic Sex Practicum and Playground PART 2, June 29 is invited to attend the play party “lab.”

We’re going to open the doors for people to begin arriving at the above stated time and I’m going to close the doors and lock people out when we start our Welcome Circle.

The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, have a safer sex conversation, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about and get all comfy and ready to Play. is the easiest, least scary and most direct site to go to for good safer sex info.

After the Welcome Circle, it’s an all skate! For those of you who ever went to a roller skating rink growing up, you know that an “all skate” refers to when the DJ called for everyone to get on the rink and do their thing, whatever their thing might be.

WHAT TO BRING: You and your sexy ass (no farm animals, please). Whatever food and drink you might want for the evening. (No drugs other than alcohol please. We like our Playmates to be present and capable of connection.) If you’d like to share, that’s very nice. Sharing is caring. 🙂 Bring whatever sexy things you’d like to don and lounge in while we frolic or just throw on your regular weekend clothes or relaxation and chillin’. Bring along whatever safer sex accoutrements you desire (condoms, dental dams, gloves, toys, lube – whatever you might be needing to create that perrrrrfect evening). I have lots of supplies and toys, but only YOU know what YOU need. Oh, and please bring a Playful attitude and an open heart and mind.

PLEASE BE ON TIME. For participants to Play with abandon, we need to co-create a safe environment. Having people floating in and out makes that difficult. Therefore, the doors will lock at the time mentioned above, sharp. If you are running unavoidably late, call and we’ll see what we can do. But don’t run unavoidably late please. Looking forward to Playing with you!

Date: Saturday, June 29th
Time: 7:30-Midnight
Location: Pu’uhonua, near of San Diego – Exact location upon registration.
Cost: Membership cost to attend event- $30
Tickets: Love Exchange


  Experience More Reid

Fri, June 28th: Energetic Sex Introductory Evening (Catch Up)

Sat, June 29th: Monique and Reid’s Energetic Sex Practicum and Playground PART 2!

Sat Night, June 29th: My First Play Party Practicum

Sun, June 30th: Got Vulnerability? Communication, Authenticity, & Vulnerability 101


ReidSeatedCheckeredShirt-206x300About Reid:  Reid Mihalko of helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

Reid has appeared on Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, People, Details, Marie Claire, The National Equirer, The Washington Post, on VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio, Playboy Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

To date, Reid’s workshops and lectures have been attended by close to 40,000 men and women.  Reid has been a featured speaker and keynote at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher at colleges and sex positive organizations across the country.  Reid has also been a writer, producer and behind the scenes consultant on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships.

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Healer and teacher Monique Darling with a huge, happy, laughing smile and flowing brown hair in a flowery bushABOUT MONIQUE: Monique Darling of is dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be; and to offer tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to make the life they want. It’s a lot of hard work, but it’s the kind of work that makes life easier.

Since 1990, Monique has felt the calling to learn from some amazing teachers including Wayne Dyer, Matt Kahn, Reid Mihalko, WhiteBear, Shawn Roop, ABDY, Kamala Devi, and Scott Catamas to name a few. She has through workshops, courses, and client sessions, experienced how spirit/love moves through her using intuition, touch, play and emotional release in helping people embrace the truth of their divinity.

Her specialty is transmuting fear and repression into courage, love and freedom to express truth in ways that nourish all.

She is devoted to helping YOU uncover your magnificence!!! To empower YOU, who dream of something more, to awaken further and discover it is within you. You have all the answers, let her help you remember the questions.

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