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I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?

I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’m a guy who has had sex with women for my entire life but I think I’m gay or bi. How do I ethically have sex with both men and […]

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How To Figure Out Your Specific Needs When You Feel Ashamed of Them?

  How To Figure Out Your Specific Needs When You Feel Ashamed of them?   Cathy: Someone wrote it and said, “How do you go about finding out what your specific needs are when you feel ashamed for needing things at all from anybody else? For example I don’t feel comfortable with asking for a […]

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How To Avoid Procrastination On That Great Workshop Idea?

  How To Avoid Procrastination On That Great Workshop Idea? Cathy: Have you ever had a great idea for a workshop but you kept procrastinating and struggling with it maybe because it meant so much to you, you’re afraid you wouldn’t get it right? This is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from […]

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Reid’s Broadcasting Live Inside The Train!

Reid’s Broadcasting Live Inside The Train!         Reid: Hello sex geek! It is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I’m trying to live stream from the train. Let’s see if I can do this…..there you go. I know it’s noisy but I just wanted to do…..to share this really fun experience. Woh! It’s […]

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VIRTUAL Blowjob Grad School

You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Fellatio! And Do It Without Ever Leaving Your Home! If you… Would like to take your current skills and craft to Jedi levels… Ask questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks… Leave your loved ones stammering, […]

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Reid’s Difficult Conversation Party!

Come Join The Party… A Difficult Conversation Party! If you’re cooped up in the house with roommates and/or loved ones… If you’re feeling tension between you and others IRL (In Real Life) or over video chat… It might be time for a Difficult Conversation, which means it’s time to practice our Difficult Conversation kung-fu! Join […]

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Informing You About My Accountability Process

[Some of the following text is taken from the flyer I make available at all of my workshops and appearances. I’m sharing it here to also give readers a sense of what and how information about my accountability process is being shared offline when I’m teaching.] Information about Reid Mihalko’s Accountability Process In early 2018, […]

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Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – UPGRADED for Your P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E.

Many people find it difficult to have a safer sex conversation because no one ever taught us how! I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help me recall each of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech’s 8 steps…

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Reid’s Pegging Grad School straps it on for Albuquerque, Nov 9th, at Self Serve Toys!

Pegging Grad School: Get Your PhD in Strap-On, Bend Over Your Boyfriend, Pleasure! If you… Are curious about strap-on play and pegging (anal penetration on a man via a strap-on harness and dildo) but have never tried it… Already have your Masters Degree in dildos and prostate pleasure but are looking for a few advance techniques… […]

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What’s Your “Getting Things Done Style?” [Business Advice for Sex Educators]

What’s your “Getting Things Done” Style? So many people teach what to do to grow your business, but not many people talk about HOW to go about doing all the tasks that are needed to be done once it grows. This was a challenge for me in my growing career as “America’s favorite Sex Geek.” […]

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